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By *imbqt OP   Man
over a year ago

perth

Hi, hope we're all well.

I was wondering, after a little bit on the sight. I'll be honest not had any real traction on the site. And had a few questions I was hoping may be awnswered.

One, I'm a wee bit unsure if ive got the settings right on my profile, as I do only seem to get fabs or wings from men? Or do I just take that with a punch of salt and assume it comes with the territory with a site like this?

Other was, is there something glaringly obvious that I might have missed out on my profile? Write up? Or anything like that?

Finally, I do prefer a woman who is more forward, and direct. Is this a site where women would likely make that first move messaging or something? Or is there somewhat more of an explanation on my side?

Anyway anything or feedback for a thing to change or include, fire down below, or in a message.

Thanks for reading, take care

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By *ar_ZanMan
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Hi, hope we're all well.

I was wondering, after a little bit on the sight. I'll be honest not had any real traction on the site. And had a few questions I was hoping may be awnswered.

One, I'm a wee bit unsure if ive got the settings right on my profile, as I do only seem to get fabs or wings from men? Or do I just take that with a punch of salt and assume it comes with the territory with a site like this?

Other was, is there something glaringly obvious that I might have missed out on my profile? Write up? Or anything like that?

Finally, I do prefer a woman who is more forward, and direct. Is this a site where women would likely make that first move messaging or something? Or is there somewhat more of an explanation on my side?

Anyway anything or feedback for a thing to change or include, fire down below, or in a message.

Thanks for reading, take care "

That's a whole lot of questions for someone to answer but without going to much into answering them all let me just give you 2 pieces of advice...

1. If you're on here hoping to get a shag it ain't ever going to happen, your profile might read good to one person but be rubbish to another so just be yourself and respectful.

2. Get yourself along to an organised meet venue like CJs or Afterdark, you'll have more chance to meet some amazing people and if you're lucky you'll get lucky and if not you'll have a great night.

Whatever you decide to do just enjoy the site and stay safe.

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you’re straight and getting messages from men then your settings need sorted. You can to go into message filters and select who can / can’t message you.

In terms of traction, your profile reads a bit like a dating profile instead of a swinging one, and you aren’t verified. The rest re photos, message content, interests, Snapchat etc is all personal preference, but not being verified is often an immediate issue. Get yourself out to events and clubs. You’ll soon meet likeminded people that way, get verified and you’ll have a nice night out, which might lead to more in the future.

There’s a number of other swinging sites but none that I know of where the woman messages first (like the dating app we won’t mention here).

Happy swinging!

Jigs x

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

Profile looks alright seen worse for me you’re too young

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By *aucySue52Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Profile looks ok

As folk say try socials to get veri s and if you message women make it so you d stand out if you get my meaning or

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By *imbqt OP   Man
over a year ago

perth

Hi all, had a read through your replies, thanks for the input, appreciate it

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