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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So if you had a partner that told you where bisexual would you be able to let them sleep with a member of the same sex while you are in a relationship with them if they where open and honest about everything??

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By *ngelnfugyCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

Angels bi....love it

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket


"So if you had a partner that told you where bisexual would you be able to let them sleep with a member of the same sex while you are in a relationship with them if they where open and honest about everything??"

You do realise you are on a swinging site. That's basically the raison d'etre of the majority of the forum. If there was a Emogi of a face with it's tongue in its cheek with a caption 'derr', I would use it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No easy answer to that one mate, too many variables....but if you're both on a swinging site doesn't that sort of answer the question?

No sarcasm intended...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think hypothetical questions are really answerable.

Right now I'd say yes, I'd be ok with it.

In reality it would depend on so many things, who they are, how our relationship is, what our dynamic is, how I feel sharing, what they'd want in terms of just sex or something more, who they want to share with and probably a million other things I haven't even thought of.

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

We're both bi so no worries there

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Personally I would I've been with bi partners previously and told them straight up I understand if they want fulfill that would just like be made aware but do think there is a lot variables consider aswell and trust is key to. Probs going to get hate for this but I've always thought to myself how can a bisexual person be Faithfull when in a relationship unless allowed explore there sexuality with there partners consent just my 50ps worth

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"So if you had a partner that told you where bisexual would you be able to let them sleep with a member of the same sex while you are in a relationship with them if they where open and honest about everything??"

Mrs here, and here's my take on it..

Mr knew I was very curious a couple of years ago, and encouraged me to experiment with the girls Im best friends with (also curious)

We're happily married and talk about everything! He really enjoys to watch - who wouldn't! And that's really all we look for.. couples that don't mind 'not full swapping' Ladies go with ladies and men get to enjoy their own partners The dynamics work well for us and have had a few amazing meets.

I have met a couple of ladies on my own, but only close to home and knew the people before hand. Any questions I'll try and help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would I've been with bi partners previously and told them straight up I understand if they want fulfill that would just like be made aware but do think there is a lot variables consider aswell and trust is key to. Probs going to get hate for this but I've always thought to myself how can a bisexual person be Faithfull when in a relationship unless allowed explore there sexuality with there partners consent just my 50ps worth "

People who are bisexual can’t be faithful ?

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Was just my take on it if your partner didn't support it would the bi person manage to go through the rest of there life knowing that they would only be able to explore a single part of there sexuality with the partner of the sex they had as they didn't like to share

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My girlfriend knew I had wants/desires and she was sorta OK with them, but didn't fully understand them.

She put rules on me, as to what I could and couldn't do, also who with, but once I prove to her that I was able to be trusted she released all the restrictions.

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By *he couple nextdoorCouple
over a year ago

grangemouth


"So if you had a partner that told you where bisexual would you be able to let them sleep with a member of the same sex while you are in a relationship with them if they where open and honest about everything??"

The only person that can answer is you

You should talk

Discuss what your comfortable with and not

And if it happens and you don't feel it works then the other stops

Or you separate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't people answer these posts with positive bloody input John

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By *ock74Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Haha. Nailed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you had a partner that told you where bisexual would you be able to let them sleep with a member of the same sex while you are in a relationship with them if they where open and honest about everything??"

Yep, my ex is bi and I had no issue with it at all. I mean, it’s important to point out she’s my ex now as she was a twit and nothing to do with the bi side

I saw it as it’s not possible for people to suppress who they are. We had some fun times along the way too

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket


"Why can't people answer these posts with positive bloody input John "

I think they can Dyno

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Both bi and both very comfortable with each others sexualities. We are what we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would I've been with bi partners previously and told them straight up I understand if they want fulfill that would just like be made aware but do think there is a lot variables consider aswell and trust is key to. Probs going to get hate for this but I've always thought to myself how can a bisexual person be Faithfull when in a relationship unless allowed explore there sexuality with there partners consent just my 50ps worth "

Being on a swinging site, you get to explore all sides of your sexuality , in regards to being in a monogamous relationship.thats a choice whether straight/ bi/ gay , just because your bi doesn't mean your unfaithful just means your sexualy attracted to both genders , choosing to be with one person is exactly that it's a choice whether you cheat is a choice aswell and it isn't restricted to one orientation .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any partner I have can do what ever they choose with whomever they choose. Ive never been able to understand how people can choose monogamy. I know for some it's completely natural but for me it's like saying you can only eat one food for the rest of your life! Sounds awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabswingers.com is what this about? Think you should have a look lol

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife


"Personally I would I've been with bi partners previously and told them straight up I understand if they want fulfill that would just like be made aware but do think there is a lot variables consider aswell and trust is key to. Probs going to get hate for this but I've always thought to myself how can a bisexual person be Faithfull when in a relationship unless allowed explore there sexuality with there partners consent just my 50ps worth "

I really don't understand why a bisexual person can't be faithful....maybe I am missing something but a straight or gay person can be faithful simply by not having sex with other people so why do the same rules not apply? Am I missing something ?

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By *an from UncleMan
over a year ago

ml1

Oh controversial love it

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By *an from UncleMan
over a year ago

ml1

I remember speaking to a girl in a club quite a few years ago and, she said she had previously been in a couples relationship but, when he told her he thought he might be Bi she ended the relationship

I saw her later that evening in a room with a couple and she was rolling about with the female

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

For me

Absolutely not because no matter your sexuality monogamy is my preferred type of relationship

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

He’s bi and love him having meets, he doesn’t have enough in my opinion as would love to see him in action more.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I remember speaking to a girl in a club quite a few years ago and, she said she had previously been in a couples relationship but, when he told her he thought he might be Bi she ended the relationship

I saw her later that evening in a room with a couple and she was rolling about with the female "

And your point is?

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