FabSwingers.com forum: Am I too young?

By *yrshireSolo OP Man
over a year ago

ayshire

Hello everyone!

From my experiences on here over the last couple months I think I am struggling to get anywhere because of my age?

Even with profiles that I fall into their preferred age, I’m not even getting a reply?

Am I doing something wrong? Or is no one interested in a first timer that’s a bit young?

any help will be much appreciated!x

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I wouldn't necessarily say it's because of your age, although some older people may not wish to play with someone closer to their children's ages.

Looking at your profile I would say get some better photos, and rewrite your blurb. You don't say anything about what you're looking for or what you have to offer people. Your profile is your shop window, so sell yourself.

I also recommend getting along to socials and clubs as it's the easiest way to get those first verifications. In person veris are more important than webcam veris, I personally pay no attention to those, so you need to get yourself out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya!

It's not your age. Hope these pointers help.

I'd take the dick/body pics down unless you are in particularly good shape and well-groomed. You say yourself you're average, so sell the parts of you that are special. How do you feel most attractive?

Best have a nice face pic. No hats, sunglasses, or potentially polarising football colours. You can blur using a free app. Dress like you're ready for a night out or meet, and the background should not be a messy bedroom.

Your blurb:

- Every line ends with an exclamation mark! You can appear more chilled using a full stop.

- Using "aha" and "lol" in a blurb comes across as a lack of self-confidence.

- While the transparency is good, head to a club or social event for a veri... I may amend the bit about you being too nervous to attend a club as women like a confident guy.

Really hope this helps. Best of luck xx

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By *yrshireSolo OP Man
over a year ago

ayshire

Okay thanks to both of you! I’ll revise my pictures over the coming days, what would you recommend to catch the eyes of these lovely fabbers? From my experience they all say I am too young

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Okay thanks to both of you! I’ll revise my pictures over the coming days, what would you recommend to catch the eyes of these lovely fabbers? From my experience they all say I am too young

Have a look through some other guys pics and see what you think looks good, and work from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s your age, fab is a tough place for single men!

What about going on cam to get a verification? I saw that’s what you’re keen to get on your profile x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Okay thanks to both of you! I’ll revise my pictures over the coming days, what would you recommend to catch the eyes of these lovely fabbers? From my experience they all say I am too young

They don't have to be naked pics. Dressed smart can look really good.

And just go to a club, you don't need anyone to hold your hand and there will be people to chat to. Sex is not guaranteed, keep that in mind to avoid disappointment. Just go with the mindset to get to know some people. Added bonus if you do hit it off with someone and end up in the playrooms x

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