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FACE PIC ON A MEET DO OR NOT

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By *OSCCOSMITH69 OP   Man
over a year ago

local

So if your meeting some one do you exchange face pics? Prior to a meet or do you just show up and hope theres an attraction… or like i ve just experienced you have to provide a face pic be verified and expect the meet is mind blowing and not expect any face pic or verification from a couple lol

I would had to now that some one wants attracted to me and that they just want to fuck anything that walked….

Need to be some kind of attraction wither physical or mental or better both

Does any one else agree or is it just a site full of “ any holes a goal” folk now lol

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We would say every situation is different.

As a rule we state no face pics! Is this a set in stone never show ourselves rule, no probably not, does it keep away a percentage of time wasting pic hunters absolutely!!!!

So I would say if we were in conversation with another couple/person and had decided to meet up the situation would be completely different. If we were at the meeting up stage we would feel more comfortable.

But that’s us, we totally accept everybody is different!!

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By *OSCCOSMITH69 OP   Man
over a year ago

local


"We would say every situation is different.

As a rule we state no face pics! Is this a set in stone never show ourselves rule, no probably not, does it keep away a percentage of time wasting pic hunters absolutely!!!!

So I would say if we were in conversation with another couple/person and had decided to meet up the situation would be completely different. If we were at the meeting up stage we would feel more comfortable.

But that’s us, we totally accept everybody is different!!"

Ok so your basing your likeness of some one on intelligence and conversation rather than physical attraction… which is fine

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"We would say every situation is different.

As a rule we state no face pics! Is this a set in stone never show ourselves rule, no probably not, does it keep away a percentage of time wasting pic hunters absolutely!!!!

So I would say if we were in conversation with another couple/person and had decided to meet up the situation would be completely different. If we were at the meeting up stage we would feel more comfortable.

But that’s us, we totally accept everybody is different!!

Ok so your basing your likeness of some one on intelligence and conversation rather than physical attraction… which is fine"

No not at all, but regardless of their face, if we don’t get on, have a basic level of trust then we would not be meeting anyway. We can tell from different pics, body type, clothing, heights, etc etc if we have any interest in moving forward also without a face pic.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Always face pics before meeting, need to know there is at least a chance of attraction both ways. I know I’m not for everyone and not everyone for me. I do need to be better at exchanging face pics earlier though as I’ve got very keen on people and then face pics - not good.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Always need a face pic

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

Nope

I don’t share pics at all face or otherwise and I’m very happy to meet guys/gals/couples for a social without seeing what they look like as well and should there be a physical attraction when I meet someone that’s a bonus, will I then be attracted to them enough to then play with them ?

Not necessarily!

Met loads of gorgeous fit guys that have zero personality and quite frankly their personalities make me cringe so much so I wouldn’t go near them, I’ve also met guys that I am not initially attracted to and then after getting to know them I find them much more attractive and go on and have amazing fun with them

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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

I would never, ever meet anyone without exchanging face pics. Need to know the attraction is there as when you meet that might not be there anyway on either side, but I would never consider meeting anyone that I hadn’t seen pictures of and felt like I would be attracted to. Definitely need to know that someone is my type of man personality wise before I would exchange face photos as if they are not someone i would get on with, it doesn’t matter how attracted to them I might be, I wouldn’t meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why wouldn't you want a pic of the person you're about to meet? I for one would need to know if there's an attraction between us before I go and shave my back, sack and crack in preparation for looking clean and trimmed down there especially in this cold weather.

If there's no attraction then no meet.

Probably sounds vain but looks are way important than personality.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I wouldn't consider meeting anyone without having seen their mug shot first x

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Always face pics before meeting, need to know there is at least a chance of attraction both ways. I know I’m not for everyone and not everyone for me. I do need to be better at exchanging face pics earlier though as I’ve got very keen on people and then face pics - not good. "

Pretty much this. I don't do blind date and I don't see the point in spending ages chatting to someone only to find out you don't find them attractive. And that goes both ways, not everyone will be attracted to me and that's fine, I wouldn't want to waste their time either.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Nope

I don’t share pics at all face or otherwise and I’m very happy to meet guys/gals/couples for a social without seeing what they look like as well and should there be a physical attraction when I meet someone that’s a bonus, will I then be attracted to them enough to then play with them ?

Not necessarily!

Met loads of gorgeous fit guys that have zero personality and quite frankly their personalities make me cringe so much so I wouldn’t go near them, I’ve also met guys that I am not initially attracted to and then after getting to know them I find them much more attractive and go on and have amazing fun with them "

Kinda know what you mean, I need there to be a combination of looks and personality - fussy aren’t I?!

Face pics yes but I also chat here a good bit first, for personality and dare I say imagination? Certainly to ensure they communicate well as I feel that’s key to having a good time. Plus I hate awkward silences (at which point NSV cracks up thinking “she’s never silent ) so it’s a little of everything really

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Would never meet anyone without a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pic..no meet.

Simple

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a pic first

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By *ibliosWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I totally gey why people wouldn't want to meet without face pics, and say as much on my profile. Unfortunately you can only assume / hope that:

a) the picture is actually of them

b) it's vaguely recent / accurate, and,

c) they're not going to do anything dodgy with what you've sent to them.

Cursory glance through the forums shows how often that hope proves unfounded, and on top of all that they could turn out to be a total eejit when you actually meet them anyway. I prefer to just skip to the cheeky cuppa stage (which I'm going to want / need to do before any 'real' meet anyway). Can't say I've ever had any issues approaching it like that. Each to their own of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always face pics before meeting, need to know there is at least a chance of attraction both ways. I know I’m not for everyone and not everyone for me. I do need to be better at exchanging face pics earlier though as I’ve got very keen on people and then face pics - not good.

Pretty much this. I don't do blind date and I don't see the point in spending ages chatting to someone only to find out you don't find them attractive. And that goes both ways, not everyone will be attracted to me and that's fine, I wouldn't want to waste their time either.

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what they said ^

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I always swap face pic before I arrange a meet.

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Face pic and exchange mobile number. I need to feel they are genuinely open to know us and us/me to know them.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

As I do a public social first too it means I’m not approaching (hot) unwitting strangers in coffee shops

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By *rjaffa33Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Always face pics before meeting, need to know there is at least a chance of attraction both ways. I know I’m not for everyone and not everyone for me. I do need to be better at exchanging face pics earlier though as I’ve got very keen on people and then face pics - not good. "

I agree with this!!

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