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Importance of oral play

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By *ueen Cat OP   Woman
over a year ago

fife

When it comes to playtime whether it be with first meets or regular people how important is a BJ? Recieving and giving as directing this to everyone.

It seems like a very obvious answer but curious to know if there's people that make it work without

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I'm no pillow princess, I like to give as much as receive

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By *ittlemissbella69Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

As much as i LOVE to receive, i really do enjoy seeing/hearing a guys enjoyment when pleasuring him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like giving oral on the lady first and once done I like to receive her thanks I'm probably more of a giver than receiver.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I enjoy the fact that although they have me on my knees. I have them by the balls

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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

I love to receive, but I also really enjoy giving and having as much eye contact as is possible! Love to watch the effect I’m having on them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like giving too, but I did get around 2 hours of sucking at the weekend and it was bliss..!!!

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By *at-me-drink-meWoman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND


"As much as i LOVE to receive, i really do enjoy seeing/hearing a guys enjoyment when pleasuring him"

I love hearing a guy moan as im sucking. Love the body twitches the toe curls. Just the fact that hes reacting that way to what im doing while giving a bj

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By *tev2904Man
over a year ago

Strathclyde

Luv a good bj (wit guy doesn't) but its even better when uve got her riding ur tongue!!

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

I love giving. In many ways a good oral session is most enjoyable.

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By *oss man JMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

100% a giver rather than receiving !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy both giving and receiving. Hearing the buildup to orgasm and heavy/rapid breathing of a woman is a huge turn on. And I definitely am always game for receiving a bj.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it’s only right to pleasure the lady involved first and then if she wants to return the oral fun then absolutely happy to receive.

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By *aidbacklover2021Man
over a year ago

perth

Removing a ladies panties and seeing her sex for the first time then going up close to give some oral stimulation savouring the sexy taste and swelling lips is just awesome foreplay x

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By *eedsanewusernameMan
over a year ago

Mainly under the bed...

It is definitely a 2 way street. Anyone worth their salt(y goodness) would ensure they give as good as they receive. And I really do enjoy giving. Loads of folk say it and spend all of 30 seconds on the tools. Then expect an hour in return!

And, as a bearded biker, there is a special fulfilling feeling when you are riding home from your meet and the wind rushing into your helmet sturs up the smell of all the fun you've just had, from your partially washed beard. Nothing brings back a smile more readily than smelling like you've just had a good time!

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By *othighlander2Man
over a year ago

North Inverness

well...as i can lick my eyebrows and mastered the art of ear breathing i am definitely a giver ..i do love looking upnto a woman as i feel her enjoy the pleasure more and more...altho definitely love a good bj too!!

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By *ueen Cat OP   Woman
over a year ago

fife

I know everyone likes it BUT is a BJ an important part in the play? Do you have to do it in your meets or would you mind if that part was skipped ?

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By *imbob85Man
over a year ago

inverness

Think it all depends on the people involved and what thay like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know everyone likes it BUT is a BJ an important part in the play? Do you have to do it in your meets or would you mind if that part was skipped ? "

Absolutely not a deal breaker. It’s a part of the full experience. Whatever suits the people involved.

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By *ookonthebrightside71Man
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I love giving oral. Hearing how turned on the lady is turns me on

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By *awbagBob88Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I can live without it but eventually I would be annoyed if I didn't receive.

I prefer to give orally but there is nothing more sexy than when a woman really wants to suck your dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally I would like to hit 3rd base before the coffee and cake

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London


"I know everyone likes it BUT is a BJ an important part in the play? Do you have to do it in your meets or would you mind if that part was skipped ? "

The best BJs come from ladies who want to do it and enjoy giving. If you are only doing it because you feel you have to, then I would prefer it is skipped. Does that answer your question?

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"I know everyone likes it BUT is a BJ an important part in the play? Do you have to do it in your meets or would you mind if that part was skipped ? "

I think it's important, I never feel like I have to do it, I want to do it

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I give as good as I get

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London


"I give as good as I get "

Well, I like to think I can give with passion.

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I like to lick pussy

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By *r thoughtfulMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm more of a pleaser than receiver.

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By *r-King SizeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

This is how I feel towards giving to women just the noise of them moaning and knowing they are in exstasy from my tongue is one of the best feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many can relate to this....

https://youtu.be/ygqR3fDBhe4

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.


"I know everyone likes it BUT is a BJ an important part in the play? Do you have to do it in your meets or would you mind if that part was skipped ? "

Not the be all and end all if it happens it happens.

That said you're getting the opinion of a guy who hasn't received many in his lifetime due to "sore jaws" lol seems the woman of fab are more generous than any lady I've been with and that includes my fab meets.

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

Now for me I do love to receive and give but in both scenarios I get of on eye contact. The look in the other person's eyes hold there gaze while your either getting a BJ or savouring a sweet pussy it's all about control knowing they are and for them you are getting more out of it .

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By *ueen Cat OP   Woman
over a year ago

fife


"I know everyone likes it BUT is a BJ an important part in the play? Do you have to do it in your meets or would you mind if that part was skipped ?

The best BJs come from ladies who want to do it and enjoy giving. If you are only doing it because you feel you have to, then I would prefer it is skipped. Does that answer your question?"

Ye I understand that

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I get more out of giving oral, than receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be disappointed if they didn’t want me to give them a blow job but I don’t like people going down on me.

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I know everyone likes it BUT is a BJ an important part in the play? Do you have to do it in your meets or would you mind if that part was skipped ? "

It’s not the be all and end all of I don’t get BJ, I like the attention that I get when receiving a BJ but I don’t expect one in return and wouldn’t necessarily ask for one, in fact more likely to wiggle out of it to give pleasure rather than receive it.

Mr S

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’d be disappointed if they didn’t want me to give them a blow job but I don’t like people going down on me. "

Going to be a long night, fancy a game of scrabble or something lol

Mr S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to receive, but I also really enjoy giving and having as much eye contact as is possible! Love to watch the effect I’m having on them! "

Eye contact takes it to a whole new level. Ups the intensity

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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago

the pub or in the nude in Paisley


"When it comes to playtime whether it be with first meets or regular people how important is a BJ? Recieving and giving as directing this to everyone.

It seems like a very obvious answer but curious to know if there's people that make it work without "

I don’t think I’d be too inclined on a first meet to give a guy a BJ. Like some guys only want that and offer nothing in return, that’s not for me!

But with a regular play partner I think it’s definitely always going to happen! I love it & guys love it lol why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d be disappointed if they didn’t want me to give them a blow job but I don’t like people going down on me.

Going to be a long night, fancy a game of scrabble or something lol

Mr S"

Only if profanities are permitted

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

I normally need to be tasered to get a boabie out my gub.

Fond of receiving too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only let her do it because it keeps her quiet for a while and I get to see the telly.

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"I only let her do it because it keeps her quiet for a while and I get to see the telly."

Is that just the adverts you watch then? Can't see her being kept occupied much longer.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I like the taste and sensation of a lady's downstairs

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By *ndy edinMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

For me it's close to the be all and end all.

And I get much more of a kick and turned on when giving oral

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’d be disappointed if they didn’t want me to give them a blow job but I don’t like people going down on me.

Going to be a long night, fancy a game of scrabble or something lol

Mr S

Only if profanities are permitted "

Sure, thankfully fellatio and cunnilingus are not going to be some of the words that will come up as an option as being over 7 letters we will never be able to play them.

Mr S x

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By *clxCouple
over a year ago

West Highlands

The most important part of any meet is everyone being comfortable and having a good time. Personally I don’t think there are any particular activities that HAVE to be included in a meet to make it work.

Not many guys are going to turn down a BJ, but they will still have a good time without one. We don’t do oral every time we have sex but we still have an amazing sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only let her do it because it keeps her quiet for a while and I get to see the telly.

Is that just the adverts you watch then? Can't see her being kept occupied much longer.

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She's an ex junkie so she's no front teeth. I hear you've got a jaw like David Coulthard with the amount of sausage you've had in mouth.

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By *upertongue74Man
over a year ago

perth

I prefer giving oral than getting , just my opinion

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By *ord500Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Best way to relax in prep for horny play,heightens desire and increases pleasure in other regions esp whole body play!!

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