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I've been scammed again!

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By *AMIARG OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I wonder if there is a place to share the info of the scammer to prevent others, could admins take actions of those profiles?

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

In what way were you scammed? Do you mean ripped off financially or stood up/ghosted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what they done

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By *AMIARG OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"In what way were you scammed? Do you mean ripped off financially or stood up/ghosted?"

I've been asked for a contribution for a party , and then disappeared

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"In what way were you scammed? Do you mean ripped off financially or stood up/ghosted?

I've been asked for a contribution for a party , and then disappeared "

Did you contribute?

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By *AMIARG OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"In what way were you scammed? Do you mean ripped off financially or stood up/ghosted?

I've been asked for a contribution for a party , and then disappeared

Did you contribute?"

Yes, but I'm not complaining about money, is more the fact of waste time planning the day etc , also that is make me don't believe on anyone else

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Unfortunately admin can't do anything unless you spot their new profile.

If you want to go to parties I'd recommend only paying for the publicly advertised and well verified ones, unless they are people you actually know in real life. Keeps it safer.

Jigs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shocking name and shame is best advice then

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By *AMIARG OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Unfortunately admin can't do anything unless you spot their new profile.

If you want to go to parties I'd recommend only paying for the publicly advertised and well verified ones, unless they are people you actually know in real life. Keeps it safer.

Jigs x "

Lesson learned, but always I have the hope of believe in people ! X

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By *AMIARG OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Shocking name and shame is best advice then"

That is breaking page rules

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"I've been scammed again"

How many times have you been scammed OP

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By *AMIARG OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


""I've been scammed again"

How many times have you been scammed OP "

That is my second time and I hope last one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah many have been named

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Did you look into these people, check their verifications, check those that left the veris, check the forum for any party posts by them, message anyone who had attended etc?

If you're being asked for money you really need to do some homework unless you've met the people in question. If you haven't met them and taking distance into account, ask for a social to discuss and possibly pay if you feel satisfied.

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


""I've been scammed again"

How many times have you been scammed OP

That is my second time and I hope last one "

I have some magic beans, you interested

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By *ooddoggyMan
over a year ago

town

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By *ooddoggyMan
over a year ago

town

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By *ieryfireMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Unfortunately admin can't do anything unless you spot their new profile.

If you want to go to parties I'd recommend only paying for the publicly advertised and well verified ones, unless they are people you actually know in real life. Keeps it safer.

Jigs x "

This.

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By *AMIARG OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Did you look into these people, check their verifications, check those that left the veris, check the forum for any party posts by them, message anyone who had attended etc?

If you're being asked for money you really need to do some homework unless you've met the people in question. If you haven't met them and taking distance into account, ask for a social to discuss and possibly pay if you feel satisfied."

Agree but is not about money is the attitude

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By *AMIARG OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


""I've been scammed again"

How many times have you been scammed OP

That is my second time and I hope last one

I have some magic beans, you interested "

Wel, maybe your are begin that shite who know !

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Did you look into these people, check their verifications, check those that left the veris, check the forum for any party posts by them, message anyone who had attended etc?

If you're being asked for money you really need to do some homework unless you've met the people in question. If you haven't met them and taking distance into account, ask for a social to discuss and possibly pay if you feel satisfied.

Agree but is not about money is the attitude "

The onus is on you to make sure these people are legit as best you can. There are people who will take advantage in every walk of life, its up to you to ensure you're not taken for a ride. If you didn't look into them before parting with your cash, then really it's on you.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"In what way were you scammed? Do you mean ripped off financially or stood up/ghosted?

I've been asked for a contribution for a party , and then disappeared "

Was it the SNP ?

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By *omjones12Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"In what way were you scammed? Do you mean ripped off financially or stood up/ghosted?

I've been asked for a contribution for a party , and then disappeared

Was it the SNP ? "

Don't worry it's given towards a good cause, this camper van is superb

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By *r. IrishMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I was scammed too this weekend and I'm willing to bet it was the same person that scammed you. In hindsight, there were some red flags that I just didn't pay attention to.

Ah well, lessons to be learned for next time.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Guys need to learn think with their big head. Stop handing over money based on what your wee head is telling you

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By *nubis282Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

I get the feeling this was the same person I spoke to, saying about a couple of parties over the weekend. Greedy girls Friday and PVC night Saturday. Lost interest as soon as I got a message saying had to send money via xoom and wouldn't accept cash at door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sort of behaviour is always targeted at guys and I know this will sound harsh and I do apologise if it does, but they target men because of the borderline desperation to meet. I really don’t mean that in an insulting way.

Do not ever commit to anything financially, it’s literally that simple chaps, no female or couple will refuse you for being careful

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Guys need to learn think with their big head. Stop handing over money based on what your wee head is telling you "

But their big head is preoccupied with letting their wee head have sooo much fun in a big girls mooth!

It's the big girls' fault!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sort of behaviour is always targeted at guys and I know this will sound harsh and I do apologise if it does, but they target men because of the borderline desperation to meet. I really don’t mean that in an insulting way.

Do not ever commit to anything financially, it’s literally that simple chaps, no female or couple will refuse you for being careful "

I'd add that while I understand the frustration this has caused, perhaps posting this and his status possibly Marks him as a potential target? Or maybe I'm just super cynical.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Please report the profiles thank you

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

I.p bans would possibly help as person be back again with same I.p address trying it on again with someone else.

Don't let it get you down op or others who experienced similar takenit as a learning experience and never part with cash just to get to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if there is a place to share the info of the scammer to prevent others, could admins take actions of those profiles? "

Report to admin

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Fool me once and all that

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By *eeKushMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *AMIARG OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"This sort of behaviour is always targeted at guys and I know this will sound harsh and I do apologise if it does, but they target men because of the borderline desperation to meet. I really don’t mean that in an insulting way.

Do not ever commit to anything financially, it’s literally that simple chaps, no female or couple will refuse you for being careful

I'd add that while I understand the frustration this has caused, perhaps posting this and his status possibly Marks him as a potential target? Or maybe I'm just super cynical."

On that profile was showing previous dates, and profile verified , I had not other plans that day so I decided asking about and I was chatting for a bit, as you see there were more people affected and only few recognised their mistake, anyway was not big money, I just wasted time , but scammers still between us !

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By *AMIARG OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Please report the profiles thank you"

Is reported , but pretty sure they still between us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sort of behaviour is always targeted at guys and I know this will sound harsh and I do apologise if it does, but they target men because of the borderline desperation to meet. I really don’t mean that in an insulting way.

Do not ever commit to anything financially, it’s literally that simple chaps, no female or couple will refuse you for being careful

I'd add that while I understand the frustration this has caused, perhaps posting this and his status possibly Marks him as a potential target? Or maybe I'm just super cynical.

On that profile was showing previous dates, and profile verified , I had not other plans that day so I decided asking about and I was chatting for a bit, as you see there were more people affected and only few recognised their mistake, anyway was not big money, I just wasted time , but scammers still between us ! "

Wasnt having a dig, just thinking it may alert other would be scammers that you might be one to contact, no offence meant n apologies if you took it that way

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By *AMIARG OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Never mind the money, I could be doing something else rather than wait for that party !if others reported the page or posting about it on previous days I just could move on and make other plans !

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By *AMIARG OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"This sort of behaviour is always targeted at guys and I know this will sound harsh and I do apologise if it does, but they target men because of the borderline desperation to meet. I really don’t mean that in an insulting way.

Do not ever commit to anything financially, it’s literally that simple chaps, no female or couple will refuse you for being careful

I'd add that while I understand the frustration this has caused, perhaps posting this and his status possibly Marks him as a potential target? Or maybe I'm just super cynical.

On that profile was showing previous dates, and profile verified , I had not other plans that day so I decided asking about and I was chatting for a bit, as you see there were more people affected and only few recognised their mistake, anyway was not big money, I just wasted time , but scammers still between us !

Wasnt having a dig, just thinking it may alert other would be scammers that you might be one to contact, no offence meant n apologies if you took it that way "

Not offence at all !

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Please report the profiles thank you

Is reported , but pretty sure they still between us "

Admin will be dealing with it/dealt with it, so I’ll close this.

Thanks for reporting it

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