FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting with couples

By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

The amount of people who have no intention of meeting

But string along

Then nothing

Is it our area

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By *irigramCouple
over a year ago

glenrothes

We have had the same a few times. Even chatting on what’s app or kik for weeks then the day we were supposed to meet ghosted. We know things can come up but you think they would contact and say something has come up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It goes both ways unfortunately,the amount of so called couples that get in touch,and then it , let's say just doesn't turn out

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

It's like drawing teeth

Just be honest meeting or not

It's always single guys

We are honest

And can't seem to meet couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to meet but my wife won't so I have to respect her wishes. Joined with a view to getting to know couples for fun but she has made it clear that it's not for her. I'm going to enjoy my time as a gold member until it runs out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the area myself. If there’s any arrangements made. They should been seen through. Nothing worse than folks just stringing along.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Me and my man have tried to meet couples in the past only had 2 successful meets the others just went wrong and its hard for all party's to fancy each other

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By *ung and slutCouple
over a year ago

n/a

We found it difficult to match timings with couples so we just ended up hitting the club scene the trouble is u need 4 ppl In couples to get on n we defo find tht easier in person... also we prob would avoid couples with very few pics or see how first few messages go but can be really difficult to draw convo out of people and match up child care

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By *ubmissive Couple4funCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We have also experienced similar to issues when trying to meet a couple or female

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By *GlwMan
over a year ago

kirkintilloch

When playing with a female, I have had mainly positive experiences. However I have found it can be difficult working out if it is another couple, or just a single guy pretending

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Clubs are the way forward for us. We've arranged one meet at home since we started going to clubs and that fell through at the last minute.

With clubs, you know that you're all "singing from the same song sheet" from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think its like that in all areas, there are often ones who will chat and arainge a meeting but will be chatting to multiple others always waiting for something better to come along

we were chatting to a couple and had arainge a meeting at the hotel they were staying at right up until the last minute when they suddenly posted a status update looking for a couple to come to there hotel

when we asked about it they said “oh just seeing who’s about before we commit” we just left it and carried on with our own evening

it was quite funny as the next day we seen a status complaining that the couple they eventually went with stood them up

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Clubs are a much better way meeting people get to have a chat without any pressure to play and there always seems to be a fair few couples at them and everyone is really nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well to be fair, I messaged you guys and you read my message which was polite and didn't reply, even to say not my type.

Good manners go both ways guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it can’t be said enough, you aren’t owed a reply.

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By *otstuff69xCouple
over a year ago

dundee

ye we have had the same,trying to meet couples,maybe you get a bit of chat then when you ask for picts together they disappear,to many fakes pretending to be couples

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

"Because it can’t be said enough, you aren’t owed a reply. "

Nobody said that

It's people saying that they are coming then don't

Or pretend to be meeting then stop

Just be honest

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

"Because it can’t be said enough, you aren’t owed a reply. "

Hey sorry guys I just realized that you were responding to him not me I was confused

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

"Well to be fair, I messaged you guys and you read my message which was polite and didn't reply, even to say not my type.

Good manners go both ways guys."

I apologise for that

We had 100 plus guys

Message with straight on profile when we are bi couple

We have had persistent non stop messaging from some

And sometimes you forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that you can talk to many couples and singles and sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't but at least be honest and if it's not going to happen than sa so that everyone can get on and meet those who do meet. I know there are many out there who are genuine and it's rhe select few that seem to let you down. Keep banging on and keep chatting as it does happen and there is lots of fun to be had.

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

"I find that you can talk to many couples and singles and sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't but at least be honest and if it's not going to happen than sa so that everyone can get on and meet those who do meet. I know there are many out there who are genuine and it's rhe select few that seem to let you down. Keep banging on and keep chatting as it does happen and there is lots of fun to be had."
we know what we are looking for

We are also flexible

But you message, everyone is happy

Arrange a meet and then nothing

It's just not easy if you have standards

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

"When playing with a female, I have had mainly positive experiences. However I have found it can be difficult working out if it is another couple, or just a single guy pretending "

Aw the bi thing

They message, you ask are you straight or bi

Em am a little bit,or u can do it to me

Or yes I like bi mmf

But not going near male

Well look at straight couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it can’t be said enough, you aren’t owed a reply. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven’t had any issues when meeting for socials or for fun . It’s all been great

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