FabSwingers.com forum: Any single men with children

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have to ask...

How do us guys work this one.

Cause we sound well suspect lol

Single woman so do have this problem?

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

I don't think I understand the question chief?

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By *at me drink meWoman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

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By *ANDA!Man
over a year ago

DUMFRIES

"I have to ask...

How do us guys work this one.

Cause we sound well suspect lol

Single woman so do have this problem?

I take it from sound well suspect you mean that when a single guy says he can accommodate or meet at certain times because of kids, you feel the other party thinks that you're just using kids as a cover for having a wife at home?

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

Single parents with kids

Struggle to Accommodate

Never as reliable As the next person because kids come first

Spend a fortune in babysitters so getting let down is more than a little inconvenient

Woohoo for when they’re old enough to look after themselves !!

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By *ANDA!Man
over a year ago

DUMFRIES

"Woohoo for when they’re old enough to look after themselves !! "

WooHoo when they're old enough to fuck off and live in their own place!!

Fixed it for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single parent of 2 teenagers but I try to arrange meets during school hours and the weekends there at there mums

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By *at me drink meWoman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

Full time Single mum full time worker .very small window of time to meet

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By *dmirationMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

Get sitters you cant accommodate Who wants to take swingers back to where your kids live anyway? I know a lady on here that does it my opinion is it's Disgusting anything could happen and there are some nutcase females out there just as well as men! My ex was one Beware she is on here!

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By *reamchasserMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I admire single parents . Working full time then coming home to do full time job at home ..

even when there is time for fun you probably thinking about sofa feet up and Netflix .

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By *at me drink meWoman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

"I admire single parents . Working full time then coming home to do full time job at home ..

even when there is time for fun you probably thinking about sofa feet up and Netflix . "

Sofa feet up and a head between my legs. Perfect netflix and chill

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By *opperKinksWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Regular time 'off'. I get Friday nights and every other Saturday night. Allows me to plan stuff in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I admire single parents . Working full time then coming home to do full time job at home ..

even when there is time for fun you probably thinking about sofa feet up and Netflix .

Sofa feet up and a head between my legs. Perfect netflix and chill"

My kind of woman

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By *at me drink meWoman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

"Regular time 'off'. I get Friday nights and every other Saturday night. Allows me to plan stuff in advance.

I don't usually meet quickly, tends to mean I have better meets though since I've gotten to know someone for a bit longer before meeting them. If people get annoyed that I can't meet whenever they want then I don't meet them, simple! "
im the same set days of mon tues(but only free school hour) child free fri sat but usually work late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been a single dad for 17 years…. Both my kids are over 18 now but still live with me.

Been on here before years ago, struggled with baby sitters and getting time off in past and cancellations killed me at the time…..

but now got time to play….

It’s not easy getting a meet on here any more….

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"I admire single parents . Working full time then coming home to do full time job at home ..

even when there is time for fun you probably thinking about sofa feet up and Netflix .

Sofa feet up and a head between my legs. Perfect netflix and chill

My kind of woman

That's a beautiful dream to have.

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By *reedyKWoman
over a year ago

Fife

"Get sitters you cant accommodate Who wants to take swingers back to where your kids live anyway? I know a lady on here that does it my opinion is it's Disgusting anything could happen and there are some nutcase females out there just as well as men! My ex was one Beware she is on here!"

Wow what a massively judgemental opinion. People are "disgusting" if they meet fellow fabbers in there own home. I am a single mum and meet my fwb in my home when my children are not here. That does not make me disgusting.

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By *eptune1Man
over a year ago

The Bay

It’s a personal decision, based on each persons individual circumstances and experiences.

Whatever people decide to do, it’s certainly not disgusting….. unless the kids are in the same room haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably why you're single with comments like that

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By *IGDADDYBEAR69Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

Just to play devils as advocate i think the OP meant that its disgusting behaviour to swing with your children in the bed at home eg a serial killer could be invite home to your family residence.

Playing at home during the day, at night if the kids are at the partners place or grandparents is acceptable… what not acceptable (not distigusting as that inappropriate wording) is to have as a singular swinger a single male or female to the home while children are present. Couple inviting couples round i can see the way that works but i find it harder to work round singles but each to there own and it all depends on circumstances. Just be safe and keeper your loved ones safe… getting your hole isnt worth the safety of your love ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why suspect?

just be honest and say the days you have them.

if having people over close the bedroom doors and tidy up... i put away their photos too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single mum and work too, although the ex does take them a couple of nights a week I'm an introvert and I need some me time too... Plus trying to plan fun AND socialising..... It's a juggling act but it kinda works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wish people would be a little more understanding sometimes that I really am limited in when I can meet even for a social

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Single man with kids here. Normally can only meet on weeknights with a very rare weekend. Do able, with planning

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