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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evening folks,going to the valentine social,and its my first! and i'm in a flap,will be driving there and home so no dutch courage!,how did you get over 'it' if you like?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Evening folks,going to the valentine social,and its my first! and i'm in a flap,will be driving there and home so no dutch courage!,how did you get over 'it' if you like?"
You will be fine just think of it as a big nite out with friends lol everyone so friendly and will welcome you we were all new once to socials ...relax n have fun xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big girls blouse!! Hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

pfffft

lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think like that too, would love to go along but if youre not in the gang would feel a bit random! Then what if you dont fancy anyone? Or what if you see someone you know and they ask who youre out with?

Best plan would be get pissed! lol x

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By *reakchicCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

The first social I went to was a girls night out, so obviously I went alone. I was so so nervous, I didn't know anyone before hand. Fortunately I wasn't driving so I had a wee drink to calm the nerves.

I think if you act confident, even if you don't feel it, then you will come across as confident. Don't sit in the corner alone, make an effort to get involved in conversation, intrroduce yourself to everyone and smile! generally people will respond positively.

Hope you have a great time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks! i'm sure i will once i relax !

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

sexyman theres no being in the gang at jacs socials so come along meet people and enjoy

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

First one I went to I just stoated in, found the folk & took a seat. I got chatting to 2 couples, just had a blether really. Everyone has a first time, there might be other social virgins there too that you can chat with. All in all, like has been said, its very relaxed & you won't be left sitting alone, someone will chat to you. Just be friendly & you'll have a good night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sexyman theres no being in the gang at jacs socials so come along meet people and enjoy "

lol @ sexyman !

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"sexyman theres no being in the gang at jacs socials so come along meet people and enjoy

lol @ sexyman !"

I think it was actually aimed at Mr Sexymanglasgow haha :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol didn't think it was for me lol !

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"lol didn't think it was for me lol !"

One of these days it'll be for me!! :p haha

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

All you guys are sexy ..opppps sorry wrong post for flirting lol

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

Chill, no big deal, jusy gp with the flow and enjoy meeting folks in a social way.

I most likely will not make it, despite having paid for a place and a hotel room.

Shame as I was looking forward to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you will be fine with a very lovely host like miss dynomite she will make you feel very welcome as she did with us on our first social

enjoy it just wish we could get to it but sadly cant

xxx

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By *erverts R usCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Bee here xx you'll love it some of the best nights out i have been on where social parties on fab and miss them as been a long time since i last went to one. Half the thrill and excitement are the nerves beforehand. I still turn into a nervous wreck before a night out wether its social, private party or going to the club. Hold your head up and smile then no one will suspect your shitting yourself, works for me every time till i open my mouth and start blethering rubbish lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Chill, no big deal, jusy gp with the flow and enjoy meeting folks in a social way.

I most likely will not make it, despite having paid for a place and a hotel room.

Shame as I was looking forward to it.

"

I havent booked a room yet so I'd make a deal with u if interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sexyman theres no being in the gang at jacs socials so come along meet people and enjoy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think like that too, would love to go along but if youre not in the gang would feel a bit random! Then what if you dont fancy anyone? Or what if you see someone you know and they ask who youre out with?

Best plan would be get pissed! lol x"

Very true though wouldnt say gang but there is cliques at socials and not all fit in,been to loads and have spoke to and seen loads leave as a result of this .

Sometimes best to meet others before hand so as to not feeling like the spare part .

Some are great nights some are not its all trial and error .Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think like that too, would love to go along but if youre not in the gang would feel a bit random! Then what if you dont fancy anyone? Or what if you see someone you know and they ask who youre out with?

Best plan would be get pissed! lol x

Very true though wouldnt say gang but there is cliques at socials and not all fit in,been to loads and have spoke to and seen loads leave as a result of this .

Sometimes best to meet others before hand so as to not feeling like the spare part .

Some are great nights some are not its all trial and error .Enjoy "

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Evening folks,going to the valentine social,and its my first! and i'm in a flap,will be driving there and home so no dutch courage!,how did you get over 'it' if you like?"

You think your nervous now ohh just wait til you get there they are all lunatics ive still never recovered from the shock of my first social and that was 10yrs ago.....have a gd nite tho

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Oh and just remember to take extra set of clothes plenty of money and leave your self respect at home ...the initiations are extreme...but as I said... enjoy the night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feck it, hotel room now booked !

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By *lba couple1Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

you will have a great night, these socials are the best way of getting to know everyone, just dont be a wallflower

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Feck it, hotel room now booked !"
yayyyyyyy great

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yaaaay eeek!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"yaaaay eeek! "
You will be fine xxx

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"yaaaay eeek! You will be fine xxx "

she sez that to all the boys

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"yaaaay eeek! You will be fine xxx

she sez that to all the boys "
lmao bukie and they all lived to tell the tale lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"yaaaay eeek! You will be fine xxx

she sez that to all the boys lmao bukie and they all lived to tell the tale lol "

just!!!!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"yaaaay eeek! You will be fine xxx

she sez that to all the boys lmao bukie and they all lived to tell the tale lol

just!!!!! "
cheeky

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"yaaaay eeek! You will be fine xxx

she sez that to all the boys lmao bukie and they all lived to tell the tale lol

just!!!!! cheeky "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bunkie, you're a naughty boy, stop scaring the newbies, we need fresh blood at the socials. Mwahahaha.

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