FabSwingers.com forum: Meets

By *lnsafun OP Man
over a year ago

armadale

Morning all looking for some advice if possible regarding arranging meets with single females and couples

Iv been on and off here for about 5/6 years now never put photos on profile as like to be discreet but happy to share photos etc or have them for friends only but through all the time I have been on the site I have only ever managed to arrange a meet with one couple and that was a good few years ago

Iv also had a meet with a single female who I met outwith the site etc but soon realised we were both on here so verified each other etc is there anyone with some tips for myself or couples/females wanting to show a rather inexperienced guy (on the site lol) the ropes

Thanks in advance for any help

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

You really should have a profile picture. Doesn’t have to be your face, really shouldn’t be your dick. Many people chose a filter which prevents profiles with no pics contacting them, this means you are losing a large percentage of your audience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning all looking for some advice if possible regarding arranging meets with single females and couples

Thanks in advance for any help "

I’m in same boat with regards discretion hence the respectful profile pic - nobody wants to my junk straight off the bat…

I put the idea of meets on the back burner early on and just engaged with the people I met on the site…forums, status updates etc. As in real life I am always respectful especially after the rejections.

From there I was patient and the socials and meets naturally happened. Having a few veris just vouching for your genuine-ness (is that a word?) goes a long way.

Best of luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d also expand your profile. Folk want to know if their limited time and energy is going to be well spent in engaging with you….so they need to know more about you for that to happen. Doesn’t always have to be based on sex or the lifestyle either. As I said before being genuine goes a long way I find

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By *lnsafun OP Man
over a year ago

armadale

Thanks mate will try sort profile out a bit over next few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know with some cases it's not possible for work to have a face pic, but it's just another dating site to me , more of an adult nature to it but there is nothing wrong with being on here, tinder and pof have more flesh and faces showing publicly and most of them are on it for sex too .

Get a profile picture on that shows your face or at least most of you then send a face picture with your message.

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

If someone doesn’t have a picture even of their body then we tend to think why ? Discretion is one thing but who is going to recognise your body ?

That instantly makes us suspicious. He’s probably married or there’s something else wrong. Just how we think.

Also for us personally we don’t engage with unverified guys at all so if you are not verified then some people will not even talk to you. You’re best going to a group social or club to get verified.

If you get over these hurdles then you at least have a better chance.

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