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Do nice guys finish last

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gen question ? Is it true, I personally think that treating them mean keeps them keen( not that I practice that )

Any thoughts

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes "

I agree, think people take advantage of the fact that someone is a nice guy

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

sometimes we finish second from last

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"sometimes we finish second from last "

I always finish last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life, yes they do finish second. Women are all for a guy who treats them well but only up to a point. If you're always somewhere on time, never cancel a date, always call/text when you say you will, pay compliments all the time then they just get bored with you. They like someone to moan about to their friends, it keeps them interested in you.

Obviously going too far the other way is a mistake, they are not looking for a selfish arsehole. But they do like someone who lets them down occasionally rather than someone utterly dependable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience yes, in terms of popularity and careers and money and that type of stuff, good people get fucked over. With women as well it can often be true.

I think the trick is choosing your battles, let the dickheads and bullies in the world be happy what they have but don't let that take anything away from how happy you are with what you have.

Easier said than done, of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well the only female to have replied seems to think that nice guys do come last, the proofs in the pudding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is why the "fanboys" never get any meets

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By *iverview1Couple
over a year ago

gourock


"this is why the "fanboys" never get any meets"
Whats a fan boy?

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

I always make sure my partner gets both Gold and bronze medals.....I settle for silver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my book the lady always comes first, and if that makes me boring or whatever, so be it.

However, I have come across some ladies who seem to like that attitude and the associated attention, so there you go!

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