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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nope this isn't one for the drivers sorry.Knowing that somebody likes you, but you don't see it,im terrible for it,in here and vanilla.I often wonder if people who i have chatted to or current ones are thinking the same thing, but no-one makes the move or says anything, so another opportunity goes bye bye , anyone relate to this,or have i read the room terribly and no one gives a hoot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope this isn't one for the drivers sorry.Knowing that somebody likes you, but you don't see it,im terrible for it,in here and vanilla.I often wonder if people who i have chatted to or current ones are thinking the same thing, but no-one makes the move or says anything, so another opportunity goes bye bye , anyone relate to this,or have i read the room terribly and no one gives a hoot "

Lets stop playing games with each other OP I like you and you like me haha :P

But yeah I know what you mean but I guess some people are good at showing how open they are more than others, I try to make the move if interested and deal with it gracefully if there not.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

But how do you know if they like you if you can't see it and they don't tell you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also goes the other way too, you get the ones that don’t pick up on the subtle no thanks signs and it gets awkward real fast..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I can relate. Maybe someone should list all the signs for us for yeah they do and nah they don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I can relate. Maybe someone should list all the signs for us for yeah they do and nah they don't. "
Would make a great forum thread hopey

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I know where you're coming from. I never see it when it's directed at me, but at others I often wonder why they can't see it?

Mandy

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Yeah I can relate. Maybe someone should list all the signs for us for yeah they do and nah they don't. Would make a great forum thread hopey "

You'd be quicker reading the Encyclopedia Britannica.

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Yeah I think everyone must think I'm a fat ugly bastard so assume nobody finds me attractive and flirts

I'm getting better at noticing the signs though

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

What’s happend to im really into you do let’s get a room

Being direct always works for me one way or the other

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"What’s happend to im really into you do let’s get a room

Being direct always works for me one way or the other "

Makes a note.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Sorry to jump on the thread anyone been to cjs and can give me some information on it thank u

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Sorry to jump on the thread anyone been to cjs and can give me some information on it thank u"

Just search for CJ’s in the forum search loads of results also info on club pages .

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By *opeydeviantMan
over a year ago

Livingston


"Nope this isn't one for the drivers sorry.Knowing that somebody likes you, but you don't see it,im terrible for it,in here and vanilla.I often wonder if people who i have chatted to or current ones are thinking the same thing, but no-one makes the move or says anything, so another opportunity goes bye bye , anyone relate to this,or have i read the room terribly and no one gives a hoot "

I think we are related Hahaha I could've wrote that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope this isn't one for the drivers sorry.Knowing that somebody likes you, but you don't see it,im terrible for it,in here and vanilla.I often wonder if people who i have chatted to or current ones are thinking the same thing, but no-one makes the move or says anything, so another opportunity goes bye bye , anyone relate to this,or have i read the room terribly and no one gives a hoot

I think we are related Hahaha I could've wrote that "
Thanks bro

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By *heRemotePartMan
over a year ago

West Fife


"Nope this isn't one for the drivers sorry.Knowing that somebody likes you, but you don't see it,im terrible for it,in here and vanilla.I often wonder if people who i have chatted to or current ones are thinking the same thing, but no-one makes the move or says anything, so another opportunity goes bye bye , anyone relate to this,or have i read the room terribly and no one gives a hoot "

This is my life haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad people actually can relate, thought it was just me

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"What’s happend to im really into you do let’s get a room

Being direct always works for me one way or the other "

Yip. They would need be to this direct with me. I dont pick up on subtle hints. Just think folknare being friendly. Plus I'm shite at flirting!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What’s happend to im really into you do let’s get a room

Being direct always works for me one way or the other

Yip. They would need be to this direct with me. I dont pick up on subtle hints. Just think folknare being friendly. Plus I'm shite at flirting!"
Yea that's fair enough, always two sides to the coin

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Oh yes. A lady at work. Gutted

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

One side has to pluck up the courage to start a conversation and ask them out for a coffee or a drink. I was asked out for lunch a few weeks ago and it’s now going really well.

The opposite is also true. I try to let people down gently but if they don’t get the hint they end up blocked. There’s no need to send offensive messages just because I’m not interested which is what often happens.

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By *omble 69Man
over a year ago

Symington

Politeness costs nothing I'm a great believer in treat others as you would like to be treated

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Politeness costs nothing I'm a great believer in treat others as you would like to be treated "

Which is what I do try when letting people down if they ask to meet but like a lot of women on here you get a barrage of abuse because you’ve said ‘no’. That’s why many just delete the messages or block people. Guys don’t seem to accept that they aren’t attractive to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think maybe alot of is the fear of rejection

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Never been good at reading the signs…or sending them for that matter

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By *opeydeviantMan
over a year ago

Livingston

I'm just no good at picking up interest ,I can take bugger off hints ,softly or harshly I see it coming but in the other direction I'm not good , I just get lost in conversation a good chat can be inspiring so much you get stuck in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s happend to im really into you do let’s get a room

Being direct always works for me one way or the other

Yip. They would need be to this direct with me. I dont pick up on subtle hints. Just think folknare being friendly. Plus I'm shite at flirting!"

Same I tend to think people are just being friendly.

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