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By *urquoise OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

My gripe is not enough women meet for 1 on 1.

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

There’s a few ladies that I known over the years meet one to one but generally they meet in clubs or at the ladies socials first as they’ve been let down or misled in the past so makes it harder to filter out the fakes etc

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By *urquoise OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Yes I’m definitely getting that vibe, I think there’s going to be a female only social in edin soon so looking forward to that

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's near on impossible to get to meet a lady for fun

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife


"It's near on impossible to get to meet a lady for fun"

It can be difficult yes as women can be very selective, but not near impossible. Iv met many women 1:1 and met women only from couples also.

I know plenty women who have done the same

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By *urquoise OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I understand us women can be selective, and I think we have every right to be!

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife


"I understand us women can be selective, and I think we have every right to be! "

Exactly my point

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

There are not a lot of single ladies in my area so that limits things a bit also

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By *aucyxx1Couple
over a year ago

troon

I have met a couple off ladys from here over the years but its getting harder to arrange meets. X

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By *lump-and-juicyWoman
over a year ago

Stirling

Ye i am the same, finding it difficult to find ladies that can meet in the afternoon.

I have always enjoyed the ladies only socials.

And in the past the ladies only red shoe party's mmm

Would love then again

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Defo not as many bi single ladies as there used to be on here I find it quite hard too xxx

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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yep, I've tried too!

Can understand men's frustrations on here a bit better now!!

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By *urple-n-PinkCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Coatbridge

We're an ff couple and meeting women who are genuine or aren't looking to bring their husband in is difficult. Then there's genuine attraction to think about and then there's the fact that meeting two women can be intimidating for some....we respect that though and we always have each other. Ladies only socials have been a big help in meeting people. We even started just asking outright about playing with ff couples because if you're not interested we respect that and move on. No point in wasting people's time if we aren't your cup of tea but equally we need decent chat and not hey how are you haha

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By *andj5Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

I love meeting single girls or other bi girls from cpls on my own as it’s a really nice vide and if the connection is there then it’s really wild no kinky.

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By *edGlasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Bet it's easier for a woman to meet a woman than a guy to meet a woman!

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By *littleextraWoman
over a year ago

Lisburn

Was in Edinburgh last month and was desperate to meet a girl for some fun x

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By *urquoise OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Damn! That’s a shame

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By *urquoise OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Totally, I think it would be intimidating to meet 2 women (but biggest turn on too!). I don’t see many FF profiles on here.

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By *urquoise OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

So how do I entice more women I think maybe it’s about putting the effort in, connection is also a must and just going about things in a respectful way oh and reading profiles is a must too?

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"Bet it's easier for a woman to meet a woman than a guy to meet a woman!"

How so?

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife


"So how do I entice more women I think maybe it’s about putting the effort in, connection is also a must and just going about things in a respectful way oh and reading profiles is a must too? "

This is true, I think alot of women don't put the energy into it as its easier to meet men, don't need to put in as much effort, or that's the feeling I get anyway.

Iv spoke to many women and it fizzles out fairly quickly. Iv also been blessed to meet a few lovely women too

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Bet it's easier for a woman to meet a woman than a guy to meet a woman!

How so? "

Definitely not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it impossible to get a woman to even reply to a message, so I've given up now.

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By *N007Couple
over a year ago

clacks

There's been a few socials at AD lately maybe the could try a female one.

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife


"There's been a few socials at AD lately maybe the could try a female one."

Someone tried to arrange a female one and it went down like a lead balloon, it was on the forum

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

There’s a summer ladies social on the forum atm in may!…we have ran a few for the ladies now in the Glasgow area including naked butlers

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"My gripe is not enough women meet for 1 on 1. "

There more of us out there than you think lol I promise

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt

I'd love to meet women 1 on 1. I worry that some would be put off by me being part of a couple though.

Beth x

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By *N007Couple
over a year ago

clacks


"I'd love to meet women 1 on 1. I worry that some would be put off by me being part of a couple though.

Beth x"

I'm also part of a couple and looking for females (single or in a couple) my other half never uses fab, it's myself (n) that does all the messaging but I also guess most people think it's the man on the profile and I suppose there's not a way to prove that too

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"I'd love to meet women 1 on 1. I worry that some would be put off by me being part of a couple though.

Beth x"

I’m part of a couple and had no luck on the couples profile looking for women, now have a solo profile for woman meets x

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By *aretobstupidCouple
over a year ago

Moray


"I'd love to meet women 1 on 1. I worry that some would be put off by me being part of a couple though.

Beth x"

Same here, I have met a couple of ladies but would like to meet more. I meet on my own but maybe need to make it clearer on the profile!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women's socials is a good thing. Very few meet one to one and so many that day they do turn out to be fake, it's very hard to tell a genuine female looking fir one to one unfortunately. I've spoken to so many fake/time wasters that I'm now very wary. xx

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt


"I'd love to meet women 1 on 1. I worry that some would be put off by me being part of a couple though.

Beth x

I'm also part of a couple and looking for females (single or in a couple) my other half never uses fab, it's myself (n) that does all the messaging but I also guess most people think it's the man on the profile and I suppose there's not a way to prove that too"

I'm exactly the same. It's all me on here. Even veris have been solo meets.

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt


"I'd love to meet women 1 on 1. I worry that some would be put off by me being part of a couple though.

Beth x

Same here, I have met a couple of ladies but would like to meet more. I meet on my own but maybe need to make it clearer on the profile!

Mrs x"

I have on our profile that I'll meet solo for FF. Had more luck on a night out to an LGBTQ club x

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I would attend a ladies only social in the Tayside/Fife area

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By *aretobstupidCouple
over a year ago

Moray


"I'd love to meet women 1 on 1. I worry that some would be put off by me being part of a couple though.

Beth x

Same here, I have met a couple of ladies but would like to meet more. I meet on my own but maybe need to make it clearer on the profile!

Mrs x

I have on our profile that I'll meet solo for FF. Had more luck on a night out to an LGBTQ club x"

Thanks for that, we need to refresh our page anyway so I'll add something like that on

Mrs x

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

I hope off the back of this thread it encourages these women to message each other as there's a fairly simple solution

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By *urquoise OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Yes I agree, I think for me it’s the very short messages like ‘how’s you’ which I find hard and then the messages back and forth are just a few words, hard to establish a connection of some sort so I give up and move on!

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By *urquoise OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Indeed!

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By *urquoise OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Haha me too!

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By *urquoise OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Good luck

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt


"Yes I agree, I think for me it’s the very short messages like ‘how’s you’ which I find hard and then the messages back and forth are just a few words, hard to establish a connection of some sort so I give up and move on! "

I get this too. Especially annoying when the person who sent the first message has zero chat. I try to put a bit of effort in to my replies, keep it all flowing and interesting, then get sent just a few words back

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By *urvyBiUnicornWoman
over a year ago

dundee

I've met some lovely ladies one on one (and hopefully there will be some repeat meets!) But I've also attempted to make contact with women who say they are Bi and looking to meet women, but get zero response. I'm not the best at first messages, but I prefer to meet socially pretty quickly anyway and that's the best way to figure out real attraction/connection.

Just putting this out there....I'm happy to meet single women, women who are part of a cpl but want to meet alone and FF couples!

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