FabSwingers.com forum: First meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How long after first going fab did you have your first meet. Would be interesting to see if there's a big difference between the male and female answers. I suspect there will be.

I could have had one within a couple of hours but my first one was after two days .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going back quite some time when I first joined with my ex. As a couple I’m sure we held off for a good few months if memory serves me correctly.

My single profile was created about 2 years post split, I had a social meet after a week and that followed into a more interesting meet-up a few days later.

Fab is what you make it (as you know)

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By *ubbyandHisHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"How long after first going fab did you have your first meet. Would be interesting to see if there's a big difference between the male and female answers. I suspect there will be.

I could have had one within a couple of hours but my first one was after two days ."

2 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few hours

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

1 week for mee blew my mind was a mfm

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By *rMountain1976Man
over a year ago

Alloa

Have had 2 stints on here. Both times I had a meet within the first week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still haven’t had my first meet sadly

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By *r-King SizeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

My original profile i think was a day or two as i joined after meeting someone local and they showed me the site

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Four days for us, joined on a Tuesday evening and had a meet that Saturday

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By *penToIdeasMan
over a year ago

Dundee

I once waited way too long to actually bite the bullet and meet someone I liked then I lost my chance. Was gutted and would love a second chance

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

First time round it was a couple of weeks before I had a social that ended up in bed. This time round I've been here for 3 or 4 weeks now and nothing yet. To be honest though my car has just given up the ghost this week so I think meets might have to take a back seat till I get a new motor and can travel as there isn't anyone closer than 40 miles away from me.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

"How long after first going fab did you have your first meet. Would be interesting to see if there's a big difference between the male and female answers. I suspect there will be.

I could have had one within a couple of hours but my first one was after two days ."

I would say it was about a year

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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

I joined at the start of the pandemic when most people were terrified to meet up and I’m sure I ended up being about 3 months or so before I had my first meet on here and I ended up meeting him on and off for quite a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Months. It's practically impossible to get a reply if you're a single guy cause most women on here probably get about 50 messages a day.

I actually think my first meet came via chatting in the forum's then into private chat then a social and then something physical.

It took a while though... marathon not a sprint etc.

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Due to parental and life responsibilities and wanting to find the right male to join us it was about a month

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Somewhere between 5 days and a week. Leiaorgana and still with her today lol

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By *hYouNaughtyKittenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

On my original profile, I think it was about a month before my first meet. This time round, was a couple of weeks but think I was just lucky to meet someone that I got on well with so quickly.

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think it was about 9 months after I joined.. and rarely is less than 3 or 4 months between meets as is.

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By *otuseater11Man
over a year ago

kilwinning

Think I was around two weeks. Then had my meet

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Somewhere between 5 days and a week. Leiaorgana and still with her today lol

Best meet I ever had, lucky we sorted the mixup

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By *aydumfriesMan
over a year ago

heathhall

About a month....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on here with an ex. We joined and had an mmf that night and an ffm the next night

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By *JBrownMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Not had any luck as of yet. Keeping the old eyes and ears open though haha.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I was like a rabbit in the headlights when I first joined. Took me a good 2 months to pluck up the courage to actually meet.

After a couple of non starter socials I soon got into the swing of things

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Few months

Because we were both very busy unable to find a slot too meet but messages kept following back and forth daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had the pleasure of meeting anyone as yet

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By *ad bod000Man
over a year ago

Alness

I was about a couple of hours and ended up meeting someone from a mile away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still having no luck in a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had any luck meeting how long does it normally take

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’m going to have to guess this one but I’d say I’d been sniffing around for a good few months maybe a year

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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago

Here, There and Everywhere

Think I was a good few weeks and even then it was a social first. I still stick to having a social first!

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Mine was a few days - the friend that I joined with wanted to go out dogging but as he wasn't from here he didn't know the area so I was trying to find locations and found this site. The guy we met was on here and gave the first veri.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Over 10 years.

As a ketchup enthusiast, I knew the best things come to those who wait.

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By *nigmaschild300Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

I've a profile here but to be honest most I meet are from other platforms. But my profile here was inactive for years while living abroad. There's a lot of timewasters on this app unfortunately

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

A week fir the social then fun the following weekend

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

I joined aboyt eight years ago, I had a social in a ladies house after a few weeks and a stay over sexy meet after six weeks.

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By *rgyll_LadMan
over a year ago

Around

Couple of weeks after joining, was lucky to be invited to play with a couple at thier hotel

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Before joining. Had no clue what fab even was.

Jigs x

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Was a couple days for myself

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

I've never had a meet.

Everyone say Awwwwwww

Right noo...I'm thinking, there must be at least one women out there read that and thought "poor man, I'll meet him and shag his brain oot".

Objective accomplished....

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By *ntriguedUKMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Haven't yet. Still kind of getting my head around it all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So it seems pretty equal between male and female then thats good to hear

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"So it seems pretty equal between male and female then thats good to hear"

It seems so, but if you delve a little deeper, 98.3% of the guys who couldn't get their leg over went unlos, so ain't around to tell the tale.

Those good guys, standing out from the crowd, always spoil it for us bad 'uns!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks & counting

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By *r. IrishMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

2 weeks here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m going to have to guess this one but I’d say I’d been sniffing around for a good few months maybe a year "

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

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By *ord500Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Think it's taking a little while to build up the trust needed to meet,only ever met one on here but she was delicious x

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Depends on the person.. some know what they want some don't..some have excuses some don't, some people make and find the time some won't.

I don't remember my first meet time frame, but I don't base things on my first or recent.

Every situation or person is different.

And it also depends on your definition of meet. I call a meet a face to face past a keyboard and not a video or pictures of themselves but a physical in real life encounter.

Whether that leads to sex or not and just drinks or a chat. some guys and the girls they prefer label a meet as only fucking so it again depends on your definition and the relevance.

I have met some within an hour some I haven't met and we've talked 3 years.

Depends on their excuse really

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

If i remember rightly, a few days..certainly less than a week . Had I Been a longer periodof time I might have left ...without meeting.

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