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By *hyme2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

Just wondered what the general opinion was on calling women on here “Miss” or ladies what do you think when someone calls you miss?

I read something ages ago about “dating” and messaging and someone saying when they are called Miss in a message it just makes them think of jail as that’s what inmates call the female guards. I can’t see past it now. Not that I’m saying all men who say Miss have been in Barlinie or whatever lol but it just makes me feel icky now.

It’s probably better than some things we can get called right enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this was another miss muff thread.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Thought this was another miss muff thread."

You're missing that muff muchly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always associate Miss with a Dominatrix maybe that’s just my twisted mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dosnt bother me.

Been called worse on here.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Just wondered what the general opinion was on calling women on here “Miss” or ladies what do you think when someone calls you miss?

I read something ages ago about “dating” and messaging and someone saying when they are called Miss in a message it just makes them think of jail as that’s what inmates call the female guards. I can’t see past it now. Not that I’m saying all men who say Miss have been in Barlinie or whatever lol but it just makes me feel icky now.

It’s probably better than some things we can get called right enough "

It's marginally better than constantly being called babe by someone who's never spoken to me before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d take being called miss over most things I get called on here

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’m bad for using the word lass

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

When someone says miss i usually think submissive

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

[Removed by poster at 29/11/22 13:30:15]

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Does Miss trump Hen then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does Miss trump Hen then?"

I really dislike being called “hen” makes me feel like I’m being spoken to as a child.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"Does Miss trump Hen then?

I really dislike being called “hen” makes me feel like I’m being spoken to as a child. "

I can imagine Quine having a similar effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does Miss trump Hen then?

I really dislike being called “hen” makes me feel like I’m being spoken to as a child.

I can imagine Quine having a similar effect"

I had to look it up I don’t think I’d appreciate being called that either to be honest

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By *hyme2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

Oh I hate hen as well lol. I don’t think there’s any need to call anyone anything really until you know l them a bit better and what they like

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"Does Miss trump Hen then?

I really dislike being called “hen” makes me feel like I’m being spoken to as a child.

I can imagine Quine having a similar effect

I had to look it up I don’t think I’d appreciate being called that either to be honest "

I hear it a lot from the lorry drivers up here dealing with our receptionist. I guess it means queen but still I’m iffy on it

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't think it's used in malice along with most terms used No term bothers me

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By *assNGuyCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does Miss trump Hen then?"

As I'm not Scottish every time someone calls me hen I think of chickens

I'm fine with most miss, babe, Hun ect after all I don't think it's meant in a bad way

Lass xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the term “Miss” quite a lot, but - as NSV mentions above - that is because I very much lean sub.

For my own part, it’s an attempt to be respectful (without being presumptuous and calling a woman “Mistress”, when you both haven’t even chatted yet!), though I also appreciate why some people wouldn’t like to be called it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d take being called miss over most things I get called on here "

I don't understand why anyone would say anything nasty to you, I think you look incredible x

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I’d take being called miss over most things I get called on here

I don't understand why anyone would say anything nasty to you, I think you look incredible x "

I think you've mrssed the point, master.

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By *ovesebonyladiesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

I tend to use sweetheart alot .. not being presumptious it's just my mannerism.. im respectful to all females .. after all manners cost nothing .. xx

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I tend to use sweetheart alot .. not being presumptious it's just my mannerism.. im respectful to all females .. after all manners cost nothing .. xx "

Sweetheart could be deemed a tad patronising and over familiar

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Miss could be something that many guys use as it's a term they used at school for a long time and they may not have dropped the habit. Although typing it could have something to do with being sub.

I detest the term doll, it's just bloody creepy.

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there


"Does Miss trump Hen then?

As I'm not Scottish every time someone calls me hen I think of chickens

I'm fine with most miss, babe, Hun ect after all I don't think it's meant in a bad way

Lass xx"

How about Lassie? One of my neighbors uses it incessantly, and I'm not sure everyone appreciates it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone started a message to me with a "hello missy". He got blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d take being called miss over most things I get called on here

I don't understand why anyone would say anything nasty to you, I think you look incredible x "

They aren’t trying to be nasty 99% of the time , they just think with their penis and forget not everyone likes to be called derogatory names

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By *hyme2020 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

I’m sure they don’t mean anything derogatory from calling me or anyone else miss. I just don’t see the need for things like miss, sweetheart etc etc when first messaging someone. Miss just gives me the ick and missy is the same lol

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By *assNGuyCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does Miss trump Hen then?

As I'm not Scottish every time someone calls me hen I think of chickens

I'm fine with most miss, babe, Hun ect after all I don't think it's meant in a bad way

Lass xx

How about Lassie? One of my neighbors uses it incessantly, and I'm not sure everyone appreciates it... "

Lass is fine . Never come across being called lassie before but first thing to mind is the dog TV show lol

Xx

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By *lexixCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Travellin aroon

I generally say "Hello there" and try to rememeber a name

HOWEVER

I went into a chemist and asked "two packets of condoms please Miss"

The assistant replied "DONT MISS ME"

So i said OK make it 3 packets

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I must be missing something here (pun unavoidable). When did the use of "Miss" go from being a polite or affectionate form of address to something "Icky", bordering on derogatory, or an instant reason to block someone? Hypocorisms, such as babe, hun, sweetheart, coming from a stranger on an adult website, I get, as they can come across as patronising or over-familiar, as stated above but Miss? Seriously? Anyone offended by a "Miss" will be getting ma'am'ed by me from now on for acting like a proper little madam.

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By *ovesebonyladiesMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"I tend to use sweetheart alot .. not being presumptious it's just my mannerism.. im respectful to all females .. after all manners cost nothing .. xx

Sweetheart could be deemed a tad patronising and over familiar "

It's not meant to be .. im just used to calling alot of my female friends sweetheart.. and I do have alot of female friends ... im a nice person and would never intentionally upset a woman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really don't like being called miss.

Mrs is even worse, can't believe some guys actually put that in their messages!

If you know my name, use it and if you don't call me sexy. It's not hard.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Really don't like being called miss.

Mrs is even worse, can't believe some guys actually put that in their messages!

If you know my name, use it and if you don't call me sexy. It's not hard. "

Would Miss Sexy get extra points?

I work with a lot of women that refer to each other as missus when chatting to each other or addressing them on FB. I think it sounds horrible.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Rather be called miss than babe baby or honey

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near


"Rather be called miss than babe baby or honey "

What did you call me when you pegd me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really don't like being called miss.

Mrs is even worse, can't believe some guys actually put that in their messages!

If you know my name, use it and if you don't call me sexy. It's not hard.

Would Miss Sexy get extra points?

I work with a lot of women that refer to each other as missus when chatting to each other or addressing them on FB. I think it sounds horrible. "

Extra blocking points, maybe

Yeah I hate it from anyone.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Rather be called miss than babe baby or honey

What did you call me when you pegd me "

Can't remember haha

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I tend to use sweetheart alot .. not being presumptious it's just my mannerism.. im respectful to all females .. after all manners cost nothing .. xx

Sweetheart could be deemed a tad patronising and over familiar "

Agreed

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Does Miss trump Hen then?

As I'm not Scottish every time someone calls me hen I think of chickens

I'm fine with most miss, babe, Hun ect after all I don't think it's meant in a bad way

Lass xx

How about Lassie? One of my neighbors uses it incessantly, and I'm not sure everyone appreciates it...

Lass is fine . Never come across being called lassie before but first thing to mind is the dog TV show lol

Xx"

What you mean you don't instantly think of me. I'm disappointed

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By *assNGuyCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does Miss trump Hen then?

As I'm not Scottish every time someone calls me hen I think of chickens

I'm fine with most miss, babe, Hun ect after all I don't think it's meant in a bad way

Lass xx

How about Lassie? One of my neighbors uses it incessantly, and I'm not sure everyone appreciates it...

Lass is fine . Never come across being called lassie before but first thing to mind is the dog TV show lol

Xx

What you mean you don't instantly think of me. I'm disappointed "

Ahh now if he had said sassy different story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say miss for some reason haha xx

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