FabSwingers.com forum: Scottish Borders

By *arkasmidnight OP Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders /edinburgh

Just a bit of a role call for all those active members in the scene here as we surely must have missed some people . The scene seems incredibly quiet compared to Edinburgh ect or people are reluctant to meet incase you know them .

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By *uriousAKCouple
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

Hi, we are in the Borders but too shy to post on the forum...

opps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Curious AK - you’ve looked at my profile a few times. I can’t message you as I’m effectively blocked although you say you’re looking for a bi curious male. Ping me a private message if you fancy a chat x

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Sadly we are up in Aberdeen but hello anyway

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a bit of a role call for all those active members in the scene here as we surely must have missed some people . The scene seems incredibly quiet compared to Edinburgh ect or people are reluctant to meet incase you know them . "

There are plenty of willing participants in and around Carlisle but for us clubs are far easier and much less hassle.

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By *aydumfriesMan
over a year ago

heathhall

You should try Dumfries. Just missing the tumble....lol

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By *arkasmidnight OP Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders /edinburgh

Re activating this thread to see if the scene here has improved at all or if it’s still the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep,

It's quiet in the Borders!

Still I'll travel for the right peeps so it's not the end of the world!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very quiet here in the Borders unfortunately.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nosey

There’s actually quite a lot from borders on here granted mainly single males but there’s a few couples and ladies aswell

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By *arkasmidnight OP Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders /edinburgh

Yeah but for reasons unknown to the universe they are generally all scared to meet each other , usually the reason we have been given is “incase anyone knows us “

Erm we are all here for the same reason tho right

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By *otryMan
over a year ago

On the road

In the borders fairly often with work etc so I may be of some use to those that want to meet without being recognised

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By *heekydave69Man
over a year ago

Borders

Yeah I do find it fairly quiet and hard to make new connections.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always got a hard on when in the borders

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

I do hotel overnights in dumfries or Berwick once a week/fortnight so on both ends of the border

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By *abidosieMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Not in the borders myself but also not too far away and a lovely place to visit. I'm sure there are plenty happy to visit socially as well as meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pass through regular. Going from Edinburgh to Dumfries. Can take any detour on the way if someone wants to meet up.

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By *rMisterMan
over a year ago

High Gardens

"Yeah but for reasons unknown to the universe they are generally all scared to meet each other , usually the reason we have been given is “incase anyone knows us “

Erm we are all here for the same reason tho right

Not sure if you are aware of 'fishing'

. I live in the boarder region, been here for 17 years , it's a small place, everyone knows each other so people shy away. It was very vibrant 10 years ago with house parties, 1 to 1 dogging etc. Then a friend got into problem, just a neighbourhood dispute but made it in the local news with mention of nasty things like selling his wife etc. Everyone since went underground, many just travel to Blackpool or Manchester clubs all the time, some do fishing

Fishing is basically to come to fab, have a few meets, build reliable network of contacts then either delete the profile or hide it, then meet the contacts regularly using WhatsApp etc. So there are still plenty of swingers in the area, just not on fab. Some do come back to replenish their contact list and disappear again when they have enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Borders is scary - everyone knows each other in one way or another. Hell I know at least 4 people who don't realise I know they are here, nor do I want them to know about me....

The ladies also seem to avoid the guys and couples don't want single guys unless your well fit. Hmm I'd like to know some who are open and can be trusted even for the odd game of strip poker but I'd probably end up with a mates neighbour or sister n law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most borders folk I arrange meets with cancel and make excuses..

Don't bother now and go to club Shhh these days or meet Edinburgh/Glasgow areas..

I've seen several folk in their day to day life and don't care. It's ment to be discreet fun after all...

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"Yeah but for reasons unknown to the universe they are generally all scared to meet each other , usually the reason we have been given is “incase anyone knows us “

Erm we are all here for the same reason tho right

Sounds like legitimate swinging Vs the fraud version typical on the site

Not sure if you are aware of 'fishing'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New to the borders myself. It is quiet, but here's hoping.

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By *p4fun00Man
over a year ago

morpeth

Where about are you I live in Northumberland and not much going on love to meet up if near you .

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Most borders folk I arrange meets with cancel and make excuses..

Don't bother now and go to club Shhh these days or meet Edinburgh/Glasgow areas..

I've seen several folk in their day to day life and don't care. It's ment to be discreet fun after all..."

Club shhh is cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Borders here always open to make new contacts .

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By *arkasmidnight OP Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders /edinburgh

re viatlising this again to see if anythings changed yet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"re viatlising this again to see if anythings changed yet again "

Always interested in meeting adventurous couples.

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By *redwilma666Couple
over a year ago

Kilbirnie

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By *redwilma666Couple
over a year ago

Kilbirnie

"Yeah but for reasons unknown to the universe they are generally all scared to meet each other , usually the reason we have been given is “incase anyone knows us “

Erm we are all here for the same reason tho right

Would you want to meet your sister on here!

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nosey

Nah still dry as fuck in the borders likes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In and around the borders on a regular basis if anyone is interested in meeting up

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By *fterhours85Man
over a year ago

Wigtownshire

I'm in Dumfries and Galloway

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By *he BadgersCouple
over a year ago

Galashiels

Fairly quiet. We tend to do most of our meets up in Edinburgh

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By *oucancall me sirMan
over a year ago

borders

I'm in duns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back after a bit time away and it seems to still be fairly quiet in the borders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here in the bleak dark hinterland of South Lanarkshire. Across the moor the vast Upper Clydesdale emptiness nudges up against the disinterested end of Dumfries & Galloway. While on the other side of the moor, Scottish Borders simply runs out of any useful comparative paradigm.

Please help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the fringes of the borders and interested

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By *armerboy121Man
over a year ago

Wooler

I am also in the borders, north northumberland, and unfortunately its still very inactive! barely even any dogging sites anymore from what i can tell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few years ago the OP organised a social for people in and around the borders not sure if these things are still ongoing

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By *ordersBullMan
over a year ago

borders

I’m in the borders too ! Does seem to be quiet around here specially to make new connections

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By *bord2Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh/Borders

Borders here as well, albeit been inactive on here for a long time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah the Borders does seem to be quieter than the likes of Edinburgh. It's the ingrained fear that people know each other I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but for reasons unknown to the universe they are generally all scared to meet each other , usually the reason we have been given is “incase anyone knows us “

Erm we are all here for the same reason tho right

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yeah that’s exactly how I we see it

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By *arkasmidnight OP Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders /edinburgh

Thread revive time , still seems not much has changed apart from many new male profiles joining and very few couples and ladies . How do you all think the borders scene could be improved ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon the borders is more horny than they let on x

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By *rtidyknotWoman
over a year ago

Clovenfords

Not having a teenager at home

Roads/ travel sucks too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame really, as a lot of bonnie folk around here in the borders

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nosey

"Not having a teenager at home

Roads/ travel sucks too"

Feel this as I can’t host as for wee guy 24/7 unless can get a babysitter

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nosey

"Fairly quiet. We tend to do most of our meets up in Edinburgh "

Edinburgh scene is defo more active

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Thought I'd bump this to see if there is any change

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By *eriScotMan
46 weeks ago

Scottish Borders

Hoping to revive the Scottish Borders chat and see who’s all local?

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By *b2bCouple
46 weeks ago

glasgow

we use to go birdwatching down in moffat and have some fun in the hides. got caught by an old guy once lol

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By *eriScotMan
46 weeks ago

Scottish Borders

Hah, bet that wasn’t the birds or tits he was looking for!! Do you still go?

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By *b2bCouple
46 weeks ago

glasgow

not been for a while. it is totally dead now. not sure where else to go down that way

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By *amierebelMan
46 weeks ago

nosey

There’s a shit load single men in borders think that’s half the problem we all looking for couples and females then on the flip side the couples and single females are also looking for the same. I’ll just say it’s not impossible if you build up a rapport 👍

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By *ool89Man
45 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I find it hard just in general haha but im always about happy to meet to faces and my expectations are low im happy with a coffee and hi anymore then that is a bonus

And again I dont know anybody haha so if people are wanting full exclusivity ill be a good candidate 😉😊 dont be shy come and say hi haha plus im new so im trying to get my account up to speed and all that verification stuff too not easy but patience will prevail lmao

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