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"Recently I've been wanting to try the whole 'letting the wife have sex while I'm not there scenario' (read too many porn stories) and she's told me her coworker is into her....... We have amazing communication and its really turning me in now thinking of her going to work and flirting and hopefully more after that too then her coming back to tell me all about it...... Thats all, just needed to let that out there to yous gorgeous ppl lol "This is very erotic scenario now the thing is that makes it so hot is the knowing what his happening ,finding out every detail when your wife gets back. Lucky man and lucky co worker of your wife. | |||
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"I'd say co worker is too close to home..too many strings. But hey..that's just me. Hope it all goes well and you both get what you want." I'd agree with that. Never know how its going to go. . | |||
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"Recently I've been wanting to try the whole 'letting the wife have sex while I'm not there scenario' (read too many porn stories) and she's told me her coworker is into her....... We have amazing communication and its really turning me in now thinking of her going to work and flirting and hopefully more after that too then her coming back to tell me all about it...... Thats all, just needed to let that out there to yous gorgeous ppl lol "We need to discuss this more at the party this month. I let the mrs do it on nights out etc | |||
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"Recently I've been wanting to try the whole 'letting the wife have sex while I'm not there scenario' (read too many porn stories) and she's told me her coworker is into her....... We have amazing communication and its really turning me in now thinking of her going to work and flirting and hopefully more after that too then her coming back to tell me all about it...... Thats all, just needed to let that out there to yous gorgeous ppl lol
We need to discuss this more at the party this month. I let the mrs do it on nights out etc"Definitely be discussing it with yous at the party would definitely be better if it was a night out but I guess safer if it's with someone she knows if you know what I mean..... Anyway it's something to try off the bucket list hopefully..... If we don't like the feeling then doesn'thappen again, the joys of the swinging scene can't wait to see yous at the pampas grass convention  | |||
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"I say never shit on your own door step, what happens after and your wife has to work with this person or does she have to find another job. You and your wife may think it's fun but the other person may not want to be part of your game." Completely understand that, the other person knows about our lifestyle, knows its just a bit of fun and can be stopped at any point. That's where the trust comes into it, I know my wife wouldn't do anything without asking me first, she's proven that several times.... Nothing has happened anyway, it's more just flirting and teasing, letting her have the power | |||
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"Recently I've been wanting to try the whole 'letting the wife have sex while I'm not there scenario' (read too many porn stories) and she's told me her coworker is into her....... We have amazing communication and its really turning me in now thinking of her going to work and flirting and hopefully more after that too then her coming back to tell me all about it...... Thats all, just needed to let that out there to yous gorgeous ppl lol "Hiya, Both my wife and I have met folk via work. Never actually at work, though, I hasten to add! I totally get the “don’t shit where you eat” comments, and there has been the very occasional awkward moment, but as long as everyone is mature about it and communicates openly like you two clearly do, then I’d vote for trying it. The size of workforce, proximity of working with the person, etc, will all be considerations, of course. The lines between colleague/friend are blurred. When does good work mates stop being acceptable as it creeps towards “more than just” good work mates. Some people are just as reticent about “vanilla” relationships between colleagues. And workplaces are the source of many illicit affairs… if everyone is open and honest (and the relationship wouldn’t fall foul of any power imbalances - e.g. someone potentially abusing a leadership role) then it’s hard to see the harm. I’ve had far more awkward working relationships with people I haven’t slept with than people I have!
Also, if it’s a first foray into separate meets then there’s an argument for it being better with someone already known to one or both of you - for safety’s sake if nothing else. It doesn't ever make it totally safe (people you know can be just as harmful!) but it gives a little reassurance in some respects. | |||
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"Recently I've been wanting to try the whole 'letting the wife have sex while I'm not there scenario' (read too many porn stories) and she's told me her coworker is into her....... We have amazing communication and its really turning me in now thinking of her going to work and flirting and hopefully more after that too then her coming back to tell me all about it...... Thats all, just needed to let that out there to yous gorgeous ppl lol
Hiya,
Both my wife and I have met folk via work. Never actually at work, though, I hasten to add!
I totally get the “don’t shit where you eat” comments, and there has been the very occasional awkward moment, but as long as everyone is mature about it and communicates openly like you two clearly do, then I’d vote for trying it.
The size of workforce, proximity of working with the person, etc, will all be considerations, of course.
The lines between colleague/friend are blurred. When does good work mates stop being acceptable as it creeps towards “more than just” good work mates.
Some people are just as reticent about “vanilla” relationships between colleagues. And workplaces are the source of many illicit affairs… if everyone is open and honest (and the relationship wouldn’t fall foul of any power imbalances - e.g. someone potentially abusing a leadership role) then it’s hard to see the harm.
I’ve had far more awkward working relationships with people I haven’t slept with than people I have!
Also, if it’s a first foray into separate meets then there’s an argument for it being better with someone already known to one or both of you - for safety’s sake if nothing else. It doesn't ever make it totally safe (people you know can be just as harmful!) but it gives a little reassurance in some respects. "Bang on the money....... Nothing with us would change.... Just a bit of fun so heyho | |||
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"I'd say co worker is too close to home..too many strings. But hey..that's just me. Hope it all goes well and you both get what you want." We agree with this x | |||
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