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By *achoy47 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

opps whos not lol

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By *achoy47 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

This site is getting worse by the minute. To many time wasters and people who are not genuine. Fabers don't trust them even if the have verifications on their profile page. As we all know this can be done by setting up an other username so you can post your own verification messages. Why arrange a meet then don't show up as this shows me that you are not a genuine faber but a time waster. All this does is tar us all with the same stick. This is a good site lets not let the arsehole on here ruin it.

What do you all think

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"This site is getting worse by the minute. To many time wasters and people who are not genuine. Fabers don't trust them even if the have verifications on their profile page. As we all know this can be done by setting up an other username so you can post your own verification messages. Why arrange a meet then don't show up as this shows me that you are not a genuine faber but a time waster. All this does is tar us all with the same stick. This is a good site lets not let the arsehole on here ruin it.

What do you all think"
Ive seen a few of your posts all very similar to this one maybe its all about you rather than them ie as in how you arrange your meets ?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"This site is getting worse by the minute. To many time wasters and people who are not genuine. Fabers don't trust them even if the have verifications on their profile page. As we all know this can be done by setting up an other username so you can post your own verification messages. Why arrange a meet then don't show up as this shows me that you are not a genuine faber but a time waster. All this does is tar us all with the same stick. This is a good site lets not let the arsehole on here ruin it.

What do you all thinkIve seen a few of your posts all very similar to this one maybe its all about you rather than them ie as in how you arrange your meets ? "
yup juicy to many want to lay the blame on others doorsteps and another point if you setup another profile you cant verify it as neither ar verified its only a verified user who can verify

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By *autious CoupleCouple
over a year ago

home

Have to say every meet we have arranged they have turned up and never let us down nor would we let anyone down. We do take our time to get to know the people first so I think that helps us it can tell you a lot about people chatting to them for a while the fakes and time wasters trip up all the time and getting easier to identify .....well that's how we see it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

generally couples and solo women can pick and choose a meet any time the mood hits them...guys, its a bit diffrent, lots of hopeful messaging,,avoiding not seeming too pushy...hoping you've read All the profile...and hoping you may get lucky...if after all the messaging and hoping its a fun meet you may get....you can understand the occasional peeved guy thats been had and just saying so.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

People will change their minds for all sorts of reasons. What really annoys me is instead of just saying, I have changed my mind, people do the daftest things. Best one I have had recently though was guy blocked me day before we were due to meet. I text to find out what was going on and the response was "I've gone off you". Now why couldn't he have said that in the first place! lmao

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By *utieguyMan
over a year ago

motherwell

Never had an arranged meet not turn up either. Maybe I've been lucky so far......

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think its definatley all down to how meets are being arranged,far too many guys so desperate for a meet they will just go for it after a few emails and this is usually the end result, you guys need to wise up and realise that not many if any females/couples will just say yeah il come n shag you just like that many will always insist on a social meet first so if your speaking to someone who says yes after a few emails then just be a little more weary ...but good luck

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

Ill admit that I once called it off meeting a guy on the day of the meet but that was purely down to a txt I got on the morning that made it appear as if he hadn't listened to a word I said and it put me right off. He wasn't too please but hey ho id rather be safe

Will always be timewasters on sites like these you just have to learn to deal with it, spot them early and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its definatley all down to how meets are being arranged,far too many guys so desperate for a meet they will just go for it after a few emails and this is usually the end result, you guys need to wise up and realise that not many if any females/couples will just say yeah il come n shag you just like that many will always insist on a social meet first so if your speaking to someone who says yes after a few emails then just be a little more weary ...but good luck "

Very true, although many couples and women are starting to address the "single men" like a class of children in a slightly patronising manner.

Trouble is there will always be people time wasters and people getting cold feet as they realise the fantasy they had is actually reality and another person with feelings.

Everyone simply needs to pause and think before acting on an urge which may well pass.....after about 3 minutes in my case lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I think its definatley all down to how meets are being arranged,far too many guys so desperate for a meet they will just go for it after a few emails and this is usually the end result, you guys need to wise up and realise that not many if any females/couples will just say yeah il come n shag you just like that many will always insist on a social meet first so if your speaking to someone who says yes after a few emails then just be a little more weary ...but good luck

Very true, although many couples and women are starting to address the "single men" like a class of children in a slightly patronising manner.

Trouble is there will always be people time wasters and people getting cold feet as they realise the fantasy they had is actually reality and another person with feelings.

Everyone simply needs to pause and think before acting on an urge which may well pass.....after about 3 minutes in my case lol "
I treat every guy diffrent and it always make me laugh when guy say its people like that that give us guys a bad name ...utter rubbish guys make their own destiny on here if you act the idiot you'll be treated like one ..come across like a genuine down to earth guy then you will be treated like one ....Go make your own destinys guys because there is living proof in many guys on here that you can be succesfull if you try hard enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just find all a wee bit ironic this shouting out,,, "thats it my times been wasted",,,how,,,,,,feckin,,,,,,long,,,,,does,,yer average,,,,,eager,,,,to,,,meet,,, kinda,,,,guy spend on here browsing, messaging, ohhhhh hoping for a crumb of an upbeat positive response, never mind a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wonder what makes me then being a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some guys really have it coming. If a 18 year 'porn star esque' female contacts you for a meet. Really, ask yourself, coud you pull someone like her in the real world. If the answer is no, well then ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some guys really have it coming. If a 18 year 'porn star esque' female contacts you for a meet. Really, ask yourself, coud you pull someone like her in the real world. If the answer is no, well then ......"
yeh gie her a couple of grand lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"wonder what makes me then being a newbie "
Are you a newbie or you been here before ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wonder what makes me then being a newbie Are you a newbie or you been here before ?"
total newbie never been on here before

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"wonder what makes me then being a newbie Are you a newbie or you been here before ?total newbie never been on here before"
AH ok thought i recognised your profile pic from before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wonder what makes me then being a newbie Are you a newbie or you been here before ?total newbie never been on here beforeAH ok thought i recognised your profile pic from before "
nope - popular shirt maybe lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"wonder what makes me then being a newbie Are you a newbie or you been here before ?total newbie never been on here beforeAH ok thought i recognised your profile pic from before nope - popular shirt maybe lol"
hmmmm maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wonder what makes me then being a newbie Are you a newbie or you been here before ?total newbie never been on here before"

From reading the forums and recieving mails from single males, it seems as though alot try to fit a bill. There is no ultimate bill to fit, just be yourself, if they‘re not interested move on. Don‘t waste your time or try to reason, as soon as it feels negative just accept n find your next interest. To be honest it can seem a little unfair sometimes but what can you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some guys really have it coming. If a 18 year 'porn star esque' female contacts you for a meet. Really, ask yourself, coud you pull someone like her in the real world. If the answer is no, well then ......"

There would be no stoppin me if she was Nigella Lawson esque,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was stood up 3 times in 2 weeks by 2 ladies. Had been chatting for awhile,but you do get them. DoD I get mad? Nope just smiled and carried on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wonder what makes me then being a newbie Are you a newbie or you been here before ?total newbie never been on here beforeAH ok thought i recognised your profile pic from before nope - popular shirt maybe lolhmmmm maybe "
maybe what don't understand

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Welcome to fab,home of 99.9% wasters and weirdos

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