FabSwingers.com forum: Scottish Borders

By *ornypair300 OP Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders

Just a bit of a role call for all those active members in the scene here as we surely must have missed some people . The scene seems incredibly quiet compared to Edinburgh ect or people are reluctant to meet incase you know them .

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By *uriousAKCouple
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

Hi, we are in the Borders but too shy to post on the forum...

opps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Curious AK - you’ve looked at my profile a few times. I can’t message you as I’m effectively blocked although you say you’re looking for a bi curious male. Ping me a private message if you fancy a chat x

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Sadly we are up in Aberdeen but hello anyway

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a bit of a role call for all those active members in the scene here as we surely must have missed some people . The scene seems incredibly quiet compared to Edinburgh ect or people are reluctant to meet incase you know them . "

There are plenty of willing participants in and around Carlisle but for us clubs are far easier and much less hassle.

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By *aydumfriesMan
over a year ago

heathhall

You should try Dumfries. Just missing the tumble....lol

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By *ornypair300 OP Couple
27 weeks ago

scottish borders

Re activating this thread to see if the scene here has improved at all or if it’s still the same

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Yep,

It's quiet in the Borders!

Still I'll travel for the right peeps so it's not the end of the world!

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By *rAMrsCCouple
27 weeks ago

Scottish Borders

Very quiet here in the Borders unfortunately.

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By *amierebelMan
27 weeks ago

nae danger.

There’s actually quite a lot from borders on here granted mainly single males but there’s a few couples and ladies aswell

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By *ornypair300 OP Couple
27 weeks ago

scottish borders

Yeah but for reasons unknown to the universe they are generally all scared to meet each other , usually the reason we have been given is “incase anyone knows us “

Erm we are all here for the same reason tho right

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By *otryMan
27 weeks ago

On the road

In the borders fairly often with work etc so I may be of some use to those that want to meet without being recognised

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By *heekydave69Man
27 weeks ago

Borders

Yeah I do find it fairly quiet and hard to make new connections.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Always got a hard on when in the borders

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By *ez669Man
27 weeks ago

East Kilbride

I do hotel overnights in dumfries or Berwick once a week/fortnight so on both ends of the border

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By *abidosieMan
27 weeks ago

Falkirk

Not in the borders myself but also not too far away and a lovely place to visit. I'm sure there are plenty happy to visit socially as well as meets.

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By *ama bamaMan
27 weeks ago

dalkeith

I pass through regular. Going from Edinburgh to Dumfries. Can take any detour on the way if someone wants to meet up.

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By *rMisterMan
25 weeks ago

Near the Wall

"Yeah but for reasons unknown to the universe they are generally all scared to meet each other , usually the reason we have been given is “incase anyone knows us “

Erm we are all here for the same reason tho right

Not sure if you are aware of 'fishing'

. I live in the boarder region, been here for 17 years , it's a small place, everyone knows each other so people shy away. It was very vibrant 10 years ago with house parties, 1 to 1 dogging etc. Then a friend got into problem, just a neighbourhood dispute but made it in the local news with mention of nasty things like selling his wife etc. Everyone since went underground, many just travel to Blackpool or Manchester clubs all the time, some do fishing

Fishing is basically to come to fab, have a few meets, build reliable network of contacts then either delete the profile or hide it, then meet the contacts regularly using WhatsApp etc. So there are still plenty of swingers in the area, just not on fab. Some do come back to replenish their contact list and disappear again when they have enough.

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By *uffinMan
25 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Borders is scary - everyone knows each other in one way or another. Hell I know at least 4 people who don't realise I know they are here, nor do I want them to know about me....

The ladies also seem to avoid the guys and couples don't want single guys unless your well fit. Hmm I'd like to know some who are open and can be trusted even for the odd game of strip poker but I'd probably end up with a mates neighbour or sister n law.

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By *ountain2thestreamMan
25 weeks ago

Borders/Edinburgh

Most borders folk I arrange meets with cancel and make excuses..

Don't bother now and go to club Shhh these days or meet Edinburgh/Glasgow areas..

I've seen several folk in their day to day life and don't care. It's ment to be discreet fun after all...

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By *enelope2UWoman
25 weeks ago

Fife

"Yeah but for reasons unknown to the universe they are generally all scared to meet each other , usually the reason we have been given is “incase anyone knows us “

Erm we are all here for the same reason tho right

Sounds like legitimate swinging Vs the fraud version typical on the site

Not sure if you are aware of 'fishing'

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

New to the borders myself. It is quiet, but here's hoping.

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By *p4fun00Man
25 weeks ago

morpeth

Where about are you I live in Northumberland and not much going on love to meet up if near you .

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By *ife NinjaMan
25 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Most borders folk I arrange meets with cancel and make excuses..

Don't bother now and go to club Shhh these days or meet Edinburgh/Glasgow areas..

I've seen several folk in their day to day life and don't care. It's ment to be discreet fun after all..."

Club shhh is cool

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By *sername1111Man
25 weeks ago

Borders here always open to make new contacts .

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By *ornypair300 OP Couple
4 weeks ago

scottish borders

re viatlising this again to see if anythings changed yet again

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By *pvfunMan
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"re viatlising this again to see if anythings changed yet again "

Always interested in meeting adventurous couples.

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By *redwilma666Couple
4 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

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By *redwilma666Couple
4 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

"Yeah but for reasons unknown to the universe they are generally all scared to meet each other , usually the reason we have been given is “incase anyone knows us “

Erm we are all here for the same reason tho right

Would you want to meet your sister on here!

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By *amierebelMan
4 weeks ago

nae danger.

Nah still dry as fuck in the borders likes

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By *ifemarkMan
4 weeks ago

dalgety bay

In and around the borders on a regular basis if anyone is interested in meeting up

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By *fterhours85Man
3 weeks ago

Stranraer

I'm in Dumfries and Galloway

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By *he BadgersCouple
3 weeks ago

Galashiels

Fairly quiet. We tend to do most of our meets up in Edinburgh

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By *oucancall me sirMan
3 weeks ago

borders

I'm in duns

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By *atte Lover 82Man
23 hours ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

Back after a bit time away and it seems to still be fairly quiet in the borders.

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By *hrobbermanMan
17 hours ago

Lanarkshire

I'm here in the bleak dark hinterland of South Lanarkshire. Across the moor the vast Upper Clydesdale emptiness nudges up against the disinterested end of Dumfries & Galloway. While on the other side of the moor, Scottish Borders simply runs out of any useful comparative paradigm.

Please help.

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