FabSwingers.com forum: Come on own up

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's time for guys to be honest and own up to themselves that when they have straight on there profile and are looking for some male or tv fun then surely that makes you bisexual/curios please change your stat to bi come on guys be honest

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

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Caught out a guy not all that long ago who was straight yet verified a gay guy commenting on all the things they did together yet when I asked them about it the straight guy said it wasn't him and the gay guy said it was lol the best excuse he came up with was his account was hacked lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"It's time for guys to be honest and own up to themselves that when they have straight on there profile and are looking for some male or tv fun then surely that makes you bisexual/curios please change your stat to bi come on guys be honest "
Will watch this one with intrest as I have a friend who's into tvs but claims to be str8 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least it's a way of deciding on whether to meet someone, if their lying its just not worth it, and if there stupid enough to publish verifications contradicting info on he profile it's there own fault for missing out on meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bugs the Life out of me this

Yip own it...its your preference...if you wanna meet a guy Say so...dont Hit it with all the excuse...oh didnt realise id put that on...Yeah righto??

We spoke to a cpl...both straight...next week both bi...when we said sorry Auds Dosnt play with bi guys...next day the messaged again and Had straight on their profile...erm....

Auds x

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

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I'm straight and not into guys but got propositioned yesterday by a gay guy. I thanked him and told him it wasn't for me but I still don't know why he propositioned me. It quite clearly says straight not bi on my profile. Whilst I have absolutely no problem whatsoever with people doing what they want to do I don't see the point in lying about it. Be honest and true to yourself and you will find what you are looking for. Lie and you'll get nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had a cpl of guys contact me for a meet and when I've looked at there profile it's said they are straight if then asked them about it and they have said to me I do like a bit of guy fun now and then? Does that not make you bi Sry I just can't figure this one out

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"I've had a cpl of guys contact me for a meet and when I've looked at there profile it's said they are straight if then asked them about it and they have said to me I do like a bit of guy fun now and then? Does that not make you bi Sry I just can't figure this one out "

I think you're right, I think it makes them bi but they don't want to put it on their profile in case it lessens their chances of meets with women

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Ok its time for _unkie boy to come clean........ My profile states that I am straight and guess what.......i am straight ..sorry for any confusion this may have cost

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I'm straight and not into guys but got propositioned yesterday by a gay guy. I thanked him and told him it wasn't for me but I still don't know why he propositioned me. It quite clearly says straight not bi on my profile. Whilst I have absolutely no problem whatsoever with people doing what they want to do I don't see the point in lying about it. Be honest and true to yourself and you will find what you are looking for. Lie and you'll get nothing "
Men are not as open about their sexuality as women are FACT ..I know some str8 guys on here who have had more cock than I have so go figure lol

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By *eeflower69Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I think you're right, I think it makes them bi but they don't want to put it on their profile in case it lessens their chances of meets with women "

I have heard some girls say they won't play with a Bi guy because they aren't as clean as straight guys

and I know a girl who's fb started to make a fuss because she wanted to see a Bi guy. so I can see why some guys would put straight on their profile when they really aren't.

Personally I think that's tosh, being Bi doesn't make you less careful, some people are and some people aren't regardless of their sexual orientation.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Totally agree flower

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By *eeflower69Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Totally agree flower

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I think you're right, I think it makes them bi but they don't want to put it on their profile in case it lessens their chances of meets with women

I have heard some girls say they won't play with a Bi guy because they aren't as clean as straight guys

and I know a girl who's fb started to make a fuss because she wanted to see a Bi guy. so I can see why some guys would put straight on their profile when they really aren't.

Personally I think that's tosh, being Bi doesn't make you less careful, some people are and some people aren't regardless of their sexual orientation.

I think you are spot on. Your sexuality has nothing p do with whether you are careful or not. But it's some people's perceptions that may be the reason why some guys feel the need to lie rather than be honest about it

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I replied on a thread months ago saying that everyone male and female finds themselves on a sexuality scale say of 1 to 10 where:-

1 = 100% gay/lesbian 24/7

5 = 100% bisexual 24/7

10 = 100% hetero 24/7

Some people may not move from their position but some - perhaps most will fluctuate between 1 and 10.

I consider myself 5 - bisexual but as the seasons change, I sometimes lean more to gay and sometimes lean more to hetero.

Personally I think the str8/bi/gay options on Fab are too restrictive which explains why some peeps genuinely change sexuality status on fab.

I mean take s straight guy who has only ever had fun with females - he places himself as 10 but then he whether by design o accident experiences male touch during during an mmf - say the lady wants to suck both at once with result that both cocks make contact and that experience excites and intrigues to the point of exploring further.

I think also that there is another angle. Thinking of the mmf - are they meeting purely for mutual consensual sex or is there a sub/dom undertone. Who is the dominant, the alpha? The dynamics can and do alter one's perspective of sexuality.

On the sub/dom issue there is also the issue of whether one's view of sexuality is directed by real vanilla life xperience or whether by any fetish/ fantasy experience.

I mean there are many who are the alpha straight male in real life but are the submissive bisexual/gay in the fantasy meets. Perhaps it is when real life role play and fantasy role play morph together that causes many to question or deny their sexuality.

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By *addie bunnetMan
over a year ago

glasgow

its simply they dont want to be known as a man hole inspector lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This subject gets on my fake tits , as can be seen from my profile.

Any straight guy that wants to meet me for sex is bisexual at least. I'm not convincing to be anything other than a tv. I'm not a Thai ladyboy who you'd have to package check to tell the difference. So the excuse that it's ok as I look like a woman just doesn't cut it. I still have rather a fine dick in my knix.

Also, the excuse "it's not gay if you only give it" is bollocks too!

I'll concede that a guy going out with a transexual is a different matter. As transexuals are women born in the wrong body. So those that go out with a TG are fine.

But the assertion that men only put straight down so as not to lessen their chances with women and couples is true. I've had guys say so to me.

And to be fair to the guys for a bit, I don't get why women in particular who are looking for single men won't meet bi guys? Unless we told you, you wouldn't be any the wiser. If the answer is because you think we're less masculine then that's rubbish. Bi guys aren't usually screaming queens or effeminate in any way. If you met me on a night out (in guy mode of course) you wouldn't have a clue that I was Bi without asking. And the cleanliness argument is crap too. You can be unsafe whichever sexuality you are.

Couples I can understand, as it's usually the guy worried that we might want to touch his wee Willy, and that's because there's still a bullshit perception that we can't stop ourselves.

So there's a lot of lying on one side of the argument and a lot of prejudice on the other, that's the way I see it anyway. I'm sure others see it differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

straight guys hitting on tvs? whateve next lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been a few comments about the cleanliness/carefullness of Bi and Gay guys on this thread.

The latest recorded figures for 2011/12 show the highest ever increase in HIV in the Bi/Gay community. The report also estimated that there are at least 25,000 bi and gay men who have HIV and dont know it.

This is not opinion or judgement it is fact however unsavoury it may seam.

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

It is sad in this day and age that anyone should not be comfortable about their own sexuality , all the more so if they do not have the confidence to mention it in this arena.

I agree with another poster that there is a continuous spectrum rather than just the discreet labels we use.

I'd class myself as a 9 on that scale.

Hetro but confident and comfortable enough with intimate male contact in a mfm situation, it does not bother me in the least, but also it does nothing for me whatsoever.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

It is sad in this day and age that anyone should not be comfortable about their own sexuality , all the more so if they do not have the confidence to mention it in this arena.

I agree with another poster that there is a continuous spectrum rather than just the discreet labels we use.

I'd class myself as a 9 on that scale.

Hetro but confident and comfortable enough with intimate male contact in a mfm situation, it does not bother me in the least, but also it does nothing for me whatsoever."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have opted for bi curious. I do not find men attractive, will i take a bj? Maybe. When i meet tv.s i think of them as girls.

I don't quite fit any bracket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the record... I'm 100% straight.

But I can't understand why some guys would want to pretend to be straight if they are really bi-curious.

This is a swingers site ffs. We are all open minded adults on here, so be honest.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I have opted for bi curious. I do not find men attractive, will i take a bj? Maybe. When i meet tv.s i think of them as girls.

I don't quite fit any bracket"
I just dont get that because when it comes down to the nitty gritty of sex it's two cocks not a cock n pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally dont see why it should bother anyone to be honest....can't understand why it gets people so het up it's not like they are out beating up old ladies or anything....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont knock a public school upbringing (private school in Edinburgh speak) LOL

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"For the record... I'm 100% straight.

But I can't understand why some guys would want to pretend to be straight if they are really bi-curious.

This is a swingers site ffs. We are all open minded adults on here, so be honest."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone ever trace the veris back to their owners profile? I seem to always find a 'straight' guy that has been sucked/sucked off a gay or bi guy.

Guys be honest. Some girls like bi guys.

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

tell the truth and shame the devil

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