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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever fucked up big time with someone you really like?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Have you ever fucked up big time with someone you really like? "
Not that I'm aware of lol but have been fucked over by a few people I thought were friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You can forget people like that quite quickly though...

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe

Yep been there, done that got the t shirt as they say

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"You can forget people like that quite quickly though..."
Very easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and i hate myself for it wish i could change things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes and i hate myself for it wish i could change things "

I know how you feel my dear, gutted..

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Yes I've messed up yes I wish I hadnt would I change it no because it's these experiences that have shaped who I am now and I'm happy now

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By *ewshyTV/TS
over a year ago

falkirk

yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep fucked up big time and wish I could change it, massive regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yipp .Big time.!!.now. Huge Regrets.

and wish cld change it .

Tho sadly dont think I can. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having watched BBC2 last week, i currently understand Polar bears better than women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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lol wouldn't be hard x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well seems like I'm not the only one....

Only time will tell, hopefully we can resolve things, if we can start talking again... The balls in your court honey....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh hell yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off course x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucked up maybe not right term of phrase for me, not realising I was in love with my best mate because i was so focused on trying to make another relationship work, till he moved away and left me yeah biggest regret told him last year how I felt after not hearing from him in about two years but he's moved on and met someone but feel better for saying it out loud to him and was finally able to put it behind me

Hope whatever you think you've fucked up you can sort or at least move on from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, realised I knew someone on here and chatted , but she started freaking out as she thought I worked with her, owned up when she got upset, but although she stays close havent seen her for months in the street. Big mistake , wish there was a rewind button

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fingers crossed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not fucked up myself but i've seen one nasty bitch fuck up lots of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not fucked up myself but i've seen one nasty bitch fuck up lots of times"

Hmmm...wonder if its the same one who tried to fuck me over?? Menralist !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My specieality I'm afraid never learn or relies what I had till it's gone ........

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Fucked myself up be getting involved wiith someone from here. 10 months after finishing it, I still get threatening messages!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes, realised I knew someone on here and chatted , but she started freaking out as she thought I worked with her, owned up when she got upset, but although she stays close havent seen her for months in the street. Big mistake , wish there was a rewind button "

just shows how hit or miss it all can be at times. Dared do the "do i know you" ask last year...we both laughed at realising we knew each other and now good fab friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is for you will never go by you and it always takes two to tango. When any relationship breaks down it involves two people. Choices and actions are made which can be bad choices and stupid actions but those choices and actions are always taken in a context.

Nobody is perfect. It is human to err at the end of the day. Some people never realize until the reality hits them what they have lost. However was it ever truly there to be held to begin with?

You need to think of others in a relationship. Their needs and drives, their realities and challenges, before you get into a relationship. If that is one-sided then you get out or else it could knock you mental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah, With the knowledge I have now I'd love to turn back the clocks 10yrs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know this is a cliche but I do believe everything happens for a reason - although the reason may not be clear at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know this is a cliche but I do believe everything happens for a reason - although the reason may not be clear at the time"
Yeah I believe that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have thought at the time I'd fucked up....further down the road I realise I hadn't fucked up at all and have no regrets.

Wouldn't have been so easy to fuck it up if it had been worth anything.

Luckily my 'fuck ups' are now someone elses problem....silver clouds and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all f--k up,all have regrets, that's life and unfortunately these things happen.Always try to go through life with a smile, but we all make mistakes we wish we didn't because we're all human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ain't fucked things up at least once with someone then you ain't lived!

Life's rich tapestry and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah fucked up big time. Lost my wife and my soulmate. I've moved on but still regret it. It was 5 years ago and still hurts like hell.

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