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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder if anyone has experienced the age thing. In 24 hours. I went from "it's ok being your age " (I was 60 then) to being 61 as it was my birthday.

Being told I was to old. The one that really got me was. I was past it. Wow 24 hours can really change how people see you. Am sure am not the only one.......what's your experience???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle at 42 with people looking for 30 something once I hit 40 meets disappeared since, best I can get from fab are one liner chats from people not even looking to meet me.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought at your age it would be different. That's why I was asking. May be people just don't know what there actually looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think that along with since covid I feel people just want to be isolated by choice just incase type on mindset.

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Happens at intervals, 30, 40, 50....

It is of course down to peoples preferences and on some ways mental barriers that we attach to numbers.

As you say why would a day make a difference you are still the same person, but thats life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if anyone has experienced the age thing. In 24 hours. I went from "it's ok being your age " (I was 60 then) to being 61 as it was my birthday.

Being told I was to old. The one that really got me was. I was past it. Wow 24 hours can really change how people see you. Am sure am not the only one.......what's your experience???"
Don’t let it bother you. Some people can be rude. It’s maybe just their age preference. But no need to be rude though. Good luck in your search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just have age restrictions to reduce the amount of messages they get.

Some people will just look for those ages.

Some people don't even have there real age on here just to get passed the message age range filters.

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By *M60Couple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

62 and still out there enjoying the scene, personally i find that once people get to know you age becomes irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I live in hope then. who wants to know me l

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I’ve just moved up a year, not sure how it has affected me yet

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

I’m just about to cross a major number just wish folk would update their age ranges as years go on .

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

Turning 40 and suddenly the age of men messaging me dropped by ten years !! Go figure

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Turning 30 was a horrible feeling. Since birthdays with a 0 haven't bothered me and another is coming towards me like an F1 car on the home straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your right they should change as they get older to. But let's face it we all feel younger than we actually are. I find people on here are much younger at hart and more friendly. Maybe we should start to think more about the age we put up on profiles.

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Folk can be judgemental about age.Maybe there should be a section for age groups too same as we have areas etc.

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By *cothereMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

I have been too old for a while now it seems lol

But surprisingly 60 round corner and I was too young last week pmsl

You canny win

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By *ouble FuckCouple (MM)
over a year ago

north Lanarkshire


"I’ve just moved up a year, not sure how it has affected me yet "

Still stunning

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

This time next week I will be a year older. Doesn't really bother me now to be honest. Nothing we can do so best just to embrace each birthday as it comes with a smile.

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By *verageman81Man
over a year ago

lerwick

I'm in

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By *ibennyMan
over a year ago

rutherglen

Just turned 62 and still get some cock

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

When I turned 40 that was it, no messages, no fabs and definitely no meets!

Surely that’s not it……..is it?

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By *ensual_MrCMan
over a year ago

East Kilbride


"I’ve just moved up a year, not sure how it has affected me yet "

I’ve just moved up a year as well … unfortunately it’s also resulted in me moving up a DECADE as far as ‘filters’ are concerned

And turns out a LOT of ladies/couples have filters set at “less than or = 50”

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Just turned 56 yesterday, it needs to slow up, so many adventures to have

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Go to socials and meet people. That way they are less hung up about age. Think of it as an additional filter. Only people who really want to meet you will message.

When I turned 50 and my inbox really slowed down. Now at almost 55 I’m lucky if I get a handful of new emails a week.

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