FabSwingers.com forum: After Dark 28th June

By *ean4fun2 OP Man
over a year ago

Worsley

Hi advice needed. My gf and I are looking to visit on Wednesday 28th ( After Dark Virgins ) Can you give us both some advice on what to wear. I'm not a leather underwear sort of guy lol. Also what to expect would be good. Many thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress how you feel comfortable and sexy.

Girls usually wear nice lingerie with a sexy dress or outfit over the top.

Guys, usually jeans and a t-shirt, with a pair of designer briefs.

Personally, I'd avoid anything polarising like football tops or t-shirts with controversial slogans. I'd also avoid trainers (Converse is the exception because they're hot AF) and go with a nice pair of shoes.

Any doubt, give the club an email or call.

Enjoy

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Hey, Wednesdays are good days to go as they are normally not too busy. Just wear jeans/shorts polo shirt etc. We'll be there x

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By *ennyjMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Just wear what your comfy in, smart but casual, just not working clothes lol, seen a cpl folk saying don't wear trainers etc but in the weather we're having I think dress shorts ,nice top and good trainers perfectly acceptable ,,,trainers can be a lot more expensive than some folks shoes and smarter

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

I wear trainers and shorts from about April till October. So long as they're clean and not falling to bits then go for it.

It's all about the /// for me. Anything else are for teenagers and school mums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're looking to give After Dark a try soon.

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By *cot7891Man
over a year ago

Cumbria

I’ve never been to a club either but keen to try. Have no idea about the etiquette - assume everyone stays fully clothed in the bar area and only strips off when going to play?

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

"I’ve never been to a club either but keen to try. Have no idea about the etiquette - assume everyone stays fully clothed in the bar area and only strips off when going to play? "

Except on lingerie nights when everyone has to be dressed down by a certain time.

No means no, always ask to go in a room even if the door is open and ask before touching. No phones or cameras anywhere, even in social areas.

In the social areas try not to be creepy and staring or "accidentally" touching while passing someone. Don't be afraid to ask to join a table (shy waens don't get sweeties).

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Oh and just because you're at a swinging club, don't assume that you're gonna automatically get to play.

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By *ean4fun2 OP Man
over a year ago

Worsley

That's all great advice. Many thanks.

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By *cot7891Man
over a year ago

Cumbria

Thanks a lot

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

It's really not as formal and scary as it sounds lol. There's a pool table which is a great ice breaker and yeah just be friendly and respectful and you'll have a great time. X

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By *ean4fun2 OP Man
over a year ago

Worsley

Who's going tomorrow ?

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

"Who's going tomorrow ?"

We are and we know of others going also

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By *ilverfox84Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hey I'll be going tmw also a club virgin lol looking forward to meeting you all

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By *eamacCouple
over a year ago

fife

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By *lippy1Man
over a year ago

Fife

Thinking about my first visit

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By *owel RailMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I would love to come along but wanting to buddy-up with a keen lady to join me first so I've got someone to break the ice with.

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By *ornyguy9120Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

See you all tomorrow night

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By *ele2b3Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I am very likely going too

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By *interspiceWoman
over a year ago

Alloa

Looking to be a good night. Gutted I can't make it

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By *tewart39Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Am going this Wednesday off on holidays x see you all xxx

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

"Looking to be a good night. Gutted I can't make it

Looking forward to seeing you again x

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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm going tonight. See you all there

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Was a great night, busiest we've ever seen it on a Wednesday with quite a few new couples.

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By *lippy1Man
over a year ago

Fife

Thanks for making a newbie welcome.

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