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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

For me there has to be an attraction to a face for me to want to me or it wont happen. Thats why i very rarely reply if no face is sent. I do feel on here alot of people (mostly go with the any holes a goal)

Whats everyones views

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By *otfun999Man
over a year ago

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Attraction is definitely needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is a must, problem is people assume when you have that view you are shallow, it's not shallow we all just like what we like

personally I need both attraction and the personality to be on point

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By *oShrinkingVioletWoman
over a year ago

the land of unicorns and fairytales

If I wouldn’t date you I certainly

Wouldn’t fuck you is my motto, sometimes I think I’m cutting my nose off to spite my face as there’s been a few gorgeous guys over the years trying it on but they have no substance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to be physically attracted to someone in order to be turned on and want to have sex with them. They also have to be able to stimulate my mind to though not just good looking.

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By *halquoneMan
over a year ago

alva

I think most people want to be attracted to the person they are with. If they are not then it’s not going to be good sex.

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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

"I need to be physically attracted to someone in order to be turned on and want to have sex with them. They also have to be able to stimulate my mind to though not just good looking. "

I 100% agree.if i just want to get of iv got toys for that .but in order to meet a guy couple or female i must be into them. The attraction the build up cheeky banter and the kiss is all important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely personality and attraction. Laid back cool handsome and good looking imo

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

100% attraction is a must and the face plays a big part of that.

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By *otfun999Man
over a year ago

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Just ask for pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 1 I need to actually fancy the person I'm going to have sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractions a must. Knew plenty guys growing up who would go with anyone just to get some but that ain't me.

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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

Every on has there own likes in attraction. So many guys take the hump when i reply sayin no attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every on has there own likes in attraction. So many guys take the hump when i reply sayin no attraction"

You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea and a lot of people struggle to accept that.

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By *otfun999Man
over a year ago

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Agree with both of the above comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every on has there own likes in attraction. So many guys take the hump when i reply sayin no attraction

You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea and a lot of people struggle to accept that. "

No-one likes rejection but it shows a person's character whether they can accept it or not. The ones that take the hump aren't worth giving a second thought.

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

Attraction is a must, If yer a hottie I'll be wetter than an otters pocket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every on has there own likes in attraction. So many guys take the hump when i reply sayin no attraction

You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea and a lot of people struggle to accept that.

No-one likes rejection but it shows a person's character whether they can accept it or not. The ones that take the hump aren't worth giving a second thought."

I don’t know why people allow it to bother them so much , literally strangers on the internet. If we aren’t someone’s cup of tea we thank them for their honesty and move on. It’s simple really.

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

There has to be an attraction for me. Plus the kissing has to be good if not its not for me

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Attraction is a must, If yer a hottie I'll be wetter than an otters pocket

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It’s your boundless romanticism that I really fell for, Cunty.

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

"Attraction is a must, If yer a hottie I'll be wetter than an otters pocket

It’s your boundless romanticism that I really fell for, Cunty."

I knew it!!

I'm no just a pretty face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was young and stupid

Now I’m old and stupid - yeah if I I don’t find the package attractive (face, body, personality) but then it would all be a tad hollow.

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By *ighlander81Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

Has to be an attraction it doesn’t work, I don’t get how there are folk that can just go with anyone, we all have what we like and believe it makes things so much better

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By *rGandMrsGGCouple
over a year ago

aberdeen

Definitely has to be an attraction for us, not just on a physical level but also on personality

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By *enni WhiteTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

The attraction is the first spark..

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By *he UnitMan
over a year ago

Paisley

"For me there has to be an attraction to a face for me to want to me or it wont happen. Thats why i very rarely reply if no face is sent. I do feel on here alot of people (mostly go with the any holes a goal)

Whats everyones views"

Absolutely. You have to be turned on, however you define attraction, so it is a must.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Prefer a nice face to be honest. Not all holes are a goal

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There is plenty that would I've had loads of messages asking to meet but when I've said no I get called fat ugly slag so they couldn't have found me attractive in the first place

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Usually Dundee and around

OP what if the attraction is with the kind and the chat? What if physical aspects aren't as important as clicking mentally and being on the same wavelength?

I don't have a type. And a face pic isn't an imperative early on (although it makes spotting someone in a cafe or bar easier when you meet).

Attraction can be in many forms, not just physical appearance.

Some.stunning guys are dicks, and some gorgeous ladies are not mentally stimulating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There has to be an attraction for me. Plus the kissing has to be good if not its not for me "

I agree plus kissing is so important to me too - attraction is a must but bad kissing is a sign everything else won’t be great

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By *ornyarsecplCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I very rarely play (Mr H) typing btw but kissing is a big thing and you've got to know how to kiss!

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

"There has to be an attraction for me. Plus the kissing has to be good if not its not for me

I agree plus kissing is so important to me too - attraction is a must but bad kissing is a sign everything else won’t be great "

Definitely

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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

There definitely has to be an attraction for me. Mentally first which I have been criticised for in the past from guys who can’t understand why that is important to me. I need my mind stimulated. Need to be physically attracted as well. It’s the difference between just going through the motions and being really turned on physically and mentally when you meet I think. Have had disappointments though where you think someone sounds great on paper, then in reality there’s no spark

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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Have to be attracted to the person. They don't have to be the best body wise but they have to have a nice face or something about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of messages a day asking me for sex without seeing my face or having a conversation makes me think attraction isn't all that important for loads of men.

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By *urvyBiUnicornWoman
over a year ago

dundee

Has to be an attraction for me, if I'm not into their face I can't kiss them, and kissing is such an important part of it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, similar to a few others on the thread, there has to be an initial physical attraction.

I also need to feel some sort of chemistry/connection with the person so a good personality is just as important if you want to make good sex great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def an attraction needed wether thats facially or after chatting but when it comes to kissing i can be immed turned off if its not good.

Kissing is a major turn on to me. X

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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

"The amount of messages a day asking me for sex without seeing my face or having a conversation makes me think attraction isn't all that important for loads of men. "

Yeah thats the feeling i get

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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

"Def an attraction needed wether thats facially or after chatting but when it comes to kissing i can be immed turned off if its not good.

Kissing is a major turn on to me. X "

Kissing is a huge part for me too

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Has to be attraction for us. We’ve been called picky

However we are quite relaxed in terms of face pics as face pics can’t fully tell you whether you will be attracted to the person. Personality and intellect can play a big part too.

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By *ineinchtonyMan
over a year ago

Airdrie

"Def an attraction needed wether thats facially or after chatting but when it comes to kissing i can be immed turned off if its not good.

Kissing is a major turn on to me. X

Kissing is a huge part for me too"

Kissing is definitely an underrated thing these days - the effect a good kisser can have is quite something!

I totally agree that attraction is a necessity - there does need to be at least a bit of physical attraction, but a mental attraction/being attracted to someone’s personality and demeanour can have even more of an effect to me

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By *andi_CDTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

attraction in most cases but sometimes for a quickie .......

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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

"Def an attraction needed wether thats facially or after chatting but when it comes to kissing i can be immed turned off if its not good.

Kissing is a major turn on to me. X

Kissing is a huge part for me too

Kissing is definitely an underrated thing these days - the effect a good kisser can have is quite something!

I totally agree that attraction is a necessity - there does need to be at least a bit of physical attraction, but a mental attraction/being attracted to someone’s personality and demeanour can have even more of an effect to me"

Iv met 1 guy a few times who has nearly made me orgasm thru mostly kissing

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By *ineinchtonyMan
over a year ago

Airdrie

"Def an attraction needed wether thats facially or after chatting but when it comes to kissing i can be immed turned off if its not good.

Kissing is a major turn on to me. X

Kissing is a huge part for me too

Kissing is definitely an underrated thing these days - the effect a good kisser can have is quite something!

I totally agree that attraction is a necessity - there does need to be at least a bit of physical attraction, but a mental attraction/being attracted to someone’s personality and demeanour can have even more of an effect to me

Iv met 1 guy a few times who has nearly made me orgasm thru mostly kissing"

That’s a totally perfect example of what a good kisser can do then! It can definitely drive me crazy and get me a different level of turned on

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

Attraction along with personality is dangerous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Def an attraction needed wether thats facially or after chatting but when it comes to kissing i can be immed turned off if its not good.

Kissing is a major turn on to me. X

Kissing is a huge part for me too

Kissing is definitely an underrated thing these days - the effect a good kisser can have is quite something!

I totally agree that attraction is a necessity - there does need to be at least a bit of physical attraction, but a mental attraction/being attracted to someone’s personality and demeanour can have even more of an effect to me

Iv met 1 guy a few times who has nearly made me orgasm thru mostly kissing"

2 guys have done this 2 me x its amazing and erotic and led to some if the best sex i have ever had x

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yep 100% need attraction which can lead to some nasty points of view from some people, but you like what you like. Just couldn’t have sex with someone I didn’t feel the need to rip their clothes off don’t know how people manage it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely need attention but if good kisser and personality then can Definitely lend to great sex as had 1 women Definitely get me going with her kisses

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By *ald EagleMan
over a year ago

Alloa

Simple exchange of face pics if sought would address the question for both sides. Either 1 can then say “sorry, not my type” and both move on without any tantrums

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Just couldn’t have sex with someone I didn’t feel the need to rip their clothes off don’t know how people manage it. "

100% agreed. I mean, I think you’re smokin’ hot but if we met up and there was no spark then nothing’s happening. You need that gut-level feeling of ‘fuck yes, right now’.

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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

"Just couldn’t have sex with someone I didn’t feel the need to rip their clothes off don’t know how people manage it.

100% agreed. I mean, I think you’re smokin’ hot but if we met up and there was no spark then nothing’s happening. You need that gut-level feeling of ‘fuck yes, right now’."

100% agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just couldn’t have sex with someone I didn’t feel the need to rip their clothes off don’t know how people manage it.

100% agreed. I mean, I think you’re smokin’ hot but if we met up and there was no spark then nothing’s happening. You need that gut-level feeling of ‘fuck yes, right now’."

Agreed!

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Kissing is so important - that connection at its deepest between our lips gives a permission for more( or not). Permission and then exploring is everything. The lips and tongue play the most important part. Chris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An attraction is needed. I dont think I could even attempt to get an erection without it. That kiss, or the eyes, that just melt away and have you just wanting. If you have both then, this may sound soppy. But it dose it for me. Throw in a sense of humor and a few laughs. Nothing better. If this is you. What are you waiting for lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely need attention but if good kisser and personality then can Definitely lend to great sex as had 1 women Definitely get me going with her kisses "

WOW she must have been some kisser x i know what u mean as 1 guy i had a connection with sent me wild with kisses and sex was hot and amazing x

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"For me there has to be an attraction to a face for me to want to me or it wont happen. Thats why i very rarely reply if no face is sent. I do feel on here alot of people (mostly go with the any holes a goal)

Whats everyones views"

Erm.. Didn't you intimate that a female glory hole sounds fun? Are you planning to have a sneaky wee peek? Watch no get poked in the eye!

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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

"For me there has to be an attraction to a face for me to want to me or it wont happen. Thats why i very rarely reply if no face is sent. I do feel on here alot of people (mostly go with the any holes a goal)

Whats everyones views

Erm.. Didn't you intimate that a female glory hole sounds fun? Are you planning to have a sneaky wee peek? Watch no get poked in the eye!

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I did say it sounds fun. Didnt say id do it. The fact that some1 is on the door .so no 1 goes in that u dont want to go in is a good idea .

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By *edGlasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

What if you're attracted to the fact you know (or strongly suspect) they're gonna ne a great fuck?

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Attraction plus experience in the BDSM scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely need attention but if good kisser and personality then can Definitely lend to great sex as had 1 women Definitely get me going with her kisses

WOW she must have been some kisser x i know what u mean as 1 guy i had a connection with sent me wild with attention and sex was hot and amazing x "

Definitely was a good kisser and definitely get my attention as there is a definite attraction with her both mind and body as well as the kisses

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By *eptune1Man
over a year ago

The Bay

There has to be a certain amount of attraction initially but good kissing is a must. Personality, confidence and the way you look at and touch each other are all important too

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By *aidbacklover2021Man
over a year ago

perth

I just need to look into their eyes for attraction and if they have a soul.

So many soulless people out in the world these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don’t understand how people with no attention to each other can have any sexual pleasure!

Maybe that’s just me.

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By *eptune1Man
over a year ago

The Bay

I also think it gives us guys in our forties and above an advantage over these young shaggers that we appreciate these things……hopefully haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction to other men or couples is a must for me (Sharon) too. I could never let someone play with me if I was cringing over their looks.

Face pictures missing from messages get deleted and couples blocked if they can not provide a recent face picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impossible to engage with a woman unless we click personality wise and she is,what I think is, physically and facially attractive.

I assume women feel the same about men?

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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow Scotland

"Def an attraction needed wether thats facially or after chatting but when it comes to kissing i can be immed turned off if its not good.

Kissing is a major turn on to me. X

Kissing is a huge part for me too

Kissing is definitely an underrated thing these days - the effect a good kisser can have is quite something!

I totally agree that attraction is a necessity - there does need to be at least a bit of physical attraction, but a mental attraction/being attracted to someone’s personality and demeanour can have even more of an effect to me

Iv met 1 guy a few times who has nearly made me orgasm thru mostly kissing"

Send him my way haha! Sharing is caring

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think for most people there has to be some kind of attraction.

But we're all attracted to different things, be that physically or otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Impossible to engage with a woman unless we click personality wise and she is,what I think is, physically and facially attractive.

I assume women feel the same about men?"

Yup

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’m attracted to Hopey.

That’s how this works, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A physical attraction is the starter for 10 imho. Mental stimulation and personality complete it.

Nothing worse than not being able to have a conversation or sitting at a table with awkward silence and it's all dull as dishwater.

We are all different it's what makes things interesting.

We all have a biological need but the mental need requires satisfaction too

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By *ellowfellowMan
over a year ago

Annan

Definately needs to be an attraction, in the same vain it would put me off if the person i was with did'nt find me attractive its got to be mutual.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

We need attraction or it’s no from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty face is good for blow jobs a good personality is for life…

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By *ighlander888Man
over a year ago

fife

I would assume that most if not all people are the same. The problem is that most profiles don't and won't show their faces, yet they expect to see who is messaging them. A lot of people on here need to get a grip, and show what they are expecting from others.

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I like to have a social meet first if possible as I like to chat.

There has to be an attraction and I'm just not looking for another notch on the bedpost.

I do like kissing and think that it is essential.

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By *eeling hot hot hotCouple
over a year ago

Ardrossan

A lot of couples on here only put pics of female on their profile, we are looking for hot couples we are attracted too not just females and it's hard. Guys in relationships seem to think they don't need to make an effort as they have a female to look good for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point in shagging someone your not attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of couples on here only put pics of female on their profile, we are looking for hot couples we are attracted too not just females and it's hard. Guys in relationships seem to think they don't need to make an effort as they have a female to look good for them

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Think it's more to do with guys feeling self conscious about how they look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vast majority of couples profiles my impression is that the women have more nuts than their partners who are total bottlers. Both should be displaying their “talent”

Before I get slagged off I’ve been on here in couple mode and always a 50/50 split pics wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the point in shagging someone your not attracted to. "

I’d rather have a Tommy Tank

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By *rNiceGuy1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Attraction is a must

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"What's the point in shagging someone your not attracted to. "

Because no one you fancy will shag you (not you personally just generally).

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

You know… I’m a handsome man, and even ladies who some might consider not their type or “unattractive” … actually give me the best sex because the banter outweighs attraction and you don’t notice the little things. It’s why I like to believe I am not shallow like the OP here

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

What's shallow about wanting tae be attracted tae someone I'm confused more a preference really and having self respect imo

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

"What's shallow about wanting tae be attracted tae someone I'm confused more a preference really and having self respect imo"

Not giving people a chance based on their looks. I think it’s pretty narrow minded but I understand everyone is different. Just my opinion Mr hero

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"What's shallow about wanting tae be attracted tae someone I'm confused more a preference really and having self respect imo"

Self respect??? Yeah I know, a good looking guy like yourself can pick and choose. No mingers for you eh?

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

OK personality is why friends exist though everyone has there preferences but my opinion is you lack self respect for yourself if you'll sleep with someone your not attracted to just due to being able to laugh and talk wasn't being a hero doing what you did yourself personally and voiced my opinion

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

I am also a hero Jamie. Embrace it

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Bro did I say I was good looking ? Nope!! Thing is I just show myself as am at a age I don't care and saves the whole having to exchange a face pic straight up at least a lady can see if there's no attraction and skip me by saves us both time rather than trying to chat/laugh a lass into bed I hope if she don't find me attractive well we already got a connection

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Each to there own pal least you don't lack self confidence so fair play tae you bud

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

"Bro did I say I was good looking ? Nope!! Thing is I just show myself as am at a age I don't care and saves the whole having to exchange a face pic straight up at least a lady can see if there's no attraction and skip me by saves us both time rather than trying to chat/laugh a lass into bed I hope if she don't find me attractive well we already got a connection "

Well you certainly won’t laugh them into like that Mr Serious

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Thanks for your insight I'll take it on board heck I might even change profile pic tae ny tadger that'll gee them a laugh at least

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

"Each to there own pal least you don't lack self confidence so fair play tae you bud "

I’m the most sexiest guy here according to me but if we go with the majority of the site I would be diagnosed with delusions of grandeur

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

That’s more like it Jamie.

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"Bro did I say I was good looking ? Nope!! Thing is I just show myself as am at a age I don't care and saves the whole having to exchange a face pic straight up at least a lady can see if there's no attraction and skip me by saves us both time rather than trying to chat/laugh a lass into bed I hope if she don't find me attractive well we already got a connection "

My guess is what you consider attractive will vary on how long it has been since you got your end away. Its a good strategy though not to sound too desperate the forum.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Tbh not really pal left a lassies house a few weeks back as wasnt attracted I was nice about like made the old got be somewhere excuse and that was me quite a while without sex let's say so for me personally it don't vary good theory but

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"Tbh not really pal left a lassies house a few weeks back as wasnt attracted I was nice about like made the old got be somewhere excuse and that was me quite a while without sex let's say so for me personally it don't vary good theory but "

So sticking to the strategy then. Best of luck.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Ah the self respect strategy oh and BTW still friends with said person as tbh we did have a laugh just wasn't attracted in that way filters online have a lot tae answer for

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By *uiet_69Man
over a year ago

Near

You could have at least went down on her.

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By *othianGuy41Man
over a year ago

Eureka

There has to be some kinda attraction, but personality is more important than looks for me. met some lovely people on here, so personality, banter & humour comes first. X

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By *clayairMan
over a year ago

central west

Many years ago missed opportunity during a holiday. Wish I had went for it

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By *idas ManMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I’ve been told a few times on here that I’m not their cup of tea and that’s fine. You can’t be attracted to everyone!

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By *he couple nextdoorCouple
over a year ago

grangemouth

Yes for us similar type of people

And most people have a preference

Shape size age etc

I see PPL with 100s of meets

It's not for me/us

Shag anything that moves

No thanks

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

"Yes for us similar type of people

And most people have a preference

Shape size age etc

I see PPL with 100s of meets

It's not for me/us

Shag anything that moves

No thanks "

Just because people have loads veris doesn't mean they just shag anything that moves, sounds a bit neive. I'm sure most will have standards and if alot of people meet those standards then why shouldn't they. Life's too short not to enjoy meeting people from all walks of life and experience all sorts of fuckery and of course since its swinging that can includes loads veris from socialising also

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By *implyJayGeeMan
over a year ago

Garthamlock

100% got to be a spark.

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"Yes for us similar type of people

And most people have a preference

Shape size age etc

I see PPL with 100s of meets

It's not for me/us

Shag anything that moves

No thanks

Just because people have loads veris doesn't mean they just shag anything that moves, sounds a bit neive. I'm sure most will have standards and if alot of people meet those standards then why shouldn't they. Life's too short not to enjoy meeting people from all walks of life and experience all sorts of fuckery and of course since its swinging that can includes loads veris from socialising also

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Absolutely. I would have thought those with loads of veris would be those in most demand??? I think some may be a little jealous of the attention others get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction however we get huge numbers telling us they want to meet us before even knowing what we look like, it’s pretty off putting tbh.

Could never want to meet someone before knowing if we’re attracted but it’s just the way it is here I guess

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By *olly AngelWoman
over a year ago

callander

I NEED attraction otherwise no point be as well with my vibrator

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By *otwifedundeeWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Attraction is a must for me. Got to fancy them, got to have that banter, chat and connection. If none of that then I’ll stick with my wand lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think once you get to know each other looks don't matter

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By *ayne Morpheus WestMan
over a year ago

Black County

There was a time I’d attend a certain popular club and see rows of bodies that lived by that, “Any holes a goal” mantra like it was the 11th commandment.

Frankly, more often than not it looked like pigs fighting each other shoulder to shoulder at a troth.

Then… Literally, moments later. They couldn’t even look the woman in the face, because (with respect) the level of attraction was in the basement…

It’s how “some” feel they have to play it.

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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago

lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian

I think alot of people see the site as an "easy"sex site. Dont have to make an effort dont have to show face treat women like esscor×× then take the huff when women say no. For me its like kinky tinder. No like no lighty .i want attraction i want chemistry i want the guy woman or couple to be attracted to me i want to feel wanted sexually. .thats alot of i wants but sex is fun naughty dirty kinky and i want to share that experience with people who WANT to share it with me not people who just want to use abuse and fill a hole

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"There was a time I’d attend a certain popular club and see rows of bodies that lived by that, “Any holes a goal” mantra like it was the 11th commandment.

Frankly, more often than not it looked like pigs fighting each other shoulder to shoulder at a troth.

Then… Literally, moments later. They couldn’t even look the woman in the face, because (with respect) the level of attraction was in the basement…

It’s how “some” feel they have to play it."

There's a lot of woman and couples that go to clubs and spend the evening picking guys, minimal chat , and off they go. They are not interested in chatting after , they are on to the next guy..

Not much difference really ...

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"There was a time I’d attend a certain popular club and see rows of bodies that lived by that, “Any holes a goal” mantra like it was the 11th commandment.

Frankly, more often than not it looked like pigs fighting each other shoulder to shoulder at a troth.

Then… Literally, moments later. They couldn’t even look the woman in the face, because (with respect) the level of attraction was in the basement…

It’s how “some” feel they have to play it."

Haven’t been to a club but you’re really selling the whole ‘club experience’ to us with your vivid description.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"Attraction is a must for me. Got to fancy them, got to have that banter, chat and connection. If none of that then I’ll stick with my wand lol"

I think I will change my name to Wand65.

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By *otrock-cplCouple
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Attraction 100% and when having a social being able to hold a good conversation,banter along with great personal hygiene an absolute must X

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"There was a time I’d attend a certain popular club and see rows of bodies that lived by that, “Any holes a goal” mantra like it was the 11th commandment.

Frankly, more often than not it looked like pigs fighting each other shoulder to shoulder at a troth.

Then… Literally, moments later. They couldn’t even look the woman in the face, because (with respect) the level of attraction was in the basement…

It’s how “some” feel they have to play it."

Are you telling me now that orgies are somehow sub moral, the participants are pigs and only your sort of sex is acceptable? Mt guess is you probably weren't invited to join in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me there has to be an attraction to a face for me to want to me or it wont happen. Thats why i very rarely reply if no face is sent. I do feel on here alot of people (mostly go with the any holes a goal)

Whats everyones views"

Personally I gave up that kind of carry on years ago. Getting people just to meet up in the first place is the hardest battle but if I meet up and the attraction is non existent then I’ll be polite thank them and wish them all the best.

Some of us can control ourselves but getting a good seeing to with like minded is great

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By *imtoteaseMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Plus some travel)

Attraction definitely. I just couldn’t have a meet where I didn’t fancy the person I was meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is a must. That includes their personality too

Couldn’t imagine having sex with someone I didn’t fancy

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

Has to be an attraction, the look in their eyes the wanting of each other . Anticipation of the next move ,the gentle caress kiss on the cheek whisper in the ear .

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By *aucySue52Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

100% in agreement which is why i d always have a social first to see if we click and fancy each other it’s more than any hole will do people should go to other sites for that in my view

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

"100% in agreement which is why i d always have a social first to see if we click and fancy each other it’s more than any hole will do people should go to other sites for that in my view "

100% agree

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By *interspiceWoman
over a year ago

Alloa

"There has to be an attraction for me. Plus the kissing has to be good if not its not for me "

Exactly that x

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow (for now)

Has to be some sort of spark...

No spark, no sexual lighting!

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By *imtoteaseMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Plus some travel)

"There has to be an attraction for me. Plus the kissing has to be good if not its not for me

Exactly that x"

Yes kissing is really important!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely needs to be a physical attraction and even more past that! Personality can be attractive or even unattractive in some cases.. if even the most beautiful person has an ugly personality then this can then make this person physically unattractive too if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be an initial attraction to spark some interest , hopefully the personality is just as attractive

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