FabSwingers.com forum: On a site like this?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is someone like you on a site like this, surely you have no problems pulling in town"

Now I get it's aim is to compliment, but does anyone else feel like it's tone deaf and slightly offensive?

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

""Why is someone like you on a site like this, surely you have no problems pulling in town"

Now I get it's aim is to compliment, but does anyone else feel like it's tone deaf and slightly offensive?"

Yip I agree and slightly patronising.

Everyone is on here for their own reasons and it’s nobody else’s business but your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not offended by it but don't take it as a compliment either on here. It's just something men message and say in chat to alot of women on here more than likely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the old chestnut.. can't your husband satisfy you?

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

Thanks for your input, feel free to report them to admin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""Why is someone like you on a site like this, surely you have no problems pulling in town"

Now I get it's aim is to compliment, but does anyone else feel like it's tone deaf and slightly offensive?

Yip I agree and slightly patronising.

Everyone is on here for their own reasons and it’s nobody else’s business but your own.

It's insinuation that the site is only for sex-starved desperados who can't get sex anywhere off the site that gets me!

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

Oooft that’s a statement and a half to make. I’m away to check out tineye

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

Thanks for your input, feel free to report them to admin

Already did

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By *ongue FuckerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

""Why is someone like you on a site like this, surely you have no problems pulling in town"

Now I get it's aim is to compliment, but does anyone else feel like it's tone deaf and slightly offensive?"

I think it is a cheesy opening line from the linguistically challenged.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

Is someone jealous? Think you fall into the category of avoid at all cost" when you make comments like that to someone who carries verifications like the OP.

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By *edGlasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Clearly they don't get the vibe, and have certainly misunderstood the room.

As for the comment itself, we'll it begs the question, what are THEY doing here? And do they think they're punching above their weight with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Why is someone like you on a site like this, surely you have no problems pulling in town"

Now I get it's aim is to compliment, but does anyone else feel like it's tone deaf and slightly offensive?"

Too many guys try to strike up a conversation and think a line like that is somehow a compliment. It work with some perhaps?

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

Is someone jealous? Think you fall into the category of avoid at all cost" when you make comments like that to someone who carries verifications like the OP. "

I'm not jealous of a profile with fake pics no

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By *addhabitzzCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

2 of the pics are from other sites so bbwg is not mistaken. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry i just started singing "on a night like this" by kylie..

yep.. some chats shit on this site some is good!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

Is someone jealous? Think you fall into the category of avoid at all cost" when you make comments like that to someone who carries verifications like the OP. "

And now I remember why I avoid the forums:

; populated by too many jealous, 'cliquey' women!

I'm verified, and not a single one of my photos has a match through tin eye or google reverse image search.

Nice try

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

Is someone jealous? Think you fall into the category of avoid at all cost" when you make comments like that to someone who carries verifications like the OP.

And now I remember why I avoid the forums:

; populated by too many jealous, 'cliquey' women!

I'm verified, and not a single one of my photos has a match through tin eye or google reverse image search.

Nice try

Yes after you deleted them. Yes nice try indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well…..that escalated quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well…..that escalated quickly

oh in a site like this...

i want to stay forever stay forever...

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By *hatEscalatedQuicklyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

"Well…..that escalated quickly

Nowt to do with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fight fight fight!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well…..that escalated quickly

Nowt to do with us

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Fight fight fight!!!!

No chance. With the fake pics I don't know who I'd be up against

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion purely cause I can..I did notice a cpl of pictures have been deleted and the OP states ample when the pictures ain't.. just an observation ..we ladies are all too quick to call out guys using fake pictures.. iv reported 2 already this week.

Equality all round I say

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ignore and block that's what we do, its easier not to engage in that sort of conversation.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

Is someone jealous? Think you fall into the category of avoid at all cost" when you make comments like that to someone who carries verifications like the OP.

And now I remember why I avoid the forums:

; populated by too many jealous, 'cliquey' women!

I'm verified, and not a single one of my photos has a match through tin eye or google reverse image search.

Nice try

2 can be easily found on other sites using Google Lens. She's not making it up, I looked. Really don't think she's jealous, she's pointing out a fact.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

Is someone jealous? Think you fall into the category of avoid at all cost" when you make comments like that to someone who carries verifications like the OP.

And now I remember why I avoid the forums:

; populated by too many jealous, 'cliquey' women!

I'm verified, and not a single one of my photos has a match through tin eye or google reverse image search.

Nice try

2 can be easily found on other sites using Google Lens. She's not making it up, I looked. Really don't think she's jealous, she's pointing out a fact."

And another look shows me you've removed them, so she was right.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"Well…..that escalated quickly

Nowt to do with us

love the username!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow that was some read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

Is someone jealous? Think you fall into the category of avoid at all cost" when you make comments like that to someone who carries verifications like the OP.

And now I remember why I avoid the forums:

; populated by too many jealous, 'cliquey' women!

I'm verified, and not a single one of my photos has a match through tin eye or google reverse image search.

Nice try

2 can be easily found on other sites using Google Lens. She's not making it up, I looked. Really don't think she's jealous, she's pointing out a fact."

I also looked before they were deleted. There were 5 public pictures and now there are 12 minus the ones I ran through Tin Eye. Took me a while to get back here as the reply I was writing had a forbidden word in that sounds like a Christmas bread cake thing with marzipan in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's off googling pics while I just spent 20 minutes trying to work out the banned word

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Everyone's off googling pics while I just spent 20 minutes trying to work out the banned word

I’m still thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's off googling pics while I just spent 20 minutes trying to work out the banned word

I’m still thinking about it

snap

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Google lens, tin eye... banned words in marzipan...

I'm easily confused remember

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By *aughty_Jack_ABZMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Going back to the original point and ignoring all the pointless bitching.

I think a lot of men, who make up around 90% of the users on here seem to see FAB as a fuck buddy, FWB or NSA casual hook up sex site... not a swingers site.

The concept of a drop dead gorgeous, confident,smart,funny,bisexual woman (Yes - Natasha is all that and much more) looking for the delights of the swinging lifestyle and culture seems to elude them.

Hence the tone deaf attempt to get into her panties for a quick fuck. Sad really.

Frustratingly due to the format of this site. The pay model of relying on single males for 90+% of revenue. The desperate, rude, horny and clumsy single male cavemen will continue to be the majority.

Genuine swingers like Natasha, myself and all of you genuine others reading this will sadly just have to put up with the rough with the warm, soft, smooth wet velvet

Nat - take it as a compliment, smile and move on. Your body and genuine pics are stunning, sexy and deliciously teasing. Keep being you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That not the name of a Kylie Minogue song?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the fek is tin eye ,is it like Pink eye

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"What the fek is tin eye ,is it like Pink eye

It's an image search thingy. It's how we know you nicked your pictures from the Chippendales website.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"What the fek is tin eye ,is it like Pink eye

It's an image search thingy. It's how we know you nicked your pictures from the Chippendales website. "

Nah chipmunks are way nice than Dynamic .

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By *addhabitzzCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Actually they did. I checked. And now removed

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By *addhabitzzCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

And this is nothing to do with bitching. This is about someone using pics that are not theirs. Christ. Guys thinking with their dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What the fek is tin eye ,is it like Pink eye

It's an image search thingy. It's how we know you nicked your pictures from the Chippendales website. "
Chippendales lol really, your showing your age bud

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"And this is nothing to do with bitching. This is about someone using pics that are not theirs. Christ. Guys thinking with their dicks "

There are other ways of thinking!?

As an aside; it must be a bugger trying to be taken serious on here if you are an actual googleable porn star.

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By *addhabitzzCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"And this is nothing to do with bitching. This is about someone using pics that are not theirs. Christ. Guys thinking with their dicks

There are other ways of thinking!?

As an aside; it must be a bugger trying to be taken serious on here if you are an actual googleable porn star. "

Haha!!

I know and have known a few on here and they tend not to use their work pics for their profiles

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"And this is nothing to do with bitching. This is about someone using pics that are not theirs. Christ. Guys thinking with their dicks

There are other ways of thinking!?

As an aside; it must be a bugger trying to be taken serious on here if you are an actual googleable porn star.

Haha!!

I know and have known a few on here and they tend not to use their work pics for their profiles "

I don't think I could be arsed coming on here looking for my hole if it was my 9-5 job. No unless it was time-and-a-half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

Well that's embarrassing, Natasha almost made it onto my hotlist too.

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

Well that's embarrassing, Natasha almost made it onto my hotlist too.

You can still add her. I'm sure she'll post more of "her own" lovely pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeeaowww....looks like I've found myself slap bang in the middle of a good old fashioned catfight!!

Remeber guys, they may end up kissing!!

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Meeeaowww....looks like I've found myself slap bang in the middle of a good old fashioned catfight!!

Remeber guys, they may end up kissing!!

Do you mean catfish?

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

If the great pics on her profile now are hers, then i see no reason why she would need fakes.

She is however wrong to mention 'cliquey' women!.... its not just women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't over think it. Take it as the compliment that it's intended to be. Although it may be commonly said to you and repetition annoys, it is a compliment so best to choose not to be offended by it and smile. Guys have a hard enough time trying to figure out the right tact in conversing on here. They probably know well the myriad of different reasons why stunning people use this site ..lol. .. thank god you do actually.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably because most of your pics are off porn sites and it's not actually you in the pics

Well that's embarrassing, Natasha almost made it onto my hotlist too.

You can still add her. I'm sure she'll post more of "her own" lovely pics

I'm afraid the magic is gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was going to use David hasselhoffs pics from 1993 !! There goes that idea !!

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If the great pics on her profile now are hers, then i see no reason why she would need fakes.

She is however wrong to mention 'cliquey' women!.... its not just women

Do you actually believe they are her pics

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

And for the record. Just because a group of people call someone out for using fake pics. I'd doesn't make them a clique. Just means they all agree the pics are not genuine

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

"If the great pics on her profile now are hers, then i see no reason why she would need fakes.

She is however wrong to mention 'cliquey' women!.... its not just women

Do you actually believe they are her pics

No idea but then again i am not sad enough to feel the need to spend time trying to be some sort of sleuth

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

"And for the record. Just because a group of people call someone out for using fake pics. I'd doesn't make them a clique. Just means they all agree the pics are not genuine

Or maybe just follow the leader like sheep. Quite common on here it seems.

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If the great pics on her profile now are hers, then i see no reason why she would need fakes.

She is however wrong to mention 'cliquey' women!.... its not just women

Do you actually believe they are her pics

No idea but then again i am not sad enough to feel the need to spend time trying to be some sort of sleuth"

Sleuth??? I hardly done much investigating. Just pressed a button and it came up

You can always tell the fake profiles by the type of posts they put on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the great pics on her profile now are hers, then i see no reason why she would need fakes.

She is however wrong to mention 'cliquey' women!.... its not just women

Do you actually believe they are her pics

No idea but then again i am not sad enough to feel the need to spend time trying to be some sort of sleuth

Sleuth??? I hardly done much investigating. Just pressed a button and it came up

You can always tell the fake profiles by the type of posts they put on the forums

Whatever could you mean?

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By *pank-me-harderWoman
over a year ago

close to leven

I called a guy out just the other day for using another guy on heres pictures

Just don't understand the need to steal pics or be fake ,but as previously said by the woman on here it's really not hard to spot a fake profile or check out the pictures they are using

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

""Why is someone like you on a site like this, surely you have no problems pulling in town"

Now I get it's aim is to compliment, but does anyone else feel like it's tone deaf and slightly offensive?"

If I had a pound for every time I got this message I would be skint

Agree with you though, its lazy and patronising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Why is someone like you on a site like this, surely you have no problems pulling in town"

Now I get it's aim is to compliment, but does anyone else feel like it's tone deaf and slightly offensive?

If I had a pound for every time I got this message I would be skint

Agree with you though, its lazy and patronising"

You've not read the entire thread have you?

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

""Why is someone like you on a site like this, surely you have no problems pulling in town"

Now I get it's aim is to compliment, but does anyone else feel like it's tone deaf and slightly offensive?

If I had a pound for every time I got this message I would be skint

Agree with you though, its lazy and patronising

You've not read the entire thread have you?"

Yes I have, I just responded to the original point.

We dont all need to contribute to the rest of whats been posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look like absolute perfection. I guess that reflects their confidence if they feel they are ‘ugly’ enough for fab but you aren’t

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"And for the record. Just because a group of people call someone out for using fake pics. I'd doesn't make them a clique. Just means they all agree the pics are not genuine

Or maybe just follow the leader like sheep. Quite common on here it seems."

I can almost forgive you picking up my spelling error for that comment.

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By *ubs79Man
over a year ago

Turriff

This was a good read

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

""Why is someone like you on a site like this, surely you have no problems pulling in town"

Now I get it's aim is to compliment, but does anyone else feel like it's tone deaf and slightly offensive?"

I'm.just gonna go ahead and agree with anything you say.

sweet jeeeeeezus

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Clearly hadn't read the thread. I stand by my pervation.

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By *implyJayGeeMan
over a year ago

Garthamlock

Came here to reply and now can’t remember what the original topic was

. Nothing like a forum fight to keep things civil eh… gee whizz

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By *rNiceGuy1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

""Why is someone like you on a site like this, surely you have no problems pulling in town"

Now I get it's aim is to compliment, but does anyone else feel like it's tone deaf and slightly offensive?"

Arseholes I like women like you on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that took a turn

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I think I’ve got whiplash.

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