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By *irigram OP   Couple
over a year ago

glenrothes

Should fab have something on it like you can report time wasters that can have 3 strikes then they are out? We know things come up but if it happens to 3 separate profiles surely something should be done?

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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I agree in part, but folk will just make another profile & come back x

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By *eamworkboyMan
over a year ago

Irvine

As a single man on here it's the most irritating thing on the site, timewasters and fakes are just a pain in the butt I have no idea how to filter them out

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

No. It's not the responsibility of the site.

There are plenty of posts giving advice on how to avoid your time being wasted.

Unfortunately it will happen, you just have to lower the chances.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Should fab have something on it like you can report time wasters that can have 3 strikes then they are out? We know things come up but if it happens to 3 separate profiles surely something should be done? "

Too easy to abuse. Example. You piss me off for some reason and I report you as a timewaster. My social circle do the same. There's your 3 strikes and you're gone.

I go with the mantra that nothing on here is real until I've sat down face to face with someone. Ergo I don't invest too much time on chat before arranging a quick social.

Out of interest what do you class as a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should fab have something on it like you can report time wasters that can have 3 strikes then they are out? We know things come up but if it happens to 3 separate profiles surely something should be done? "

The site does have a report function and one of the options is to report they arranged a meet and did not turn up.

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By *essicaandmarkCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We won’t meet or spend much time on someone who’s dose not have a couple of recent verifications and a decent profile.. past learnings x if a guy or couple wants the prove he’s or they are real then send us a phone number and come meet us for a coffee.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Nope

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By *loise5TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow-ish

I've been caught out a few times over the years, and the profiles just disappear.

Nowadays I only meet new folk at CJs and as a wiser tgirl on here said, it sorts out the serious from the delirious.

E.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are a bit of a nightmare but ive found the best policy is a bit of a chat then try and arrange a quick social. The genuine people will be up for that and the timewasters you never see again or just keep chatting and putting it off. If someone genuinely wants to meet you know within a few messages then its all about a quick social and happy days

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Embrace the time wasters for what they are, fantasist who are lying to themselves.

Move on don't worry about it, for everytime waster there is a genuine lovely person out there looking for a new friend.

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By *lipandslide069Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

See when you report someone do fab actually do anything,we know they can suspend you for 48hrs

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By *lipandslide069Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We have came across lots of single guy's who pretend to be couples

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

To be honest these ones are really easy to spot.

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By *irigram OP   Couple
over a year ago

glenrothes

We have chatted to many couples in a group chat with 4 of us and near when the meet has to take place they leave the group and block both our numbers. Pisses is right off

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By *eedsanewusernameMan
over a year ago

Mainly under the bed...


"

Out of interest what do you class as a timewaster.

"
That one guy who takes aaaaaaaaagggggggeeeeeesssss to get the ball for a throw-in around the 87th minute when you're losing 3-2.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"

Out of interest what do you class as a timewaster.

That one guy who takes aaaaaaaaagggggggeeeeeesssss to get the ball for a throw-in around the 87th minute when you're losing 3-2."

Now that totally rips ma knittin

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

There will always be time wasters, it’s a downside to the site, but as sassy says, could be abused (not that anyone would ever be do such a thing), I just accept that it happens, say fuck it (or not I guess) but there are enough genuine fabbers to make it worth while

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