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The Top Ten Rules to Success on Fab

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By *rMountain1976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Alloa

Spoke to loads of folks on here. Just about all of them talk about experiences they've had and the rules they've set themselves because of them.

So, if there was a top ten of really well advised 'rules' that could be made up based on everyone's experience, what would they be?

I think I'll categorise this into rules for men, women and couples.

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By *quirt lancasterMan
over a year ago

adeje

Don't get disheartened by the amount of rejection in seeking a meet...

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Have patience and don’t be a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accept a no or a no reply and dont get abusive

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I came here with an already clear idea of how I'd go about things

So I'd say...do fab your way

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By *licker77Man
over a year ago

Stirling

Take time to read a profile (& updates) and react/message in response to what the person/couple is looking for

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Tell everyone that you have a massive boaby, then send them a pic of your chipolata, women love that, honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bring cake to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take no for a no and always be polite.

Always message with respect and read their profile before messaging.

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Treat fab like any social media. Sign up to events, share your own photos and talk to friends. The rest of swinging happens in real life

Jigs x

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

Don't take anything or anyone too seriously, including yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Treat fab like any social media. Sign up to events, share your own photos and talk to friends. The rest of swinging happens in real life

Jigs x "

Follow these rules and you'll be swinging in jig time

Love a good Dad joke lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you message someone do it as you would in a pub or elsewhere when you want to meet someone..

that is, don't have your dick out, don't ignore anyone, be polite and have fun. "How are you, what you into, can I fuck your mrs" really are not good chat up lines.

Be yourself and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Treat fab like any social media. Sign up to events, share your own photos and talk to friends. The rest of swinging happens in real life

Jigs x "

That’s pretty much the advice to take. I’ve found meeting people in person has been far more rewarding than making opinions based online. Get yourself to the socials chum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always trust your gut ! .

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Put a bit of effort into your profile.

If you aren't getting meets, look at other people's profiles to get some inspiration for your own one.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

There shouldn’t be any rules for anyone just do you and if you appeal to anyone then ul have a good experience !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the site rules and remember them before complaining about a lack of response

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"There shouldn’t be any rules for anyone just do you and if you appeal to anyone then ul have a good experience !

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That always irks me - profiles stating "Don't send cock pics, no one-liners, don't be lewd" etc etc. I say don't let those guys conceal their natural instincts. If they really think the aforementioned is a good way to make a good first impression, then training them to behave otherwise is merely opening yourself up to disappointment further down the line.

Block the erses and pick me instead!

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By *andN2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Go to socials and clubs

Get a few good meet veri’s

Try to connect socially and sexually

Good selection of pictures

Good profile bio

Good banter / chat.

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Learn the rules of spelling and grammar and write well in messages. If you seek class then come across as classy.

Don’t have a profile without public photos. There is no reason not to have public body photos. It makes some people suspicious as to what you are hiding.

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By *at-me-drink-meWoman
over a year ago

w.lothian.TAKE ME TO WONDERLAND

1.get get green tick verified

2. If you are intrested read a profile

3. Dont send copy paste mail .every1 is dif and every 1 has dif needs

4. Dont spit the dummy if u get a no to a meet or no reply(women&couples get 100mail a day)

5.dont treat people like esscorts have a bit of respect

6.dont send a dic pic in 1st mail.keep that to ur profike photos . A face photo does really help

7.take a no as a no . No point waiting a few weeks then asking again

8.dont use the words use abuse ruin & slut in mail unless u know that person likes it

9.be patient

10.understand that every 1 has a life outside of fab respect that no1 is sat on their bed 24/7 waiting for mail

Not sure if they apply to every1

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world


"1.get get green tick verified

2. If you are intrested read a profile

3. Dont send copy paste mail .every1 is dif and every 1 has dif needs

4. Dont spit the dummy if u get a no to a meet or no reply(women&couples get 100mail a day)

5.dont treat people like esscorts have a bit of respect

6.dont send a dic pic in 1st mail.keep that to ur profike photos . A face photo does really help

7.take a no as a no . No point waiting a few weeks then asking again

8.dont use the words use abuse ruin & slut in mail unless u know that person likes it

9.be patient

10.understand that every 1 has a life outside of fab respect that no1 is sat on their bed 24/7 waiting for mail

Not sure if they apply to every1 "

Pretty good list here tbf, definitely agree with what she said

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By *essarosa7leeCouple
over a year ago

East Fife

Have photos that are less than a year old....(We have seen photos from 2013..on active profiles)

Be polite

Communicate properly

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Understand that the person you want, May not be the person you get. It's the equivalent of Gregory's girl, only Clare Grogan may actually be Bill Grogan and you end up rolling with it as they are actually a decent person and make you forget your not supposed to like that type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Empathy and respect are also important components of niceness. During your day, try to see things from the perspective of the other people on Fab and think about things that we can do to respect their needs. Even if you disagree with what someone else is doing, try to treat them with niceness and respect. There's multiple nice people on here however there's multiple not so nice people at the same time. Being good, kind and respectful costs the same amount as manners.

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