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By *ohn890 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Have you ever had a conversation on here which abrubtly stops no warning and no further chat even on occassion blocked for no apparent reason ( even when noone was being offensive) find this kind of behaviour very strange? anyone else?

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Never happened M8 but real life occurs - kids walk in; office phone rings; other guy shoots etc.

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By *ohn890 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Yeah but never speak again not like a few hours delay?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I have a very short attention span if you don't stimulate my mind with conversation i get bored and have been known to stop chatting

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By *ohn890 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Its all very well having the upper hand on this site and saying that but i would say maybe its the lack of effort that makes it less stimulating,you try to be courteous,engaging and not talk dirty but then get branded boring,very difficult to win sometimes

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Its the million and one questions that bore me everyday that's not conversation is it?

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

You will never please all the people all the time so best pleasing yourself , as long as you know you conducted urself in a manner which you consider acceptable then its the other persons problem, keep yer chin up .

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By *ohn890 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Well said Thongz x Miss i get that but how do you know when to stop asking questions and ask them for a meet ? too early and they get off and leave it too long they lose interest ( easier getting a shag in a bar)

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Lmao , well i guess u will be frequenting the pub then.

For me I like a chat with someone but i like it to be normal stuff as well as the more racey depending on the mood , but I think the meeting thing for me tends to happen when the time is right. I have spoken to people for a very long time over mail before meeting but if its someone in chat then its maybe not so long as u tend to get a feel for who u get on with in chat , keep plodding on , i know it can be a bit off putting but u will get there .

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By *ohn890 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I do the same just difficult to strike conversation sometimes without the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What someone finds inoffencive another might find crude. And there are only so many times a person can answer 'hi babez hru?' off the same person on a daily basis

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Just be yourself. In my experience better to chat about everyday things, common interests etc, flirt in the forums and chat etc. People learn a lot about you from your profile and how you interact on forums.

Don't get discouraged though, many swingers have vanilla lives etc so it takes time to build respect n trust before peps agree to meet etc.

Going to a social or munch is a good way of saying hello - apart from letting peeps know you are genuine (timewasting tossers tend to avoid socials), is a good way to meet people. Whether and who you pull/pulls you before or after is up to you though.

Keep yer pecker up

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Just be yourself. In my experience better to chat about everyday things, common interests etc, flirt in the forums and chat etc. People learn a lot about you from your profile and how you interact on forums.

Don't get discouraged though, many swingers have vanilla lives etc so it takes time to build respect n trust before peps agree to meet etc.

Going to a social or munch is a good way of saying hello - apart from letting peeps know you are genuine (timewasting tossers tend to avoid socials), is a good way to meet people. Whether and who you pull/pulls you before or after is up to you though.

Keep yer pecker up"

Well said

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Always gets me that answer..."its easier getting a shag in a bar" if its that easy why flog a dead horse here....as for when is it time for the chit chat to become talk of meeting surely it depends how well your getting on talking to the person

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"What someone finds inoffencive another might find crude. And there are only so many times a person can answer 'hi babez hru?' off the same person on a daily basis"

Hi babez hru?

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By *ohn890 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Because i have met some nice people on here as friends who i meet regularly however generally speaking i believe it is easier to get a shag in a bar,not rocket science to understand the logic of that??

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Well said Thongz x Miss i get that but how do you know when to stop asking questions and ask them for a meet ? too early and they get off and leave it too long they lose interest ( easier getting a shag in a bar)"
If you don't know when to ask for a meet now uve no chance lol ...kidding ....I don't know when that time would but but it's just a feeling you get ..people I'm meaning are people who main asking hi how's you ? What you upto ? What did you do at the weekend ? ...and this goes on almost daily for weeks at a time so it bores me to death and I usually stop chatting x

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Well said Thongz x Miss i get that but how do you know when to stop asking questions and ask them for a meet ? too early and they get off and leave it too long they lose interest ( easier getting a shag in a bar)If you don't know when to ask for a meet now uve no chance lol ...kidding ....I don't know when that time would but but it's just a feeling you get ..people I'm meaning are people who main asking hi how's you ? What you upto ? What did you do at the weekend ? ...and this goes on almost daily for weeks at a time so it bores me to death and I usually stop chatting x "

So when we shagging then. I mean kings n queens have there loyal taster so yer hubby to be needs a loyal shagger.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'll be honest with you John, I've been on here a while now and I have met some nice people from the site and made some good friends, then I got dropped off it for a while. I came back to it just to see what was going on and started going into the forum and I've had a great time talking with everyone, having a laugh and a flirt with them too. I have up sending messages a while ago as nothing ever really came I them but being in the forum and chatting to everyone has shown me that there are some really nice people on the site still. Ok, I'm not to every woman's taste but then that's life but I've made a couple I lovely friends on here and hopefully I'll make a few more. If its just about the banter then so be it, if something else develops then that would be great too but I don't think about it that way. If it happens, it happens.

Don't get down if someone stops talking to you, just take a deep breath and move on. You seem like a nice genuine guy who has been knocked back a bit but it happens to us all

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Excuse the bad grammar and odd spelling mistake too - bloody auto correct lol

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Well said Andy. Best advice I've seen on FAB in a long time.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Well said Andy. Best advice I've seen on FAB in a long time. "

Thanks silver. I know people get down but you just have to pick yourself up again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that all the time mate!!But I carry on and I have some great chats now......and I'm a shortarse!!It's well worth hanging in there!!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Always gets me that answer..."its easier getting a shag in a bar" if its that easy why flog a dead horse here....as for when is it time for the chit chat to become talk of meeting surely it depends how well your getting on talking to the person "

I think that should be "its easier to know if you're getting a shag in a bar" 'cos there's all sorts of other stuff (body language, facial expression etc) that you simply can't get online or by phone or text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a very short attention span if you don't stimulate my mind with conversation i get bored and have been known to stop chatting "

Totally agree with ya, I'm the same, some guys on here have no clue how to stimulate downstairs let alone the brain fs xxx

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By *ohn890 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I could try pixie x Cheers all for the advice ( Deepbreath)

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