FabSwingers.com forum: Afterdark Couples & Single Fems nights

By *ere4agoodtime11 OP Couple
over a year ago

East Lothian

AfterDark are thinking about holding a couples & single fems night.

This would be held on a Friday night and we are keen to gauge if there would be enough interest in holding such an event.

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By *irigramCouple
over a year ago

glenrothes

Hiya we would definitely be interested if this went ahead

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not for me. I like single men at clubs.

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By *owsandtiesCouple
over a year ago

Alloa

This is something we would also be interested in.

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By *hiregirl76Woman
over a year ago

Scotland

"Not for me. I like single men at clubs."

Same for me, I'd much prefer just a singles night as I feel uneasy around couples

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By *pank-me-harderWoman
over a year ago

close to leven

Not for me either unfortunately x

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By *ittleCurvyChickWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow

Not for me either sadly

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Not for me. I like single men at clubs.

Same for me, I'd much prefer just a singles night as I feel uneasy around couples"

Here's an idea!!! I'd be coming to a singles only night.

Maybe have like 1st and 3rd Friday for couples (and single females) and 2nd and 4th Friday singles only? x

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By *hycouple18Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yep we be up for that

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I would maybe pop along to this but sometimes I find couples more intimidating than the single males lol

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I would maybe pop along to this but sometimes I find couples more intimidating than the single males lol

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Not for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"AfterDark are thinking about holding a couples & single fems night.

This would be held on a Friday night and we are keen to gauge if there would be enough interest in holding such an event. "

As a couple we love the couple and female only nights, everyone has their own preferences but for us it is a much more relaxed atmosphere . Count us in xx

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

We would definitely be interested!

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By *ilkand2Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Mrs wouldn't be interested in that

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Not for me. I like single men at clubs.

Same for me, I'd much prefer just a singles night as I feel uneasy around couples

Here's an idea!!! I'd be coming to a singles only night.

Maybe have like 1st and 3rd Friday for couples (and single females) and 2nd and 4th Friday singles only? x"

Brill idea

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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd be interested in that x

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By *ung and slutCouple
over a year ago

n/a

We would be intrested in this

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By *ustyntheB3astCouple
over a year ago

Fife

This sounds good

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

I like the FFA nights as it's busier but worth a shot

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By *ennyjMan
over a year ago

falkirk

"Not for me. I like single men at clubs.

Same for me, I'd much prefer just a singles night as I feel uneasy around couples

Here's an idea!!! I'd be coming to a singles only night.

Maybe have like 1st and 3rd Friday for couples (and single females) and 2nd and 4th Friday singles only? x"

Good idea ; I'd like that till get too know more folk

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By *ere4agoodtime11 OP Couple
over a year ago

East Lothian

Thanks for the interest and comments, looking at different types of nights to try and cater for all. There is some interest in this type of night but we need a few more couples / single fems for the night to be a success. Please either comment or PM if you are interested.

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By *hy and innocentCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We would definitely be interested in the couples and single female nights, especially as sometimes a Friday suits us better anyway

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We would be interested in coming along

C&A x

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By *cotfinnCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Been to many such a night in France & loved it. Why not?

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By *he vet and the petCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We would be interested in this

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By *ere4agoodtime11 OP Couple
over a year ago

East Lothian

Thanks for all the interest, unfortunately not many single fems are interested may be mainly couples. Will look at some dates and let everyone know that is interested and see if can get a date that suits all.

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By *lexixCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Travellin aroon

keep the tread going its a small sample

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been to the club. What sort of nights do you have at the moment? Xx

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By *atalicious1981Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd be interested x

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I’ve never been to the club. What sort of nights do you have at the moment? Xx"

They do tv and admirers, lingerie nights then different themed nights so have had 80s disco/90s disco and a superhero themed night coming up at the end of the month.

I like going to the club and tend to go as a single female but suppose it depends on what you’re interested in.

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By *hycouple18Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Any news yet for this night xx

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By *punkysexCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh/Glasgow

We would definitely be interested in this also more daytime / weekday events ( we are AD members ) xx

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By *heJammyDodgersCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

We would defo be interested, it's one of the main reasons we haven't been yet, as we only do couples and fems at CJs.

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By *ilkand2Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Main thing we would be interested in is during the week day time events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, would be keen, we love Cupids (Manchester) on their Wednesday couples sf nights and prefer cjs when they do them also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like it defeats the purpose when you eliminate 1 group of people. The whole point is when you go to these clubs there is something for everyone.

Maybe it is something to explore mid week and see what demand there is but please dont start excluding whole groups of people at the weekend. We love a night at afterdark and love the fact all are welcome all the time xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like it defeats the purpose when you eliminate 1 group of people. The whole point is when you go to these clubs there is something for everyone.

But by always allowing single guys it effectively excludes couples and single females that aren’t comfortable with the ratio and (often sadly) level of pestering

One weekend night a month, or one weeknight a week is the case for 90% of clubs I would say, to have none on over is probably the anomaly

There would be about 10 other nights a month were single guys and those looking for them could go, don’t think losing 1 night would kill them?

Just our tuppence

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By *oggingnfloggingCouple
over a year ago

fife

Would a Saturday afternoon work leading on to the Saturday night where its then open to everyone might be a worthwhile suggestion

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Daytime's wouldn't work for us but we'd definitely want to come to an evening. Could maybe suggest to make Fridays couples only and that may make Fridays busier?

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By *erryandjuneCouple
over a year ago

Livingston

We would be very interested. We are still very new to meets and especially clubs. We would feel more comfortable in a couples single girls night as we were at CJs. You never know we may do a mixed night some day when we are more comfortable.

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By *hycouple18Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

No day time would be piss couples want have night out and meet other couples so good couples night on Saturday night

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By *othofus2021Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We attend these events mostly, and this is the reason we have not been. Yes from us.

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