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Reasons for late or cancelled meets

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By *oupleslovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

near Glasgow

We had arranged a meet one time near Falkirk and just before leaving had the garage check the car. Turned out we needed 2 tyres there and then and a wee bit of work meaning we were late. What excuses have u had for late or cancelled meets have left you thinking thats bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean excuses others have given or reasons for added work on the car?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best excuse i had was.." my daughters just gone into labour i have to go to hospital with her" from a woman who openly admitted to having no kids and couldnt have kids............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had arranged a meet one time near Falkirk and just before leaving had the garage check the car. Turned out we needed 2 tyres there and then and a wee bit of work meaning we were late. What excuses have u had for late or cancelled meets have left you thinking thats bullshit"
must admit,,,if that was your excuse to us,,,we would have thought you were talking bullshit too

why wait until just before a meet to get yer car fixed???

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had arranged a meet one time near Falkirk and just before leaving had the garage check the car. Turned out we needed 2 tyres there and then and a wee bit of work meaning we were late. What excuses have u had for late or cancelled meets have left you thinking thats bullshit"
must admit,,,if that was your excuse to us,,,we would have thought you were talking bullshit too

why wait until just before a meet to get yer car fixed???

auds xx

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By *exyasMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"We had arranged a meet one time near Falkirk and just before leaving had the garage check the car. Turned out we needed 2 tyres there and then and a wee bit of work meaning we were late. What excuses have u had for late or cancelled meets have left you thinking thats bullshitmust admit,,,if that was your excuse to us,,,we would have thought you were talking bullshit too

why wait until just before a meet to get yer car fixed???

auds xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean excuses others have given or reasons for added work on the car? "

This makes no sense what so ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine have ranged from the sublime to the ridiculous:

Favourite one of the moment seems to be that "oops, my period has just started, sorry..."

Others include

"Missed the last tube" when its nowhere close to midnight

"Too hard to get to you" when Im on the same tube line.

Then just general timewasting so that it becomes impractical to have a meet...

For unconfirmed meetings in advance - "too tired", "too much to do", "meeting someone else".

I even had one where I was in the car within 5mins of a text asking me to come round and she sent me one saying "dont bother, its too late"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean excuses others have given or reasons for added work on the car?

This makes no sense what so ever."

Ok they gave the excuse why they cancelled, but then they termed it "had" i think they meant gave*, is why i asked, you know,,, get an excuse or give an excuse, just that confused me.

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By *andG4moreCouple
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire


"We had arranged a meet one time near Falkirk and just before leaving had the garage check the car. Turned out we needed 2 tyres there and then and a wee bit of work meaning we were late. What excuses have u had for late or cancelled meets have left you thinking thats bullshitmust admit,,,if that was your excuse to us,,,we would have thought you were talking bullshit too

why wait until just before a meet to get yer car fixed???

auds xx "

lol we were thinking the same auds lol.

Where you not supposed to be slipping into somthing sexy to go to your meet rather than getting your car checked lol unless you were getting under ur own bonnet checked by the mechanic before going lol.

We have heard a few tall tales and chalk them up to folks bottle crashing. if i was honest as a single guy turning up to meet a couple thats got to be pretty intimidating.

So did you go to the meet after getting your car fixed btw??

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

initial contact . . . like your profile, messaged for two weeks, night before meet squeezed a two minute girl on girl talk, 20min before leaving for meet - text received "see you full swap, sorry dont want to waste your time". Me thinks a bit late huh

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By *eeflower69Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I've had 3 guys tell me their mothers have died

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a cpl cancel a meet an hr before as their daughter Took unwell...

Diffrent guy messages us askn if we want to go to a Party....guess who was on the guest list...Yip...the same cpl Lol...or the single guy 15 mins until we were due to meet saying his gf has just dropped their daughter off so she could go out Lol.

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By *oupleslovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"We had arranged a meet one time near Falkirk and just before leaving had the garage check the car. Turned out we needed 2 tyres there and then and a wee bit of work meaning we were late. What excuses have u had for late or cancelled meets have left you thinking thats bullshitmust admit,,,if that was your excuse to us,,,we would have thought you were talking bullshit too

why wait until just before a meet to get yer car fixed???

auds xx "

In our defence we had came back from Liverpool on the Sun and the tyre seemed a bit goosed. On the way to the meet we went to have it checked in the garage and the guy told us it was a death trap and we needed the tyre changed. In our defence we made the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been late for meets certainly, more straightforward reasons hindered me,whoever you were meeting being told you were going to be a wee bit late due to a tyre change, then a wee bit work being done on car? Youd be forgiven for thinking you maybe were not going to make it, kinda would create a bit doubt in anyones mind?

We're on our way but gettin our car fixed,,,ohh,,eh ok, that kinda thing.

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

We had a guy tell us once that he'd drove past our house numerous times trying to pluck up the courage to come in but couldn't. Disappointed he bottled it but had no issues with it because he was honest. Got straight back on and arranged another quicker than we could have got a Dominos delivered!

We now only meet people who're verified to avoid the first time bottlers!

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Periods, death in the family and Flu.

Thankfully its not happened too much over the four years i've been swining but happened all the same. I find it quite easy now to tell a timewaster and a genuine reason.

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By *rallvalCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Favourite one of the moment seems to be that "oops, my period has just started, sorry...""

We have had to use that twice, once a couple of days in advance and once on the day. After years of being regular as clockwork things have become a little erratic - an age thing I guess.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

last time i posted about a meet not turning up or cancelling well i wont say what i got but you cam guess "b"

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By *aul04Man
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *aul04Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I've had 3 guys tell me their mothers have died "
maybe your a jinx , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Periods, death in the family and Flu."

Not a lot you can do about any of those.

The first one has scuppered us a few times, never the second one and the third once or twice.

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By *aulaCDTV/TS
over a year ago

kelso

The last time I was stood up I got a text from him saying he was out of town on business, then about half an hour later I got a text from his wife saying he was hoping to be back in time. But both texts were from the same number. Some people just don't think.

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Periods, death in the family and Flu.

Not a lot you can do about any of those.

The first one has scuppered us a few times, never the second one and the third once or twice."

No, sadly not much you can do but heyho thats life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Least u get excuse

I was meant to meet a lass in October and she text saying getting petrol

On way

20 min

Then nothing

The great soprano strikes again piff Pof poof

And yes she's still on here

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Least u get excuse

I was meant to meet a lass in October and she text saying getting petrol

On way

20 min

Then nothing

The great soprano strikes again piff Pof poof

And yes she's still on here "

I just don't understand some of these people, completely bizarre?

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

i got stood up on friday the reason was thay had visiter that poped in thay had my number no call or text i got home and i was left mail in my account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it least they messaged your in box to let u know

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

If i ever have to cancel which is very very rare then its for a very good and genuine reason ...on the other hand im always late but worth the wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had to cancel due to Xmas period with one lass but alway plenty notice and she to has cancelled it's no big deal if plenty o notice .

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

jacs il wait on you any time lol

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By *eeflower69Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I've had 3 guys tell me their mothers have died maybe your a jinx , lol "

Lol I'm beginning to wonder

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"jacs il wait on you any time lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family deaths kids taken to hospital and ex dropping kids off seems to be the biggest reasons and lots of verifications appearing later on saying great meet etc etc find it hard to believe these but because of my own home situation I try not to question it xx I often get let down by babysitters and have to cancel but try my best to even say hello and pop by to show face

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

fancy poping over to motherwell lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who me ? No I'm watching good luck Charlie lol yay

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Who me ? No I'm watching good luck Charlie lol yay "

Glad i'm not the only one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who me ? No I'm watching good luck Charlie lol yay

Glad i'm not the only one lol "

Haha it's great in it ? Kids are in room playing Xbox me mum and Na wee bro watching it lol !!!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Who me ? No I'm watching good luck Charlie lol yay

Glad i'm not the only one lol

Haha it's great in it ? Kids are in room playing Xbox me mum and Na wee bro watching it lol !!! "

Even when i drop her off i stick telly on and an hour later think why the fuck am i still watching this pish she's no even here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who me ? No I'm watching good luck Charlie lol yay

Glad i'm not the only one lol

Haha it's great in it ? Kids are in room playing Xbox me mum and Na wee bro watching it lol !!!

Even when i drop her off i stick telly on and an hour later think why the fuck am i still watching this pish she's no even here lol "
You're a big kid at heart PP, admit it, you like watching those things really.

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

what is good luck ? lost

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