FabSwingers.com forum: Couples meeting couples

By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

We are a mf couple

We are inundated with males

However we have found that meeting or speaking to couples is difficult

We would like to meet a mf couple like ourselves

Socially

Or social and more if everyone is happy to

If it goes well could be regular no strings

Are we doing something wrong?

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

We have only really met guys until now and are unsure if we would play with a couple but would love to have couple friends that are into the swinging scene aswell. All our Friends are vanilla and would be great to have people to chat to etc without having to watch what we say

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

You profile states your only looking for women so that will be half your battle I'm sure

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"We are a mf couple

We are inundated with males

However we have found that meeting or speaking to couples is difficult

We would like to meet a mf couple like ourselves

Socially

Or social and more if everyone is happy to

If it goes well could be regular no strings

Are we doing something wrong?

Advice guys

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your profile states only looking for females plus both of you are bi & I know most couples the males are straight but there are all bi profiles out there too so it’s just a case of being patient and finding them .

Perhaps use your filters to block single males from contacting you for a while and concentrate on looking for the couples Xx

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By *erryandjuneCouple
over a year ago

Livingston

We would happily chat and see where it takes us!

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

We are actually a mf straight couple

It should say m,f,mf

However we like to try different things for fun together

So put bi curious

As we are open to trying out all ways

We are open to most things

However straight male on profile suddenly bi

And although most mf couples say male straight

Male message saying that they want to try bi but don't know what wife will say

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It’s difficult meeting couples. We struggle too.

It’s hard to be compatible. For example we are both straight which limits options and age ranges will also reduce potential meets. It’s not easy unless you have no preferences and are willing to meet just anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking to head out Saturday for drinks if anyone's out

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By *o and peepCouple
over a year ago

falkirk

It is harder than people think to click with couples we would like to meet up socially but find it hard to match and we are not that fussy !

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By *heJammyDodgersCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

We would be happy to chat and meet for a social? Have you tried clubs? We've been to CJs twice now and that's how we've met people. We found it easier than just messaging on here and if you don't click there are plenty more people that you can talk to.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"We are a mf couple

We are inundated with males

However we have found that meeting or speaking to couples is difficult

We would like to meet a mf couple like ourselves

Socially

Or social and more if everyone is happy to

If it goes well could be regular no strings

Are we doing something wrong?

Advice guys

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use your filters if your inundated with males .

It’s so much harder to please 4 people than just yourself but patience is what’s needed to find the right people .

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By *lipandslide069Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We are trying to meet genuine regular couples it's a nightmare

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By *unkydunkyCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would rather be patient to meet the right couples either here or in a club / party setting.

It’s the couples and singles that ask to meet without actually knowing what you look like! Wtf is that all about? Definitely not for me

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By *inkysallyjackCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We are always happy to chat to other couples we like the social side aswell as the fun side.

It’s nice being able to have people to talk too about this part of our lives so we always like to do a social meet first just too see if everyone is comfortable.

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By *otrock-cplCouple
over a year ago

Glenrothes

We are all about meeting other couples.

I am Bi and Darren is straight and comfortable being around bi guys with them knowing nothing will ever happen that way.

We all have our main life outwith swinging like family, jobs and other commitments so people need to understand this as well however as you will all see from our verifications we are 100% genuine and we feel this also helps to interact with others so any verifications you may have put them up on your page as well

Happy to chat and see what CUMS of it

Holly & Darren XXX

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

Do you think having bi/bi curious on profile puts couples off

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

"It is harder than people think to click with couples we would like to meet up socially but find it hard to match and we are not that fussy !"

For us we would like to meet a couple or couples like us

Social

Go out together

No strings just fun

And more if we all agree

But it's not happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you are inundated with messages from males but how many messages, winks, fabs have you sent out to other couples or are you waiting for them to come to you?

We saw you looked at our profile and did none of the above. We take that as you have no interest in us so we would not reply.

We hope you find what you want.. take care

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

It’s really difficult to find another couple that you just click with.

We’ve chatted to a few, had socials and then they tell us what they’re looking for is different than their profile says which puts us off.

I’d recommend going to a club and at least you’ll get to chat to a few couples in one night. It also cuts down a lot on messages back and forth/making sure they’re real etc

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

"You say you are inundated with messages from males but how many messages, winks, fabs have you sent out to other couples or are you waiting for them to come to you?

We saw you looked at our profile and did none of the above. We take that as you have no interest in us so we would not reply.

We hope you find what you want.. take care"

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Yes we do all of the above.

When looking you have to click profile to have a look and read.

Then it depends distance

When meeting

What they are looking for

And what we are looking for

Also we like to see pics

There's got to be a physical attraction also

So if we looked at your profile perhaps it was just the distance

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

"It’s really difficult to find another couple that you just click with.

We’ve chatted to a few, had socials and then they tell us what they’re looking for is different than their profile says which puts us off.

I’d recommend going to a club and at least you’ll get to chat to a few couples in one night. It also cuts down a lot on messages back and forth/making sure they’re real etc "

That happens often

As we are a couple

For social side it's better to meet with other couples

Also if going further ppl should be honest likes dislikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was in a couple

mission impossible hard enough 1x1 let alone 2x2...

has to be a club or social events first right?

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By *ightimefun2Couple
over a year ago

stirling

Interesting thread. We have been on here a long time but it's now so difficult to meet anyone. Much more so than before. We used to meet couples quite easily but not now. We had a bad experience at a club so Mrs ntf does not like them. If it's as difficult as it seems for couples to meet couples add to that there's no chance of meeting a single female and if you exclude the guys bombarding you with dick pics it leaves a very small pool of potential meets unfortunately

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Do you think having bi/bi curious on profile puts couples off"

Being a bi-curious female in a couple seems to be an advantage. We’re both straight and we swear that makes meeting more difficult as so many want a girl/girl part to the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve all but gave up trying to meet couples. It’s a lot more difficult than people think.

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By *ightimefun2Couple
over a year ago

stirling

Yes this totally. How often do you see 'looking for fem but would consider couple with bi-fem' we've had this where meet has not gone well as only interested in a 3 not 4

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"We’ve all but gave up trying to meet couples. It’s a lot more difficult than people think."

It certainly is, our experience too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes this totally. How often do you see 'looking for fem but would consider couple with bi-fem' we've had this where meet has not gone well as only interested in a 3 not 4"

Yeah I agree , if we are looking to meet with couples then it’s for full swap where everyone is involved and no one feels like a tag along. Being bi myself I’ve been in situations with couples where I felt like there was an expectation of some show to be put on with both women and I’m just not into that.

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By *ightimefun2Couple
over a year ago

stirling

"Yes this totally. How often do you see 'looking for fem but would consider couple with bi-fem' we've had this where meet has not gone well as only interested in a 3 not 4

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By *unshineShowers08Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Couples meeting couples is certainly the hardest dynamic as it's four-way.

Being a straight female or bicurious male does hold you back on fab absolutely no doubt about that, however if that's what you are then own it!

Plenty of women define as bi or bicurious on here but less than 20% are actually fully bisexual in our experience. Most are biconvenient because it suits the fab narrative however there is nothing more dull than ladies playing bi to put on a show, sends me to sleep haha!

If your wanting to meet couples head to a club or organised social where I have no doubt you will come across someone who fits your eye. We all on fab put up our guard on the site to a certain degree... It could be the way someone phrases something, could be a choice of pic, could be a joke they tell, could be their quantity of veris or lack of them or could simply be a loose sock in the backdrop of a photo that is enough for someone to say no. When you head to a club all that goes out of the window and you actually see people as people which makes a huge difference. The easiest option on an online platform is to say no whereas in person it's often the least chosen response.

Give it a go try heading to clubs and you swinging life will take off... I swear if we had never done the club scene I doubt we would have met anyone yet

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By *ornypair300Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders

we have found it near on impossible to meet couples , no idea why . we approch them and get blanked or chat starts then nothing ever again mid convo . we do know a few couples socailly that have left the site due to the bombardment from single men . its a shame

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"we have found it near on impossible to meet couples , no idea why . we approch them and get blanked or chat starts then nothing ever again mid convo . we do know a few couples socailly that have left the site due to the bombardment from single men . its a shame "

Everybody’s choices are limited but the demographic seems to be swayed towards couples in their 40s and 50s so maybe being a bit younger than many limits your options quite a bit.

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By *ornypair300Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders

Everybody’s choices are limited but the demographic seems to be swayed towards couples in their 40s and 50s so maybe being a bit younger than many limits your options quite a bit. "

we find age is just a number , obviously there are limits however i wouldnt say we are mindless teens just looking for a quick fix , we have been here for a few years now and met some amazing people socailly and otherwise . so pretty much here to stay

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

We must be in the minority because we have no trouble meeting couples and even have a regular unicorn that approached us!

The only trouble we have is getting dates to suit both parties as we only really have 1 or 2 (if we're lucky) weekends a month to play.

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

It seems impossible to meet similar couples

Social, friendship,no strings

With fun

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By *he couple nextdoor OP Couple
over a year ago

grangemouth

"It’s really difficult to find another couple that you just click with.

We’ve chatted to a few, had socials and then they tell us what they’re looking for is different than their profile says which puts us off.

I’d recommend going to a club and at least you’ll get to chat to a few couples in one night. It also cuts down a lot on messages back and forth/making sure they’re real etc "

It's impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have thought being a couple on here would be the easiest way to meet another couple.

From the vast majority of posts it seems that's not the case.

Being a single guy it's very very rare I receive a message without having sent one first... Maybe couples just have to start sending more initial messages and then get chatting and meeting!

Or is it much easier said than done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is pretty hard

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Yeah we find it getting difficult to meet other couples. Finding that 4 way attraction being the difficult part.

We're down as a bi curious female but it's more bi playful as past the curious stage but it's not essential. More than happy to play straight.

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By * and gCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"We are a mf couple

We are inundated with males

However we have found that meeting or speaking to couples is difficult

We would like to meet a mf couple like ourselves

Socially

Or social and more if everyone is happy to

If it goes well could be regular no strings

Are we doing something wrong?

Advice guys

We are a mf couple and would meet other couples on a social basis,maybe same room own partner play,we found it easier to talk to people at cjs. We find it difficult to find a couple for social events as we dont want them to get the wrong idea and think we are into sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We must be in the minority because we have no trouble meeting couples and even have a regular unicorn that approached us!

The only trouble we have is getting dates to suit both parties as we only really have 1 or 2 (if we're lucky) weekends a month to play. "

Indeed you both must be in the minority. You are very lucky! Well done to you all.

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We still need to meet a couple and single female

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

I put bi-curious but again more bi-playful as I’ve played with some Fs 1:1, but I have my own reasons for not defining myself as bisexual.

Ian is definitely straight.

Pre-covid we did a few meets same room/full swap, but I would prefer to get to know people through socials or meets before playing but appreciate finding mutual dates x4 can be difficult to sort.

Millie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples meeting couples is certainly the hardest dynamic as it's four-way.

Being a straight female or bicurious male does hold you back on fab absolutely no doubt about that, however if that's what you are then own it!

Give it a go try heading to clubs and you swinging life will take off... I swear if we had never done the club scene I doubt we would have met anyone yet

The most sensible comment I’ve seen on here for a long time.

Just because someone has bi or bi curious on their profile it doesn’t mean that’s the b all and end all.

There’s a lot of prejudice against men who may be slightly “flexible” yet it seems a woman has to go both ways.

For a sex site there’s an awful lot of uptight types

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By *othofus2021Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Happy to chat to any couples

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By *urvyhotwifenstagCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Getting 4 people to click can be tricky but we find the hardest part is everyone getting the time to meet around childcare and work.

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By *ornypair300Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders

"I'd have thought being a couple on here would be the easiest way to meet another couple.

From the vast majority of posts it seems that's not the case.

Being a single guy it's very very rare I receive a message without having sent one first... Maybe couples just have to start sending more initial messages and then get chatting and meeting!

Or is it much easier said than done

Exact opposite tbh , any meeting here is a struggle these days unless your willing to just sleep with anyone with no conversation prior ect couples don’t have it any easier than anyone really

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso

We generally chat a while, including about non sexual topics, to get an idea of how well we connect. We're not looking for loads of meets but meets with people who will genuinely get on well with as if ordinary friends too xx

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

We would like to meet a couple for more friendship than play. All or friend are vanilla and this lifestyle is more or les 100% secret. Would be great to have the odd night out or general friendship with like minded kinky fuckers where cal let go a bit and enjoy chatting and having a laugh without having to watch incase we slip up

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