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By *ockster69 OP Man
over a year ago

Leven

Greetings and all the best for 2023!

New partner doesn’t like oral sex (receiving) I’ve never come across this before, therefore I’m assuming it’s unusual? As mentioned new partner so hasn’t elaborated why yet. Any views or comments?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone likes the same things.

I'm not super keen on oral either, just doesn't do much more for me.

The world would be boring if we all liked the same things

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By *ibliosWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Doesn't really matter why or whether it's 'unusual' - if they're not into it, they're not. That's all there is to it.

(And maybe not something they'd want you posting about to complete strangers on a swingers forum?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My better half doesn't care much for it. Her choice and that's ok.

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

Some women don’t like it because they’ve not had enjoyment from it either to do with confidence, not being able to let themselves go or partners who were rough and not particularly good at it or made them self conscious

Lots of other things to try instead don’t push it

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By *inky-kk69Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

So I didn't like it for years. A bit of not enjoying and personal confidence. Till I joined here in September now I'm all for it

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By *nverMan
over a year ago

....down the Rabbit Hole with a shotgun

Love to give, but, as I'm actually quite sensitive "doon thur", I've never been that keen on receiving.

So, I can absolutely relate to those who aren't particularly keen on it.

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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

She’s maybe had an experience before that has put her off. Some women are just too paranoid to relax and enjoy it. Some it doesn’t do anything for them. Maybe just bring it up in conversation at some point and ask her if there’s specifics why she doesn’t, and if she doesn’t want to talk well it’s upto her.

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not unusual at all. Lots of people aren’t a huge fan of receiving oral (completely or just in specific situations) and it can be for a multitude of reasons. Same with any sexual act really. We all have our preferences and things we just don’t like.

It’s a really positive thing for her that she’s honest with new partners about her preferences, but definitely don’t ask her for any further explanation. She will explain in her own time if/when she wants to. Just appreciate that she’s being open and trusting you with her preferences to improve your experiences together.

Jigs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women feel vulnerable/exposed having someone so close to them like that, some women find it too stimulating in an unenjoyable way. I’m sure there’s many more reasons. It’s not uncommon

I’m really sensitive and only enjoy it a particular way (when it’s enjoyable it’s REALLY good) Im also likely to say no if I don’t feel fully comfortable with someone

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By *othardandfreeMan
over a year ago

"Greetings and all the best for 2023!

Every could has a silver lining. Just think of the extra blow job time your gonna get. Plus you never know she might be a big lover of anal instead.

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By *coobyABCMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I don't think it's strange at all. I've never cum or particularly enjoyed a BJ. I've had partners fixated on it and one that got very upset because I wouldn't cum from it. Ignore what she doesn't like and focus on what makes you both happy

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By *ockster69 OP Man
over a year ago

Leven

"Doesn't really matter why or whether it's 'unusual' - if they're not into it, they're not. That's all there is to it.

(And maybe not something they'd want you posting about to complete strangers on a swingers forum?)"

Wow! Bet you are lots of fun!?? Thanks for your input.

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Most men think all women love oral. Me personally don't get much from it and get more from sex .so find it a waste of time.

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