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By *eeflower69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Ok here is the thing, there is a guy from another site who is a virgin and wants me to pop his cherry. He's a sweety guy but here is the problem, 1) he's a wee bit too young for me, 2) we talked about getting together and he started asking me how I felt for him and would we be going out together ect.... I said no I couldn't give him commitment and it would just be fun and he accused me of just wanting him so I could pop his cherry.

We parted ways at this point and I thought that was that. However he has been back in touch and has said he doesn't care about a relationship and just wants a shag.

He's 31 and really sweet and I'd like to do a nice thing for him.

So the question is....do I believe him and fuck him or do you think that is just asking for trouble?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldnt imagine deflowering a 30 something chick virgin....hhhmm im not saying he's a lying toad but ribbit....some guys adopt a sociopathic personality when there is nekkidness invovled !

*5 minutes pass*

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Pump em and dump em !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd avoid like the plague, sounds like a very needy person and I'd be dubious as to whether he'd not become attached and want that relationship he hinted at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes avoid afterward! That's the dump em part but first it's the good bit and possibly some Percy thrower deflowering...pump em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shag him....and if he really is a virgin then shag him again about 40 seconds later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to mention lady...I'm a virgin too

*adopts sociopathic tendencies in light of 40 second intervals between pumps*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid..

A 30yr old Virgin

Does he still live with his mum

Or worse..does he have her locked in a cupboard and wear her dresses

Run run as fast as you can

Auds

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Cock size.... Large shag, small suggest a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid him sounds like a bit of a fruit

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By *b12345678Man
over a year ago

Highlands

Pop his cherry for him..

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By *eeflower69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Thanks for the advice guys and yes he still lives with his parents.

70% of me says avoid but 20% says do him and maybe that will make him more confident with women and maybe then he will find the relationship he's looking for.....

10% of me has no fecking idea, but that's not unusual.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Go with your gut ...70% is a damn good sign even you think he's a nutter

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By *uncouple981Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire

I would be wondering why he is still a virgin. Then I would prob feel sorry for him and give him a sympathy shag.

X

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I would be wondering why he is still a virgin. Then I would prob feel sorry for him and give him a sympathy shag.

X"

Im a virgin

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By *uncouple981Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire

So I see by your profile!

X

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I would have to go with the majority here - do NOT pop his cherry. He will get far too attached. Offer him dating advice but stay away. If he was that desperate to pop his cherry he wouldn't be hassling you he would go see a 'professional'.

Sorry but this has psycho written all over it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds a bit suspect... Have you met him face to face? If not, do that over a coffee, then see what you feel. By then he will either be a defo fruit or a nice bloke.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"So I see by your profile!

X"

Was worth a try

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

This is all fantasy play on the virgins part, is it in yet ? can you feel me ? am i doing it right ? how was it for you ? sorry i can't keep an erection its my "first" time, sounds a load of bs to me.

If your going to go through with it make it clear you dont actually believe he's a virgin and see the reaction you get.

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By *uncouple981Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire

It was. Thanks you have cheered me up. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would avoid.

30 yr old male virgins don't exist unless he is a stay at home nerd.

This in turn may bring about the male version of bunny boiler and you have a stalker for life and believe me this you don't want those are a danger.

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By *eeflower69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Thanks guys, I think I will avoid.

I do believe he is a virgin and it would be a sympathy shag.

30yr old virgins do exist, I had a 34 yr old virgin a couple of years ago.

He wants to take me out to lunch which is sweet but I definitely don't want a stalker.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would avoid him, the main reason being is that I believe he will go all lovey dovey on you afterwards and it will be more hassale than its worth and you might feel obliged to meet him again out of sympathy more than anything else.

Maybe a clear cut from him and just say you cant take this sort of strain in your life at present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo avoid. Sounds either like the usual guys trying it on, or a stalker in the making.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jodie please dont tare us all with the same BRUSH...USUAL GUY....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def def avoid..he'll be calling texting turning up stalking....horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jodie please dont tare us all with the same BRUSH...USUAL GUY...."

You'd be amazed how many guys there are cropping up saying they are virgins for the taking. For SOME guys its anything they think'll give them an edge. A sympathy shag is still a shag.

Its easy to generalize when there's a lot of eedjits out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hes not a virgin...hes a very naughty booooyyy! Oops wrang fulum!

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By *eeflower69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Well we chatted today and I told him that there was nothing going to happen between us and he said "that's ok I just want to meet some times for lunch".

I know what would happen though, he'd just start to pressurised me for sex.

I don't like hurting him but better now than later when I have to take a restraining order out on him.

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

If I told you I was a virgin would you do the honors?.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weeflower,dont meet him or shag him.Still chat but sounds like a stalker in the making if you show him any empathay.Just keep him at arms distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, new here, niaive as fek, but I'd say sever all links, guy is a bam, whether intentional or not. You'll be doing both yourself and him a favour by blocking him.

How fekin responsible am I????

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