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By *xploring_options OP   Couple
over a year ago

Helensburgh

So I have a question for you all , how would u deal with the situation if someone you wanted to play with required photos or a video of the encounter for their partner to see?

We have play as a couple but also in a stag/vixen or Hotwife scenario… at times my partner wants to see what iv been up to but I feel a little uncomfortable asking people for videos or photos …. Am I over thinking is this a standard thing ….

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By *eedsanewusernameMan
over a year ago

Mainly under the bed...


"So I have a question for you all , how would u deal with the situation if someone you wanted to play with required photos or a video of the encounter for their partner to see?

We have play as a couple but also in a stag/vixen or Hotwife scenario… at times my partner wants to see what iv been up to but I feel a little uncomfortable asking people for videos or photos …. Am I over thinking is this a standard thing …. "

All you can do is ask. If the other person is uncomfortable with it, that's entirely their choice. If no pics/vids is a deal breaker then that meet isn't going to happen, onwards and upwards as they say!

Personally, I'd not have an issue with being asked, I'd not have an issue saying yes or no if I were comfortable/uncomfortable with the situation/expectations.

I know that's probably not overly helpful...

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I think you can ask, they can always say no if it’s not their thing

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By *eptune1Man
over a year ago

The Bay

Far be it from me to tell you you’re over thinking however, speaking from personal experience, I play with couples and if the hubby isn’t there I would assume he’d want pics and vids.

That said, everyone is different and there may be people who aren’t comfortable with that but it certainly wouldn’t be rude to ask tho

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By *xploring_options OP   Couple
over a year ago

Helensburgh

I think because it’s a fairly new thing for us to venture in to I’m still finding my feet with it and building my own confidence , I know that for my partner a big part of the appeal is knowing what has happened and seeing me in that situation so it’s something I would love to do for him but also know I am quite protective over my own image so feel I’d be asking a lot of another person if that makes sense !

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I think because it’s a fairly new thing for us to venture in to I’m still finding my feet with it and building my own confidence , I know that for my partner a big part of the appeal is knowing what has happened and seeing me in that situation so it’s something I would love to do for him but also know I am quite protective over my own image so feel I’d be asking a lot of another person if that makes sense ! "

Taking photos and videos has happened more often than not on my meets.

If you're protective of your own image then capture stuff on your phone only and then you can choose what to keep / share / delete.

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By *eptune1Man
over a year ago

The Bay

I always use the woman’s phone. Then they have full control. If they want to share later, great

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By *ompStompMan
over a year ago

Inverness/ Glasgow

For me that's part of the fun knowing you're involving the other half even if they are not there..

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife


"I always use the woman’s phone. Then they have full control. If they want to share later, great"

This right here

They can crop/blur/alter the pic that will be shared and send you it to be used if they aren't fully open to it.

I dont mind personally aslong as my face Isent plastered everywhere

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By *xploring_options OP   Couple
over a year ago

Helensburgh

Ok well this is all very positive I think for me I just didn’t want to seem rude making that sort of request … but clearly ….. I’m over thinking

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

When we do the stag n vixen thing then I usually get pics/vids or even a sound clip, but only if the all are OK with this. Its not a deal breaker. I understand those that don't want to as I am the same and wouldn't like to he filmed.

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By *eedsanewusernameMan
over a year ago

Mainly under the bed...


"I think because it’s a fairly new thing for us to venture in to I’m still finding my feet with it and building my own confidence , I know that for my partner a big part of the appeal is knowing what has happened and seeing me in that situation so it’s something I would love to do for him but also know I am quite protective over my own image so feel I’d be asking a lot of another person if that makes sense !

Taking photos and videos has happened more often than not on my meets.

If you're protective of your own image then capture stuff on your phone only and then you can choose what to keep / share / delete."

So I'd agree with this. If I were asked for pics and vids I'd insist that they were on your phone; you're in control then. Plus I'd not do anything that made me worry "what if they got out?". So I suppose you picking the right people who suit your needs and everyone being on the same page is essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve done this both . Been largely enjoyable. A lot of trust involved. Shouldn’t be a deal breaker though

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By *xploring_options OP   Couple
over a year ago

Helensburgh

Really appreciate all your views it certainly makes me feel for confident in making that request to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a dealbreaker, but it is nice. We've very occasionally met with others just for photos.

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By *aretobstupidCouple
over a year ago

Moray

Mr likes me to send back clips and pics when I meet on my own. Most people are okay with it, can work round no faces and nothing ever gets posted on fab without everyone's permission. If you ask the worst that will happen is they say no.

Mrs x

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By *ilkand2Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We've never had anybody refuse tbh

Common sense with no faces, tattoos etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine by me

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