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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How annoying when you chat to a couple but it’s only ever the male online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take that as a red flag & move on. If the wife is real she will quickly be online

Mrs C

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By *N007Couple
over a year ago

clacks

I don't like when they don't say who's replying.99% of the time its me (miss) but will still say if its N or M replying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yup totally agree! Call bullsh*t right away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup totally agree! Call bullsh*t right away"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And never photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder what the percentage is of fake profiles is at the moment? Must be rising….

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

We always sign our messages on the couple profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (mrs) do most of the chatting on here unless we find someone/couple we’d like to meet then mr gets involved in the chat. We always try and state who is chatting at the end of a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (mrs) do most of the chatting on here unless we find someone/couple we’d like to meet then mr gets involved in the chat. We always try and state who is chatting at the end of a tmessage. "

Fortunately it’s relatively ease to spot the genuine couples like you guys…the fake time wasters stand out a mile - which makes profiles such as yours shine even more (although I seem to be blocked ha)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (mrs) do most of the chatting on here unless we find someone/couple we’d like to meet then mr gets involved in the chat. We always try and state who is chatting at the end of a tmessage.

Fortunately it’s relatively ease to spot the genuine couples like you guys…the fake time wasters stand out a mile - which makes profiles such as yours shine even more (although I seem to be blocked ha) "

We do ?, I can’t think why. I fixed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (mrs) do most of the chatting on here unless we find someone/couple we’d like to meet then mr gets involved in the chat. We always try and state who is chatting at the end of a tmessage.

Fortunately it’s relatively ease to spot the genuine couples like you guys…the fake time wasters stand out a mile - which makes profiles such as yours shine even more (although I seem to be blocked ha)

We do ?, I can’t think why. I fixed it "

Why…thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy messaged me recently, witha supposed picture of his girlfriend. He said that she would love to have fun with me. I asked for her details and he gave me his kik. When I said I'd rather just speak to her, he disappeared.

Complete shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah a totally agree with this whenever a have had a couple message it'd always the male that's available and never the female or a have had the case where its the woman offering for me to sleep with her partner what's people's thoughts on this

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"How annoying when you chat to a couple but it’s only ever the male online "

Which one of you was chatting to him ?

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We’re a couple where the male answers most of the messages. Check out our veris. We’re obviously fake

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

That’s a bit harsh. I know two couples where the female half works shifts in a care home and the other is a nurse and in bed by 9pm every night. I’ve known both couples for several years.

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By *N007Couple
over a year ago

clacks


"Yeah a totally agree with this whenever a have had a couple message it'd always the male that's available and never the female or a have had the case where its the woman offering for me to sleep with her partner what's people's thoughts on this "

I think if it's genuine then people have no problems proving that they are genuine but I do know people who refuse to send any type of pics or verify other in other ways

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By *ineinchtonyMan
over a year ago

Airdrie


"I (mrs) do most of the chatting on here unless we find someone/couple we’d like to meet then mr gets involved in the chat. We always try and state who is chatting at the end of a tmessage.

Fortunately it’s relatively ease to spot the genuine couples like you guys…the fake time wasters stand out a mile - which makes profiles such as yours shine even more (although I seem to be blocked ha) "

Totally agree that it’s easy to spot the fake couples and that it makes you appreciate the real good ones even more, had one just last night with no pictures messaging me asking to meet and then getting angry when I said I don’t meet straight away and asking to see them sadly I’m also blocked my mr and Mrs dark

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By *1234jMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Here’s some me and my wife have had

1 wife sleeping

2 away for the weekend

3 has gone of sex

4 she still lives down south

5 will only meet the female

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By *mAndGeeCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm guilty of the whole wife is asleep excuse..that's because she is actually asleep. She works at 5 in the morning. I'm on here mostly at night due to boredom, like chatting to other people. We do sometimes both come on at weekends when we get a chance as kids get in the way a lot too.

We are a genuine couple. Been verified as a couple by the site as well as people who have seen us together in the cam rooms.

Ideally it would be good if both of us could be on all the time but sadly work and family commitments restrict that.

I know how frustrating it can be though as we have also had "couples" add us on Kik, WhatsApp etc and all of a sudden the Mrs is not there at the moment

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By *ifeCouple66Couple
over a year ago

Fife

We've spoken with a couple before on and moved to kik, not long after we joined this site actually so we were very nieve.

They shared a kik account because they were always together anyway. He would send vids of him wanking etc late at night.

A very long story short. It turns out his PREGNANT missus had no idea her face was plastered all over fab and her man was rubbing one out cos he couldn't get any from her. Unsurprisingly, they aren't together anymore.

Really baffling because she was gorgeous and he was very average, so definitely punching above his weight. Fucked it up for a few wanks.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

You’d be surprised how many “couples” can’t even send a pic of the two of them together never mind getting them both on cam/phone at the same time

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By *ANDA!Man
over a year ago

DUMFRIES

What gets me is when a couple message, but never say if it's the Mr or Mrs. Like today, I got a message from a couples profile asking if I wanted a bj, checked the profiles - both straight, no mention of anything bi, so (mebbe rather naively on my part) I assumed it was the Mrs. Couple messages later it changed to an invite into a van with Mr to wank over pics of Mrs. Noped.

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

These are all great observations but none really prove a couple are not genuine.

The simplest thing we find is check the couple have genuine verifications, exchange a small number of messages to make sure you’re on the same page and arrange to meet for a social. It’s simple. You don’t need hundreds of messages, pictures of people together, video calls.

There’s nothing like speaking in person.

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By *o and peepCouple
over a year ago

falkirk

We are genuine a few on here know that to be true but it’s generally me the male that is on here chatting simply because she is not a big chatter online even her sister can wait 3 Days for a reply

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By *ert999400Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"A guy messaged me recently, witha supposed picture of his girlfriend. He said that she would love to have fun with me. I asked for her details and he gave me his kik. When I said I'd rather just speak to her, he disappeared.

Kik should ring alarm bells if you down that route you have you comeback if it goes wrong . Eg they want money, well you cannot report them you left fab to chat. Stay on fab for comms if they are gen youwill be OK.

Complete shame "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our couples profile it is generally me that messages. L is one of the most anti social people here when it comes to chatting. She will eventually get involved... And I'm sure our verificators (is that a word?) can vouch for this!

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"That’s a bit harsh. I know two couples where the female half works shifts in a care home and the other is a nurse and in bed by 9pm every night. I’ve known both couples for several years.

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Thanks, I was just coming on to say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My misses used to reply but not as much now coz of the nasty comments and stuff when she says no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here’s some me and my wife have had

1 wife sleeping

2 away for the weekend

3 has gone of sex

4 she still lives down south

5 will only meet the female

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I have had out with dog. Best walked dog in the shire all hours day and night lol x

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By *sh paulCouple
over a year ago

DALKEITH

We are a genuine couple but my mrs wont be using our account.

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