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By *onjones466 OP   Man
over a year ago

Royston

Keen to hear your views on this. I gave spent time on hotels fir work and had some great meets. Had some big dussapointmens too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my meets have been in hotels

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales

Have had some fabulous meets in hotels, and even one very memorable spontaneous and random one while I was at a work seminar one time

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By *un guy 2020Man
over a year ago

near you

I got an invite to a hotel out of the blue while working away from home I agreed meet the guy out side hotel went in to see his mrs waiting naked on us just out the shower all three of us had great time then I left to let them get on with there short break with a smile on there faces hot n horny mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. When away on business. Normally when having dinner and see all the individuals in same boat. Few drinks at the bar then see what happens.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Yes, had a few and fantastic memories they are, also better for the couples who are a little apprehensive about inviting folk into their home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a few - I enjoy hotel sex the best. Nothing more exciting than hearing that knock on the door and knowing what’s coming

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Hotels are fun, closing the door and just locking yourselves away from the world.

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By *onjones466 OP   Man
over a year ago

Royston

Its definitely the excitement element for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see a downside tbh .. other than the cost .. Which should be split, so it's not a big deal. Ticks a lot of boxes for me x .. wee night away is as good as anything and with a meet included .. fun times

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

We have had a fair few hotel meets. Meet down in the bar for tease and flirt. Mrs and other guy head up to the room to get started and then I follow after 10 mins. Had Some great sights when walking into the rooms. Afterwards back down to the bar for few drinks then goodbye. Nice and simple

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By *ekked JackMan
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire

Had one or two hotel meets myself. Very good memories, meet up, have a drink, a flirt and a chat then up to the room, especially good if you spend the night and have some morning aex before or after breakfast. One time the lady was staying there over night and I met her in the morning and took her breakfast after we'd had and enjoyable time.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"I’ve had a few - I enjoy hotel sex the best. Nothing more exciting than hearing that knock on the door and knowing what’s coming "

That’s what I like about it too. Although a little of that thrill is *not* quite knowing what’s coming, as well … opening the door and seeing someone properly for the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a great feeling getting hotel sex. Some staff are also up for a quickie as well if you accidentally let it slip why you're there. Lol.x

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By *luemanblueMan
over a year ago

Livingston

Had a few good meets in hotels

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Can require some organising.

Have had success with prearranged meets but never anything spontaneous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of our fav flirty places

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Never managed a hotel only meet but had couples back to our room after meeting at a club

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By * J xxxMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Would love a hotel meet

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Love them!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Love them! "

Is your inbox overflowing now, with invitations from every man on the thread?

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Social meet first, far to many TW around

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By *luemanblueMan
over a year ago

Livingston

Social meet first always works for me

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By *inkyjijoMan
over a year ago

Angus

Used to travel all over UK & Ireland in a previous job....had some cracking fun in hotels. Highlights being Galway and Newlyn

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By *uzanne and RickyCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Only had the one but it was great. Would love to do it again. Within thirty minutes of meeting the guy was fucking my wife. When we left the bar a woman smiled and winked at me.

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

We don't like people coming to our house normally so hotels is the way to go.

Day use hotels we mostly use

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By *imtoteaseMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Plus some travel)

Love them too, think they are much more erotic than meeting at someone’s house.

Hoping to have a meet when I’m in hotel all week from the 16th near Edinburgh.

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By *onda Coxor2Woman
over a year ago

nosey cunt.

Love a hotel meet

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By *ensual_MrCMan
over a year ago

East Kilbride

It’s a ‘yes’ from me

Like having coffee in public area in hotel for a ‘pre-meet’ to see if we ‘click’ without any commitment … and also having pool/sauna/steam room/jacuzzi/restaurant/bar facilities on hand …

Think of it as a wee 24hr ‘treat’ & usually book at least one a month

I’ve got a wee bit of erotic fiction that was written as a ‘scene/roleplay setter’ on the bottom of my profile …. ( fishes for ‘hits’ LOL )

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By *lascumMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Arranged meets are great, what’s even better is the unexpected “see who’s near” meets when they’re in the same hotel.

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes I would

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

One of my hotel meets turned out to be the best sexual experiences I've ever had. You are also on cctv and they have the persons details on file so the safety element is also there

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By *cotsguy4funMan
over a year ago

Glasgow/N Lanarkshire

I love a hotel meet, either as host or visiting others or alternatively a split cost scenario too if just arranging a place to play. Nice surroundings and in a safe and neutral environment for fun.

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By *piderxMan
over a year ago

west lothian

Used to use a hotel on edge of Edinburgh that had day rooms

Booked in about 4 times with different people lol

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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

I have only had one and it was pre arranged with someone I had been chatting to for weeks on another site. Was my first meet after my marriage ended and I just wanted it over with! It was not the best. Was so disappointing he was wanting full on relationship and I wanted to run out the room at 2am and I felt obliged to stay as I’m a nice person! Felt very liberated walking through town when I did leave at 7.30 then next morning though!

Will need to hope I get the chance to have another

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By *inder121Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Always use hotel rooms. Discreet, have hotel bars, and you can leave when you want.

Also use dayuse for any encounters during the day.

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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago

galway


"I’ve had a few - I enjoy hotel sex the best. Nothing more exciting than hearing that knock on the door and knowing what’s coming "

This!

That nervous excitement feeling just as the door knocks then opens is amazing. Then the feeling you get when they walk through the door and the flirting just before anything begins is fabulous.

All my meets have been in hotels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely yes

Many great hotel fucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven


"I’ve had a few - I enjoy hotel sex the best. Nothing more exciting than hearing that knock on the door and knowing what’s coming "

Hopefully you.... ..sorry couldn't resist

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We enjoy meets in nice hotels, drinks and a flirt in the bar and then fun in the room, as a cuckold couple mr loves seeing Laura and her bull walk together out the bar and up to the room. Where anyone that had been paying attention knows what is about to happen.

Hopefully won’t be long until we are having this experience again.

Having said all that if you message us saying you are in a hotel for work why don’t we come over you will be ignored and probably blocked. Don’t be that guy.

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By *oulkissMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Practically wise, I would normally do 1st meet at a hotel, if things don't go well then they don't know where you live.

Also if they were dishonest and lifted something your insurance may not cover you and you might not know their address to report anything.

Top tip. .If you request an accessible room they are bigger and generally have a wet room/walk in shower rather than a bath which given the size of hotel baths, has much more potential for fun.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Works for me, and no need to worry about the messy bed afterwards

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Definitely a social first for myself anyways. And I feel for that other person about dude wanting a relationship I'm like opposite gender to that but seem to always get people wanting a relationship

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By *igs72Man
over a year ago

motherwell

Definitely yes. Best meets have been I. Hotels

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By *ikergent50Man
over a year ago

bathgate

Prefer hotels especially for the first meets ..

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By *luemanblueMan
over a year ago

Livingston

I love hotel meets but always have a social meet first

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Lying in hotel room now. Fun seeing who is here or near too

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By *ormladMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Love hotel meets

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By *cania 730Man
over a year ago

newton stewart

i am in glasgow regularly through business and stay in a city centre hotel hotel i have had a few good social meets drinks flirting big turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sound nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you do another hotel meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we love hotel meets. I also like to be blindfolded so I never see the person not even after very hot

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I would yes, but it would need to be with someone I'd been chatting with and interested in. Anyone who messages saying they have a hotel in the area tonight get ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, if we have chatted for a bit and are attracted. We wouldn't meet a complete stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally think hotel meets are for the best with strangers, if it doesn't go well at least they don't know where you live and vice versa...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problems meeting a stranger would maybe have wee chat or coffee first before going straight to the room unless the vibe was really good not against randomly appearing at the room door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm yeah that adds to the excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that would add to the excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had a few meets at hotels and never had a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be better as you have as much time as you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never would meet in hotel social 1st and whats app chats for bit till know feel safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah definitely meet to feel safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah definitely meet to feel safe "

Glad you agree i knew man who had met a cpl few times at theres then decided to go for a treat hotel and they had drinks and couple put kettamine in his drink as he had to go to docs next day was ill and sore head tested him found it in his system after dip test

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Have had a few meets at hotels and never had a problem "

We really should do that again sometime.

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By *olly AngelWoman
over a year ago

callander

Love hotel sex…..feels naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does sound naughty mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Works for me, and no need to worry about the messy bed afterwards "

Yes just poor chambermaid taking sheets off to see stained mattress and other ppl sleeping on it once dried boak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love hotel sex.

I don't know why but somehow it just feels a bit sexier. Its also neutral ground which is always better.

One of my most memorable fab encounters was spontaneous hotel sex late one evening. Went on to see him many more times over the years and still hope to again one day.

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By *aucySue52Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Would folk say it’s generally safer than a person s own home especially as a single female ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would folk say it’s generally safer than a person s own home especially as a single female ? "

I would yes.

I would always tell a friend where I am too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete strangers,mmmmm not sure, think you would need to have at least said Hello,is Me your looking for

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Would folk say it’s generally safer than a person s own home especially as a single female ?

I would yes.

I would always tell a friend where I am too "

If I'm not meeting at home then my partner has all the details of where I am and who I'm with. When I was single I gave the details to a friend

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London


"Would folk say it’s generally safer than a person s own home especially as a single female ? "

I would consider a hotel lower risk than a private house. There will be staff at the hotel. If you meet initially in a publishing space like the bar. You can assess the other person before getting into a private setting.

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By *opeydeviantMan
over a year ago

Livingston

Yeah as long as I'd spoken to them and seen them on the phone ,or maybe if nerves needed settled then pub first

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie

Naw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not with a complete stranger, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, social first always. No exceptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not hat hotel meet yet but one day I hope lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few when away on business

Mostly wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be nice to be part of a 3sume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not with a complete stranger nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about if you chat on here and maybe have a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about if you chat on here and maybe have a social "

That's not a stranger. That's someone you've had a social with. Always better with a social first and zero expectations.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Not with a complete stranger, no "

Coffee?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Not before a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah definitely, a coffee date be nice

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By *WIKSAVEMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Mon lets get a hotel hopey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not, social first always. No exceptions "

I thought I’d extend on this as I was in a bit of a rush earlier.

My reasons for the no exceptions is I’d absolutely hate to be a guy that the female didn’t like at all and felt awkward or even scared/ intimidated. Also, I’d hate to be that guy that says no to a woman in that scenario. Saying no thanks is awful enough. Social always

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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

Like BOW said above, I always think to myself, what if I meet someone and there isn’t any chemistry. No mutual attraction and then the expectation is there to do something when you might not be feeling it face to face. That’s always my thoughts that the guy will be disappointed in me but will just do it anyway because well, is that not what guys do? Lol. Can’t generalise you all I know. I haven’t had hotel meets, but I generally would feel better meeting someone for a social first and then even that said day/night continuing it. I think men wanting a social first though are very few and far between

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By *WIKSAVEMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"Like BOW said above, I always think to myself, what if I meet someone and there isn’t any chemistry. No mutual attraction and then the expectation is there to do something when you might not be feeling it face to face. That’s always my thoughts that the guy will be disappointed in me but will just do it anyway because well, is that not what guys do? Lol. Can’t generalise you all I know. I haven’t had hotel meets, but I generally would feel better meeting someone for a social first and then even that said day/night continuing it. I think men wanting a social first though are very few and far between "

Do whatever makes you feel comfortable, personally, a wee hotel meet with a pal is quite fun

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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland


"Like BOW said above, I always think to myself, what if I meet someone and there isn’t any chemistry. No mutual attraction and then the expectation is there to do something when you might not be feeling it face to face. That’s always my thoughts that the guy will be disappointed in me but will just do it anyway because well, is that not what guys do? Lol. Can’t generalise you all I know. I haven’t had hotel meets, but I generally would feel better meeting someone for a social first and then even that said day/night continuing it. I think men wanting a social first though are very few and far between

Do whatever makes you feel comfortable, personally, a wee hotel meet with a pal is quite fun "

Maybe I need to find some new pals who want to go to a hotel with me

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By *WIKSAVEMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"Like BOW said above, I always think to myself, what if I meet someone and there isn’t any chemistry. No mutual attraction and then the expectation is there to do something when you might not be feeling it face to face. That’s always my thoughts that the guy will be disappointed in me but will just do it anyway because well, is that not what guys do? Lol. Can’t generalise you all I know. I haven’t had hotel meets, but I generally would feel better meeting someone for a social first and then even that said day/night continuing it. I think men wanting a social first though are very few and far between

Do whatever makes you feel comfortable, personally, a wee hotel meet with a pal is quite fun

Maybe I need to find some new pals who want to go to a hotel with me "

Lets be pals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mon lets get a hotel hopey "

Told you before only if you shave those pubes off your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mon lets get a hotel hopey

Told you before only if you shave those pubes off your face "

He can join the end of the queue!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not with a complete stranger, no

Coffee? "

Oh definitely

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By *WIKSAVEMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"Mon lets get a hotel hopey

Told you before only if you shave those pubes off your face "

Aw come on, we'll keep the lights off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mon lets get a hotel hopey

Told you before only if you shave those pubes off your face

Aw come on, we'll keep the lights off "

Gimp mask and maybes!

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By *nigma67Man
over a year ago

Central

I absolutely love thrill of hotel sex. The anticipation of what’s about to happen and then adrenaline rush you get when the knock on the door finally arrives drives me wild! Can’t wait for my next meet

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