FabSwingers.com forum: Face pic

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If i chat to you and you ask for a face pic even though in my opening mail i speak about the fact that all my face pic are in private for friends only should thos ring alarm bells?

Or when i say this to you when you ask me to send a face pic you make an excuse and then i reply for you to send your to me to which i will reply with mine am i being weird...

Its the fact that your going to refuse to send a pic after some one send it to you that happens all the time on here...

Am i being weird?

Dont care persons now blocked for wasting my time and i am thinking with no verifications and a black sillouete that its probably a bloke lo

Sorry for the rant lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being weird fella...im a weirdo tae...aye yer right though...too many of these 'send a face pic or i wont rely' on peoples profiles and they have nothing on theirs or as you point out, you send one and get heehaw back...my chops get me blocked aw the time...face bothered...nopesy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust instincts,, un verified and not a lot to go on in profile?

Personally i dont go near.

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By *autious CoupleCouple
over a year ago

home

Never send a face pic any more unless we have spoke to the couple on the phone to make sure they are who they say they are .....still know you can get caught out but a bit safer we think.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Totally agree with you, however, I do find it cheeky when the guy makes contact, you exchange a couple of messages and they demand a face pic without offering one first!

And yes I do call them on it! They do tend to send one after that lol

Same as when people send friend invites and they have no pics, why the hell would I want to share mine?

Ok, my mini rant is over

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By *ucycuteTV/TS
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Totally agree with you, however, I do find it cheeky when the guy makes contact, you exchange a couple of messages and they demand a face pic without offering one first!

And yes I do call them on it! They do tend to send one after that lol

Same as when people send friend invites and they have no pics, why the hell would I want to share mine?

Ok, my mini rant is over

Not just guys - couples do the same also (well so called couples) lol x

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

why do people find sending face pics so difficult.it doesn't have to be a face pic of you,whilst your knobbing in a sheep.

it could be a face pic of you wearing that new jumper,your gran got you for christmas.

although if it's on your grans mantelpiece the next time you visit,

she could be your next meet mmmmmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never asked because I personally don't have any to send so that would make me a hypocrite !!! Besides guys have voluntarily sent them

And then looked fuk all like the pics in person

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

for me the easy way round it is face pics in pvt take my time getting to know folks anyway and never just fancy a shag so freind invite always pops up first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we wont send face pics anymore we prefer to get to know someone which is starting to become rare on here now that people getting to know you just wanting pics.

we have been on cam in chat more than a few times so the people we chat to alot in chat know that we are a real couple

for people that want to get to know us they have to earn the right to be on our friends list now and then they can see face pics or we go on cam on skype

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This annoys living daylights out of me.as a single guy who does not care on any perception people have of me I have face pic up so people can see what they are getting. Single females and couples all have eye shots or boob shots or face hidden pics very few have face pic. Why o why not ?????? Surly there has to be attraction on both sides . All say it's work related or fake profiles but come on ....... If you are a swinger and feel this way does that not make ashamed there for why u on here . Think once u have 5 verifications u should see all pics and face pics should be mandatory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This annoys living daylights out of me.as a single guy who does not care on any perception people have of me I have face pic up so people can see what they are getting. Single females and couples all have eye shots or boob shots or face hidden pics very few have face pic. Why o why not ?????? Surly there has to be attraction on both sides . All say it's work related or fake profiles but come on ....... If you are a swinger and feel this way does that not make ashamed there for why u on here . Think once u have 5 verifications u should see all pics and face pics should be mandatory "

Well funnily enough most of my friends family close work colleagues know I'm on here but my kids well they're not old enough to understand and really don't need the small narrow minded people's opinions passed down through their kids to mine in the playground !!!! Is that not a good enough reason for a start ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U honestly think parents would tell there kids about swinging ???? If they know .they are on here! .....man up princess and be happy we yourself and your sexuality .... If u have 8 kids fair enough but u are not causing any harm to any one . U like sex that's it we all have kinks and your on a site for a reason .

Sorry does my goat in like

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By *eeflower69Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"U honestly think parents would tell there kids about swinging ???? If they know .they are on here! .....man up princess and be happy we yourself and your sexuality .... If u have 8 kids fair enough but u are not causing any harm to any one . U like sex that's it we all have kinks and your on a site for a reason .

Sorry does my goat in like"

I'm happy with my sexuality and my friends know I'm on here but that doesn't mean I want the whole world to know. My boss is a prev and if he knew I did this I would never hear the end of it.

We all have different reasons why we might not want our face on public display.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry does my goat in like"

You currently have your profile hidden so not really in any position to tell anyone to 'man up'!!

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By *cotsbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Helensburgh

The trouble there is some of us *really do* have work issues.

If it was generally discovered that me and mrs.bi are on here, I will lose my job. Not because we're doing anything wrong, or immoral, or illegal, but just because some people are very narrow-minded.

Why would I willingly expose us to that, just so someone who won't meet us anyway can see a face before they click "next"?

On top of that, I like my privacy. I don't want people seeing our faces unless they've talked with us, are looking to meet etc. and want to exchange photos. I don't demand photos off of others, so why should they have the automatic right to do so of us?

If someone is genuinely interested in meeting us, wants to take the time to get to know us (we do not just have random meets; friends only here!), then photos will be exchanged.

If someone's just looking for pics to grid one out to, they can go get porn. They're not getting anything from us.

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