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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok ive 'male' a real close pal i worked with for over 10 years, were in each others hones often and our kids are friends.

Since day 1 ive automatically fancied his wife big time.

Now dont misunderstand me in any way, ive zero intention of flirting in any way or never have, even if it was put on a plate i wouldnt do it, ive way too much respect for this guy.

But for years shes all i could think of when having a wank, eveey scinario, ive saw what kind of underwear she has hanging to dry at times and i have been just sexually obsessed and tbh shes nothing special and certainly not a patch on my wife, shes that warm innocent housewife type but ooft she has done it for me years now, always checking her bikini pics on Facebook ect.

Any other guys have this over a pals wife even through you know you will tske it to your grave with you?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

How does your wife feel about knowing this information?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How does your wife feel about knowing this information?"

We both understand were only human and of course were going to find other people attractive.

Were soulmates and have zero secrets from each other.

She responds the fact im completely honest and she knows im not the type of guy that would turn over another guy, especially a close friend.

Besides, she has a thing for another pal of mine but exact same that will only ever be a fantasy.

Swinging is about honesty, trust and respect with your own partner and that we already have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"Ok ive 'male' a real close pal i worked with for over 10 years, were in each others hones often and our kids are friends.

Since day 1 ive automatically fancied his wife big time.

Now dont misunderstand me in any way, ive zero intention of flirting in any way or never have, even if it was put on a plate i wouldnt do it, ive way too much respect for this guy.

But for years shes all i could think of when having a wank, eveey scinario, ive saw what kind of underwear she has hanging to dry at times and i have been just sexually obsessed and tbh shes nothing special and certainly not a patch on my wife, shes that warm innocent housewife type but ooft she has done it for me years now, always checking her bikini pics on Facebook ect.

Any other guys have this over a pals wife even through you know you will tske it to your grave with you? "

Bit creepy to he honest. Checking out her washing and stalking her fb.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok ive 'male' a real close pal i worked with for over 10 years, were in each others hones often and our kids are friends.

Since day 1 ive automatically fancied his wife big time.

Now dont misunderstand me in any way, ive zero intention of flirting in any way or never have, even if it was put on a plate i wouldnt do it, ive way too much respect for this guy.

But for years shes all i could think of when having a wank, eveey scinario, ive saw what kind of underwear she has hanging to dry at times and i have been just sexually obsessed and tbh shes nothing special and certainly not a patch on my wife, shes that warm innocent housewife type but ooft she has done it for me years now, always checking her bikini pics on Facebook ect.

Any other guys have this over a pals wife even through you know you will tske it to your grave with you?

Bit creepy to he honest. Checking out her washing and stalking her fb. "

We would think the same about chains and whips but each to their own right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but don’t care how honest he was about it I’d be devastated if my husband was like that with another women and especially his friends wife

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"Ok ive 'male' a real close pal i worked with for over 10 years, were in each others hones often and our kids are friends.

Since day 1 ive automatically fancied his wife big time.

Now dont misunderstand me in any way, ive zero intention of flirting in any way or never have, even if it was put on a plate i wouldnt do it, ive way too much respect for this guy.

But for years shes all i could think of when having a wank, eveey scinario, ive saw what kind of underwear she has hanging to dry at times and i have been just sexually obsessed and tbh shes nothing special and certainly not a patch on my wife, shes that warm innocent housewife type but ooft she has done it for me years now, always checking her bikini pics on Facebook ect.

Any other guys have this over a pals wife even through you know you will tske it to your grave with you?

Bit creepy to he honest. Checking out her washing and stalking her fb.

We would think the same about chains and whips but each to their own right? "

That isn't even near the same thing. Has no relevance to the topic whatsoever.

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By *jezee1000Man
over a year ago

perth

Must b plenty people u fancy but nothing will ever happen . I know a lot of women, get on great with some , But nothing will ever happen.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Shogun and I tell each other everything and are open and honest about everything. If he told me that every time he got aroused he was thinking of his mate's wife, I would be devastated as I'd feel like every time we were intimate he'd been thinking of her.

A little fantasy is good, obsession is not.

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By *nubis282Man
over a year ago

Hamilton


"Ok ive 'male' a real close pal i worked with for over 10 years, were in each others hones often and our kids are friends.

Since day 1 ive automatically fancied his wife big time.

Now dont misunderstand me in any way, ive zero intention of flirting in any way or never have, even if it was put on a plate i wouldnt do it, ive way too much respect for this guy.

But for years shes all i could think of when having a wank, eveey scinario, ive saw what kind of underwear she has hanging to dry at times and i have been just sexually obsessed and tbh shes nothing special and certainly not a patch on my wife, shes that warm innocent housewife type but ooft she has done it for me years now, always checking her bikini pics on Facebook ect.

Any other guys have this over a pals wife even through you know you will tske it to your grave with you?

Bit creepy to he honest. Checking out her washing and stalking her fb. "

I have to agree here, this does sound rather creepy, that you've fancied your mates wife for 10 years now and wanked off to the thought of her numerous times. As well as stalking her fb holiday pics.

Also can't really imagine your wife is overly happy, if you told her that you're sexually obsessed with your pals wife. How close are the two women? I could see this breeding some insecurity in your wife.

To be honest I'm a bit at a loss as to why you would post this to begin with.

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By *eeling hot hot hotCouple
over a year ago

Ardrossan

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Somethings are best kept to yourself !

So you are saying for the whole of your married life everytime you wank you think of your mates wife but due to the respect of your friend you wouldn’t act on it .

So where is the respect for your wife !?

I’m sure if she is reading this she won’t be feeling great knowing for all of your married life’s you have done this while wanking over the said mates wife

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By *aydumfriesMan
over a year ago

heathhall


"Somethings are best kept to yourself !

So you are saying for the whole of your married life everytime you wank you think of your mates wife but due to the respect of your friend you wouldn’t act on it .

So where is the respect for your wife !?

I’m sure if she is reading this she won’t be feeling great knowing for all of your married life’s you have done this while wanking over the said mates wife "

To be fair if it's a "fantasy wank" it'll usually involve someone other than a wife/girlfriend......anyone tells you otherwise they're talking shite. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see why it comes over as creepy, chugging off to her Facebook pics and hanging about the washing line like a parking attendant up a close is a bit ott but these are not what made me chuckle.

I’ve been spanking off to my mates wife, she’s all I can think of, im obsessed with her…..but she’s not a patch on my wife honest

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By *ew couple4youCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

How come it’s always the profiles with no pictures showing and no verifications that post this rubbish. Clearly just to get a kick out of it lol

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"Shogun and I tell each other everything and are open and honest about everything. If he told me that every time he got aroused he was thinking of his mate's wife, I would be devastated as I'd feel like every time we were intimate he'd been thinking of her.

A little fantasy is good, obsession is not."

This.

It's one thing to have a wee crush. Another thing entirely for you to think about this woman every time you're spanking it.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Shogun and I tell each other everything and are open and honest about everything. If he told me that every time he got aroused he was thinking of his mate's wife, I would be devastated as I'd feel like every time we were intimate he'd been thinking of her.

A little fantasy is good, obsession is not.

This.

It's one thing to have a wee crush. Another thing entirely for you to think about this woman every time you're spanking it."

WellI have been known to spank my monkey to a certain traffic warden, on a regular basis

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By *ivingston Lover 123Man
over a year ago

Livingston


"Somethings are best kept to yourself !

So you are saying for the whole of your married life everytime you wank you think of your mates wife but due to the respect of your friend you wouldn’t act on it .

So where is the respect for your wife !?

I’m sure if she is reading this she won’t be feeling great knowing for all of your married life’s you have done this while wanking over the said mates wife "

I'm with you on this one..

Total disrespect for his wife.... I'm definitely not part of the " Male Union" here! He has a serious problem for which he should seek professional help, if he values his marriage at all.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

How is that any different to a guy fancying a celebrity? My ex fancied the pants off Samantha Fox and my father in law liked Gina Lollobrigida.

He’s said he’d never do anything and I’m sure his wife knows about his infatuation. At the end of the day he goes home to his wife. No harm done as long as it stays that way.

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By *aydumfriesMan
over a year ago

heathhall


"How is that any different to a guy fancying a celebrity? My ex fancied the pants off Samantha Fox and my father in law liked Gina Lollobrigida.

He’s said he’d never do anything and I’m sure his wife knows about his infatuation. At the end of the day he goes home to his wife. No harm done as long as it stays that way. "

100% agree!!

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"How is that any different to a guy fancying a celebrity? My ex fancied the pants off Samantha Fox and my father in law liked Gina Lollobrigida.

He’s said he’d never do anything and I’m sure his wife knows about his infatuation. At the end of the day he goes home to his wife. No harm done as long as it stays that way. "

Massively different, it's the neighbour, not someone he only sees on the TV or on line. Creeping at the washing line etc. It's one thing to say to his Mrs about a celebrity but another to be obsessed with the girl next door. It's ok to find them attractive but this seems a bit over the top.

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By *ikergent50Man
over a year ago

bathgate

Guys this is clearly a stalker looking for attention.. don’t give it to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting how many negative comments there are on this thread to a fantasy, yet you’re all on fab

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"Interesting how many negative comments there are on this thread to a fantasy, yet you’re all on fab "

What are you on about? Judging by your comments both here and on other threads I really don't think you understand the site. Bit of a fantasist. As the green button attests to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting how many negative comments there are on this thread to a fantasy, yet you’re all on fab "

I don’t see any negative comments?

The op put this up on the forums for feedback and to discuss.

people are only saying their opinion what the op has asked for?

Or is it just supposed to be comments if you agree?

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By *r Nicely...Man
over a year ago

Around the Lochs

It's not my wife is it Larry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im same with sisterinlaw since invite to wedding there pic was on invitation wow her now hubby gives her a fantatic lifestyle so ended up holiday with them omg what a body have meny meny times got an istant hardon just thinking about her if honest wanking over her now

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"im same with sisterinlaw since invite to wedding there pic was on invitation wow her now hubby gives her a fantatic lifestyle so ended up holiday with them omg what a body have meny meny times got an istant hardon just thinking about her if honest wanking over her now

"

You should keep that shit to yourself

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