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By *.Anony mouse OP Man
over a year ago

Dumbarton

So, I’ve just been confronted by an ex (years ago) who’s given me some amount of stick for being on fab.!! Someone local on here took screenshots of my profile and pics (now private) and sent her them.!!!

Anyone else been in similar situation I live in a small town so it’s the small town people mentality..

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

That's a shitty thing to do. And shows us all to be careful what we put on here!

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"So, I’ve just been confronted by an ex (years ago) who’s given me some amount of stick for being on fab.!! Someone local on here took screenshots of my profile and pics (now private) and sent her them.!!!

Anyone else been in similar situation I live in a small town so it’s the small town people mentality.."

Why would he/she think it is any of their business what you do as a single man?

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

So they or someone who's trying get into there vagina/ass outed you? , personally have my face pic up as genuinely idgaf for schoolground pish

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By *oreverplayfulCouple
over a year ago

motherwell

Thats a horrible thing to do, I dont get why anyone would do that. It's none of their buisness what you get up to in your own time. You aren't hurting anyone or breaking the law. Some folk are just arses

C x

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I think what they have done is illegal. Report them to the polis.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

She didn't want you. Fuck her. Just goes to prove what I was saying about not everyone being discrete

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

"She didn't want you. Fuck her. Just goes to prove what I was saying about not everyone being discrete

Was you saying this whilst trying to obtain a vagina for fun ?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"She didn't want you. Fuck her. Just goes to prove what I was saying about not everyone being discrete

Was you saying this whilst trying to obtain a vagina for fun ?

Which aisle at Tesco are they at?

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

"She didn't want you. Fuck her. Just goes to prove what I was saying about not everyone being discrete

Was you saying this whilst trying to obtain a vagina for fun ?

Which aisle at Tesco are they at?

Was asda, thought you knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same happened to me, not with an ex but a guy on here took screenshots of my friends only pics n shared them into a group chat, just happened to be someone in that group chat knew me and messaged me about it. Seemingly he had a habit of showing workmates etc people's profiles on here. Its the risk you take. Discretion rarely exists on here in my experience , yet gets shouted about left right n centre.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Anyone else been in similar situation I live in a small town so it’s the small town people mentality.."

It's none of their business so tell them to keep their beak out.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

So a friend of your Ex's who we presume is in fab looking to join others sent your profile to your Ex?

Hey bestie I'm on fab looking for cocktails & your 3xis on too .oozing for pussy & your ex thinks it's wrong your here!!!

Some strange people

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By *.Anony mouse OP Man
over a year ago

Dumbarton

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By *.Anony mouse OP Man
over a year ago

Dumbarton

"So a friend of your Ex's who we presume is in fab looking to join others sent your profile to your Ex?

Hey bestie I'm on fab looking for cocktails & your 3xis on too .oozing for pussy & your ex thinks it's wrong your here!!!

Some strange people"

Exactly

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By *.Anony mouse OP Man
over a year ago

Dumbarton

"I think what they have done is illegal. Report them to the polis. "

I’ve no clue who’s done it, only that it’s been someone who’s obviously seen my profile and felt the need to say

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By *.Anony mouse OP Man
over a year ago

Dumbarton

Anyone else been in similar situation I live in a small town so it’s the small town people mentality..

It's none of their business so tell them to keep their beak out."

That was kinda the reply she got

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By *.Anony mouse OP Man
over a year ago

Dumbarton

"Same happened to me, not with an ex but a guy on here took screenshots of my friends only pics n shared them into a group chat, just happened to be someone in that group chat knew me and messaged me about it. Seemingly he had a habit of showing workmates etc people's profiles on here. It’s the risk you take. Discretion rarely exists on here in my experience , yet gets shouted about left right n centre."

Discretion aka trust, these fools ruin it for everyone we shouldn’t have to think twice when adding a pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the risk you take, but look let’s be honest society today is more accepting of guys being on here than women. So with that I think you need to chill out a wee bitty buddy, unless you’re not single and then….you’re fucked.

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By *.Anony mouse OP Man
over a year ago

Dumbarton

"She didn't want you. Fuck her. Just goes to prove what I was saying about not everyone being discrete

Was you saying this whilst trying to obtain a vagina for fun ?

Which aisle at Tesco are they at?

Was asda, thought you knew

Middle aisle in Aldi

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By *.Anony mouse OP Man
over a year ago

Dumbarton

"It is the risk you take, but look let’s be honest society today is more accepting of guys being on here than women. So with that I think you need to chill out a wee bitty buddy, unless you’re not single and then….you’re fucked."

I’m chill buddy and single

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By *ad bod000Man
over a year ago

Evanton

A similar thing happened to me a few years ago. Someone copied my pics and opened another account and a friend told me about it. I’ve changed my profile name since then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an ex tell my sister my wife and I had an open relationship after 5 yrs apart thought it was rather strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else been in similar situation I live in a small town so it’s the small town people mentality.."

Sending pics without the person's permission is revenge porn and is illegal in the UK. No grey area whatsoever. Your ex confronting you about it is bullying/harassment and if they continue is abuse/assault. Again illegal. If in doubt call 101, they will confirm it.

When something similar happened to Miss we did not respond to the abuser's messages. We contacted 101 and made a report, including emailing screenshots of the messages. We were told by a reliable mutual acquaintance said abuser had a visit from the police at their workplace and their phone was taken. We don't how far things went after that but we know they lost their job a week later.

Don't let people get away with it. Even if nothing comes of it the police can tell them about the razor they are walking.

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By *.Anony mouse OP Man
over a year ago

Dumbarton

Anyone else been in similar situation I live in a small town so it’s the small town people mentality..

Don't let people get away with it. Even if nothing comes of it the police can tell them about the razor they are walking. "

I would never involve the police not my style and I don’t know who showed my pics etc, it’s done just an embarrassing situation and made to feel like it was something wrong.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry op to hear that try to hide face pics on here now i do tho even putting ur stamp on your pics with profile name can stil be used .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

They are the lowest of the low anyone who even thinks of doing something like that let alone actually doing it .

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By *r-King SizeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Personally all my stuff is out there for people to see I don't care who knows I'm here to enjoy myself and if they have to get start shit to feel important that is Their problem

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"if they have to get start shit to feel important that is Their problem "
^^^^Spot on

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

Basically revenge porn, sharing pics without consent.

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By *un-shineWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Anyone else been in similar situation I live in a small town so it’s the small town people mentality.."

Are you sure someone sent her the screen shots? Maybe she is on here and stumbled across your profile herself? Was your face pic on show for someone to recognise you? If not how would they have known it was you?

I would tell her your keeping any text exchange you have had regarding ' screen shotting' your profile and sharing cause I'm sure it's illegal to do so especially if the reason for doing so is to humiliate you or as previously stated bully you....

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