FabSwingers.com forum: Whats most important ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've read quite a bit over the last few days regarding standards/attraction/connection et, I also read profiles top to bottom.

This is not aimed at anyone nor any gender, we all have our preference for what we want or what we look for.

I personally have been in a situation where I was attracted more to someone's personality than her appearance, an absolute wonderful person where her personality meant more to me than her looks, not an ill looking person by any means however not the usual type that would attract me or so I thought.

I've still got my learner plates on and nowhere near passed my test yet on FAB however whats the general feeling regarding ones looks over their personality, I get that there has to be attraction based on appearance, life experiences outwith FAB have learned me beauty comes from within first and foremost.. What says the people of FAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a spark for it to be great. A chemistry, connection a little fizz of excitement when they touch me.

That comes from physical and mental attraction.

Some people are growers though too. I'm probably in that category too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need a spark for it to be great. A chemistry, connection a little fizz of excitement when they touch me.

That comes from physical and mental attraction.

Some people are growers though too. I'm probably in that category too "

Yip, I agree however what's more important, mental or physical? In an ideal world we all want both.

Is it possible to have one without the other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all she has to be decent looking, if she's a rotter it's a no go from me.

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

I've yet to meet a 10/10 who had the personality to match.

It's a perfectly blended combination of looks and character which do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a mixture of attraction and personality edging it more it's fantastic when you have nice energy connection.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"First of all she has to be decent looking, if she's a rotter it's a no go from me."

The thing is Brad, not every "Rotter" on Fab is going to be impressed with your 3 inch penis either.

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"First of all she has to be decent looking, if she's a rotter it's a no go from me.

The thing is Brad, not every "Rotter" on Fab is going to be impressed with your 3 inch penis either.

To be fair I'd take Brad Pitt with a 3 incher.

I'd ride his face until he had a speech impediment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First of all she has to be decent looking, if she's a rotter it's a no go from me.

The thing is Brad, not every "Rotter" on Fab is going to be impressed with your 3 inch penis either.

To be fair I'd take Brad Pitt with a 3 incher.

I'd ride his face until he had a speech impediment."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"First of all she has to be decent looking, if she's a rotter it's a no go from me.

The thing is Brad, not every "Rotter" on Fab is going to be impressed with your 3 inch penis either.

To be fair I'd take Brad Pitt with a 3 incher.

I'd ride his face until he had a speech impediment."

Brads got tourettes, you'd soon climb off his face

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It really has to be a balance of both someone can have a great personality but if physical attraction isn’t there I would view them more as a friend but if they had looks but zero personality I wouldn’t want them touching me either. Lucky enough to meet some wonderful people on here that tick those boxes. Suppose it helps if your beauty standard isn’t ridiculously high and many people on here I have been attracted to haven’t been “my type “ per say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First of all she has to be decent looking, if she's a rotter it's a no go from me.

The thing is Brad, not every "Rotter" on Fab is going to be impressed with your 3 inch penis either.

Have you been speaking to your wife again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a little green flag, a green tick and a non smoker status before I go any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must have banter .

Looks are not everything but need to think the person or ppl are some way attractive.

(PP)

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

I like a bit of cheek/sas

none of this ,alright darling tho

Also what are you into is an instant turn off....I mean ud no ask that on a date would ya ??

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Connection, but also must have some gorm of attraction.

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By *eeling hot hot hotCouple
over a year ago

Ardrossan

The general consensus seems to be looks aren't everything personality is very important and I agree

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