FabSwingers.com forum: Playing away

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just came across my best friend's wife on here clearly he has no idea she cheating on him as she has a few verification on her profile I won't name her or tell any one her profile name thou you think I should mention it to her or should aye say to my friend ??? As aye know he dots on her .

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"Just came across my best friend's wife on here clearly he has no idea she cheating on him as she has a few verification on her profile I won't name her or tell any one her profile name thou you think I should mention it to her or should aye say to my friend ??? As aye know he dots on her ."

How do you know she is cheating on him. Plenty of guys like their wives getting fucked by other guys. I think you should keep your nose out of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you came across your best friend wife doing it would you keep out of it ??

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

As above, how do you know she is cheating?

If you want to fuck her, go and ask her.

Posting with the intent of gaining approval from random stranger's is pointless.

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"If you came across your best friend wife doing it would you keep out of it ?? "

I wouldn't post on a forum for advice just to get some attention. I'm glad I haven't got a best friend like you.

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By *cottishpersonMan
over a year ago

east kilbride

Agree with others, keep your nose out unless you know all the facts and the background

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh I know the facts and aye know that he doesn't know she on here playing away as for getting attention not me cheers for your answers so far

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I don’t think you understand discretion!

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"Oh I know the facts and aye know that he doesn't know she on here playing away as for getting attention not me cheers for your answers so far "

Yeah I'm sure he is going to tell you about his sex life with his wife. You sound like the type of guy everyone knows not to tell anything to. I think there is a little wife envy going on here, go and get your own mate.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Get him telt bro code. But genuinely how do you know your friends not aware of this ? And also how do you know it is his wife I'd imagine if she was cheating she won't be to forthcoming with face pics

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By *ehindcloseddoors81Man
over a year ago

South/Mid Wales

If he's your best friend then I think you should tell him. As other posters have said, doesn't necessarily mean she's cheating but I'm sure there's a way you could inform him you're aware she's on here without causing offence. What he decides to do with that information is up to him.

Goes without saying... You should not approach her to try and fuck her!!!

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By *tagVixenAngusCouple
over a year ago

Dundee area

Tell him. My mate told me.

If he knows then it's all good, if he doesn't know it's a good job he finds out.

As the person he received the message, I was grateful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your messages iv decided not to cause am sure it will send him over the edge it's not the first time this has happened all the best everyone have a great Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how I would feel if I seen a best friends wife in here. Even if you find her attractive, would you ever try to fuck her as she's your best mates wife.

Sounds like your in a difficult situation. Maybe best to speak directly to her and see what her response is and if your not happy with the response then say to your mate

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By *ehindcloseddoors81Man
over a year ago

South/Mid Wales

I don't know how I would feel if I seen a best friends wife in here. Even if you find her attractive, would you ever try to fuck her as she's your best mates wife.

Sounds like your in a difficult situation. Maybe best to speak directly to her and see what her response is and if your not happy with the response then say to your mate"

Definitely think it's worth checking (from her perspective) whether the husband (your best friend) knows. If so... Then I suggest you respect the privacy and discretion. If made obvious it's behind his back then I think as friend (and best friend of that) you should tell him. Will hurt as hell, but will hurt not or in 1,3,6,12 months from now when he's bound to find out at some point. Do the right thing!

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Says more for someone thats meant to be a best friend and not telling him but each to there own in these hypotheticals

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"Thanks everyone for your messages iv decided not to cause am sure it will send him over the edge it's not the first time this has happened all the best everyone have a great Christmas "

Good decision. A lot better than the one to ask for advice on this forum. Happy Christmas........and go on, ask her for a meet. You know you want to.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

Best advice don't get involved in any of it. Stay out of it totally

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Block the profile and say nothing. You may end up losing a friend if you interfere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you came across your best friend wife doing it would you keep out of it ??

I wouldn't post on a forum for advice just to get some attention. I'm glad I haven't got a best friend like you. "

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By *lasgowguy1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you’re single and on here with no issues to hide or be worried about, I’d message her and tell her who you are. Arrange to chat on phone or in person, find out the details and see if she’s prepared to tell him or not.

My only concern if you tell him without her knowing is how he will deal with it and what might happen to her. You know them both, so basically, you know the potential outcomes so only you know what’s best.

Sometimes things are better not told if the circumstances aren’t good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay out of it OP. It's not your business and I don't think either of them would thank you for saying something x

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By *omble 69Man
over a year ago

Symington

Fully agree everyone has there reasons for being on here even if you don't agree it's the individual choice and not for others to judge too many people want to be the moral police.

I'm on here without wife being aware and have my reasons and happy to tell anyone who asks but don't vilify me before knowing the reasons.

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By *ack-FMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"As above, how do you know she is cheating?

If you want to fuck her, go and ask her.

Posting with the intent of gaining approval from random stranger's is pointless. "
…. I agree…. We are all meant to be grown up and well adjusted individuals…. Not 15 year olds seeking approval for our intentions..,

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Here is another option.

Tell HIM that YOU are on here and looking for women to fuck.

If he knows his wife is on here then likely her profile will vanish or find yours and block,thinking you have not found her yet. Give it a week or so then say you seen someone that is like her

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

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By *apman02Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Definitely stay out of it for many reasons,

most people are on here for discretion and if you have anything to hide how can you tell him you’ve seen her, let other people figure their own shit out and you just figure yours out, also you have prob thought about fucking her anyway haha

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By *urkeyteethMan
over a year ago

Girvan

I found my ex wife on here! Lol

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

"I found my ex wife on here! Lol "

Was she your wife at the time though

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Stay well clear, you are not involved in their relationship and might not know the full story. Can be many reasons she is on, he might even be. Even if not, its not your place to say.

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

How do you know she’s cheating does she say on her profile here without permission ? you don’t necessarily know the dynamics of their relationship, your friend may well also have his own profile !

More often if you get involved you’ll end up being the bad one, shoot the messenger so to speak

You could always confront her and ask her to explain and if she is then tell her that she should perhaps speak to her husband about why she feels the need to cheat just because he’s your friend and perhaps a very good friend doesn’t necessarily mean he’s a good husband as well

As always tread carefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably stay away from it as life is difficult enough and you don't want to drag other shit into your own life. However if you wanted to feel better about it knowing a bit more you could make up a second / fake profile and try befriend her to find out more about her / their situation without giving yourself away. Don't know how you'd get photo verified right enough, but I'm pretty sure many hundreds of profiles on here are of that ilk.

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By *nkednkinkyMan
over a year ago

Fraserburgh

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By *nkednkinkyMan
over a year ago

Fraserburgh

If it was a man cheating on his wife everyone on here would be telling you to tell her. If your a good friend you definitely need to tell him.

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By *urkeyteethMan
over a year ago

Girvan

"I found my ex wife on here! Lol

Was she your wife at the time though

Hahah fortunately not lol

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By *urkeyteethMan
over a year ago

Girvan

"If it was a man cheating on his wife everyone on here would be telling you to tell her. If your a good friend you definitely need to tell him. "

Great point ! Double standards and all that!

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By *iltycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Greenock

How can you be sure its her?

If there is enough of her face you can tell then she probably isn't hiding being on here. you might just bot be aware of their dynamic.

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

"If it was a man cheating on his wife everyone on here would be telling you to tell her. If your a good friend you definitely need to tell him. "

Actually not the advice would be the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd stay out of it. Each to their own and all that.

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By *ehindcloseddoors81Man
over a year ago

South/Mid Wales

Tell him there's a woman on here who looks just like his Mrs... Or maybe that someone is using his Mrs photos for a fake account on here... So therefore you're not directly accusing... What he decides to do with that information is up to him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he does know. I know hundreds of folk would be mortified if they knew who was behind our profile so it’s not something even our closest friends know about. maybe he likes his mrs playing away and telling him all the stories of the guys she’s been with and you could ruin that for them

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By *auliewalnutsMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Fuck her!

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By *reamchasserMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I would personally not get involved.

Block her so she can’t see your profile and forget about it .

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By *ert999400Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Since when did you take the moral high ground as a previous post says block the personand say SFA"

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

What if he knows she's on here and they both know you're on here and they have both seen this post

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