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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone offer advice on how to write messages that will get a response rather than deleted please?

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

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"Anyone offer advice on how to write messages that will get a response rather than deleted please? "

I'd suggest a change in user name first.

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By *art-time321Man
over a year ago

renfrewshire

Ouch.lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will do thank you

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

That was far too easy!

Come back and argue with me!

Please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You could do with a name change too

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"You could do with a name change too"

Naw. I like mine. I've not long changed it and it describes one of my favourite activities.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I like mine then so there

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"Well I like mine then so there

Well write a memorable message then! D'oh!

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Well I like mine then so there

Well write a memorable message then! D'oh!

Will he get to slip yerknicksaff if he does?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly fingernails and ugly feet . Dealbreaker

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"Ugly fingernails and ugly feet . Dealbreaker "

John... You on the sauce pal? Is this not meant for the turn offs thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found that if someone writes a message and you can see they have taken the time to read your profile. Use common sense on whether they have the wants of the person. Eg height, build, or similar interests and it’s not copied and pasted I try to always give a response. It’s polite even if it’s just a no thanks.

Short messages or dick pics tend not to gain my interest and I’ll just delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ugly fingernails and ugly feet . Dealbreaker

John... You on the sauce pal? Is this not meant for the turn offs thread?"

Ah been a long day….. still …… got a response mind you

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"Ugly fingernails and ugly feet . Dealbreaker

John... You on the sauce pal? Is this not meant for the turn offs thread?

Ah been a long day….. still …… got a response mind you

Dopey bastards who post on the wrong threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well said

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

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"Well said "

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buggers . Should be hung drawn and quartered in my opinion. But maybe it’s dementia…. Back in a min I’ve misplaced my phone / keys / morals

I’ll find them in a wee minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well said

Who said that?

Wait ….. who said that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

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Fuck sake.

I'm trapped on a thread with Dumb & Dumber.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck sake.

I'm trapped on a thread with Dumb & Dumber. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I always check out someone profile and at a glance, I would pass you by.

Since you didn't ask for profile advice I can't comment on specifics.

As for messages. Avoid dick pics especially on first messages and profiles. Show you read their profile, maybe comment on something they've said.

Jump into the forums. They're a great place to meet people and it can easily segue into a private chat through some of the games. Much more natural that way.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"Fuck sake.

I'm trapped on a thread with Dumb & Dumber. "

Which are you ?

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"Fuck sake.

I'm trapped on a thread with Dumb & Dumber.

Which are you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get trapped in a thread….. it only leads to being trapped in another thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I wasn’t even on the right thread to start with

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

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"And I wasn’t even on the right thread to start with

Daft bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I wasn’t even on the right thread to start with

Daft bastard

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By *ainyDaySunshineMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"You could do with a name change too

Naw. I like mine. I've not long changed it and it describes one of my favourite activities."

I go Commando so one less piece of clothing to take off

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

And the OPs advice will never get to him thank to hijacking of his thread asking for genuine advice. No wonder some people never come back to the forums.

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"You could do with a name change too

Naw. I like mine. I've not long changed it and it describes one of my favourite activities.

I go Commando so one less piece of clothing to take off

I heard it was to air your arsehole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could do with a name change too

Naw. I like mine. I've not long changed it and it describes one of my favourite activities.

I go Commando so one less piece of clothing to take off

You must be on the wrong thread too . And going commando means if you follow through there’s no way back

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"And the OPs advice will never get to him thank to hijacking of his thread asking for genuine advice. No wonder some people never come back to the forums."

He can read all of the advice that's been given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was the original thread again. I forgot

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By *ainyDaySunshineMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"You could do with a name change too

Naw. I like mine. I've not long changed it and it describes one of my favourite activities.

I go Commando so one less piece of clothing to take off

You must be on the wrong thread too . And going commando means if you follow through there’s no way back

That's very true. I never pull out, that's why they call me Daddy

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Please stop helping person write a message. We need to separate the wheat from the chaff

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah not my style I am polite

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought this place was suppose to be friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the OPs advice will never get to him thank to hijacking of his thread asking for genuine advice. No wonder some people never come back to the forums."

That's a bit grumpy

Some people don't use the forums because they're boring and no fun.

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By *redwilma666Couple
over a year ago

Kilbirnie

Why do feel the need to describe yourself as professional, anyone in paid employment is professional. Also zero pictures is an instant red flag, there are plenty of men with pics to choose instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do feel the need to describe yourself as professional, anyone in paid employment is professional. Also zero pictures is an instant red flag, there are plenty of men with pics to choose instead."

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do feel the need to describe yourself as professional, anyone in paid employment is professional. Also zero pictures is an instant red flag, there are plenty of men with pics to choose instead.

Good point "

Backtracking now ?

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Please stop helping person write a message. We need to separate the wheat from the chaff"

*People.

De-chaffed that for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Please stop helping person write a message. We need to separate the wheat from the chaff

*People.

De-chaffed that for you. "

Yes it was meant to say people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh ok

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By *ewcpl80Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

"I’ve found that if someone writes a message and you can see they have taken the time to read your profile. Use common sense on whether they have the wants of the person. Eg height, build, or similar interests and it’s not copied and pasted I try to always give a response. It’s polite even if it’s just a no thanks.

Short messages or dick pics tend not to gain my interest and I’ll just delete them

We will second this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone offer advice on how to write messages that will get a response rather than deleted please? "
Always lead with FAF ,and deffo put a picture of your penis in the first message,and just to seal the deal,send them a friend's request right away.

Your welcome

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By *oudBeSurprisedMan
over a year ago

Fife

"You could do with a name change too

Naw. I like mine. I've not long changed it and it describes one of my favourite activities."

What was it before?

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

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"Anyone offer advice on how to write messages that will get a response rather than deleted please?

Ok, look man I’m not the type to go two footed into other guys as I am a single guy here too so I can relate to some of the issues. Some fems and couples have blocked me and called me out for often trying to sympathise which is fair enough.

That being said, no matter what you send in a message, your profile ruins it. That profile is shite matey. Fab is easy, there’s loads of lovely friendly people here, they just ask that some effort is put in.

Your profile photo is a good one, your dick pic is utterly disgusting, pure sweaty pubes and all. I’d honestly suggest you go with the faceless shadow as a profile photo and out the suit one as a public image rather than what you have. You won’t be successful if you don’t change these things up fella and I mean this all in the best way possible "

How the fuck did I miss the sweaty pubes pic?! I'm losing my touch on here.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"Fuck sake.

I'm trapped on a thread with Dumb & Dumber.

Which are you ?

She is &.

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie

"Anyone offer advice on how to write messages that will get a response rather than deleted please? "

The perfect message will never guarantee you a response.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

If you can fuse just the correct amount of empathy, a dash of humour, a hint of intrigue, mystery, self-deprecation and perhaps a small titlating addition, then attach a face pic showing a rugged, chiseled coupon with a cheeky grin and a glint in your eye, then you're chances of success will rise to around 2%.

It's no worth it, mate. Just do you.

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By *eg2509Woman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Hey OP, if I receive an initial message that has an interesting photo attached I will have a look at their profile. So that’s the initial attraction. I’ve gone in for a look at your profile and I have to say it needs work. We ladies receive numerous D picks per day, I have to say that some of them are cracking pics with tidy pubes and a nice clean looking cock. Your pic shows longer pubes and your cock is wet with pre jiz or something. It’s not a great look - IMO.

I guess what I’m saying is, you could have the best introduction ever but spoil it with no profile pic, awful profile content and a greasy looking cock

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By *he couple nextdoorCouple
over a year ago

grangemouth

"Anyone offer advice on how to write messages that will get a response rather than deleted please? "

I don't think there is an easy answer as everyone is different

For us

Will meet now

Is a no thanks

Or al shag Ur Mrs for you

No thanks

Or rude

For us

We like honest

What you are looking for social,or more

When you are free

Few messages

See if you are similar

Or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to see your advice to the guy trying to tell the woman with the baggy fanny he didn't feel anything. That was all "be tactful and let her down gently" "the truth isn't always the best if it hurts a person's feelings".

Well played mate. Well played"

Oh man that’s easy, the guy just decides not to be a nasty bastard and says no to any future meets with said woman as perhaps he didn’t feel the chemistry.

I sadly didn’t get your sarcasm

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