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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don’t know if I’m doing something wrong or what, but I’m a young and attractive guy, been on here for about 6 months or so and struggling to get any kind of meet with a couple or a woman! Any tips would be appreciated x

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By *nbhir Air DuineMan
over a year ago

Ayr

You might be too young for some on here. You could try one of the club nights. Keep trying. it's a swinging site not a guaranteed hook up site, nobody said it would be easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most likely your age.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Don’t know if I’m doing something wrong or what, but I’m a young and attractive guy, been on here for about 6 months or so and struggling to get any kind of meet with a couple or a woman! Any tips would be appreciated x"
There is nothing on your profile for people to go by so perhaps write a profile out would be a good start .

Your profile is your window of opportunity so sell yourself in a way that would at least have someone interested in you .

Good luck

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky


"Don’t know if I’m doing something wrong or what, but I’m a young and attractive guy, been on here for about 6 months or so and struggling to get any kind of meet with a couple or a woman! Any tips would be appreciated x"

You're 22,can't accommodate, 1 poor pic and absolutely no profile except an X. Would you want to meet a profile that had that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar post earlier in the week which you could look at and review the advice given (much of what’s be said already…Pics, profile & patience.)

Swinging is more than hooking up - engage in social side, attend gatherings clubs etc, and don’t expect to be everyone’s cup of tea either…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we found the same problems.

We look at profiles and pictures as do others who look at our profile. There has to be some kind of attraction to get talking.

If you have no profile then basically you have no chance.

We now tend to go to socials and clubs which is far easier for us to meet and still have big problems meeting anyone from on fab.

We still haven't found the right formula .

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Don’t know if I’m doing something wrong or what, but I’m a young and attractive guy, been on here for about 6 months or so and struggling to get any kind of meet with a couple or a woman! Any tips would be appreciated x"

More than likley your profile needs work done to it, there's nothing on it that would attract us to you. Could also be the messages you send, one word messages or messages like 'wanna fuck or she's hot" put people off. Your age is least likley your problem there are people of all ages on here and people that go for younger men.

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

That profile status is very of putting on your profile!

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By *irtycumboCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Agreed with the above post...... Asking who's wanting a 'pounding' kinda screams off immature and would put most ppl off

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By *lut Sara and bobCouple
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

Can you not accom cause mummy and daddy are at home ?

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Don’t know if I’m doing something wrong or what, but I’m a young and attractive guy, been on here for about 6 months or so and struggling to get any kind of meet with a couple or a woman! Any tips would be appreciated x"

Your status isn't going to do you any favours. That's not really what this site is about, you need to try and stand out, sell yourself, tell people what you have to offer...but most of their are 1000s of siwngers on here that have children your age is being one of them so our age range is nowhere near your age, so that isn't going to help, may y try some clubs to get yourself known. Good luck.

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By *redwilma666Couple
over a year ago

Kilbirnie

Your profile screems I'm bone idle, can't be bothered to write anything.

Your age range suggests you will shag anything with a pulse

Your status will put anyone off meeting.

So if you can't be bothered, why should anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you not accom cause mummy and daddy are at home ? "

This made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know what you mean, I'm knee deep in clunge off here 24/7.......

Shagging....? Completed it mate...

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