FabSwingers.com forum: What catches your attention

By *uzzy-Logic OP Man
over a year ago

Fochabers

Currently seems to be a couple of posts about what would turn you off from a profile/pictures.

How about a positive spin, what grabs your attention about a profile and makes you look twice

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By *uzzy-Logic OP Man
over a year ago

Fochabers

For me great pictures; ones where they have clearly taken some time and out thought into the shot, not everyone has the knowledge or skill to take amazing artistic pictures but clear with clean background and nice lighting is something that anyone can do.

A well written bio.

Tell me about yourselves,

what you are looking for,

what if any kinks you have,

what you aren't into is important too; if you don't like beards then I won't message etc,

Something funny will alway catch me eye.

Verifications, I always take social veris as a good sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've pretty much summed it up. Apart from the beard bit, I don't have a beard. Yet.

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther

All of above think u have it covered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Individuality.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Pics are always important

So if the profile content interests me then il look at the pics .

A guy in a suit will always have my interest

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By *uzzy-Logic OP Man
over a year ago

Fochabers

"Pics are always important

So if the profile content interests me then il look at the pics .

A guy in a suit will always have my interest

Sudden influx of guys uploading suit pictures

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Pics are always important

So if the profile content interests me then il look at the pics .

A guy in a suit will always have my interest

Sudden influx of guys uploading suit pictures"

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"You've pretty much summed it up. Apart from the beard bit, I don't have a beard. Yet. "

I’ll be your beard, Squigs.

No, wait. That’s not what you meant at all.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I find new people from the local updates feed or from here in the forums.

So to catch my attention either takes a great photo (like Mr Logic said up there, I notice when a photo has obviously been thought about and isn’t just a quick selfie) or it takes good writing.

And by good writing I don’t mean fucking Shakespeare … I just like it when someone’s personality comes through in how they say things. Personality is sexy.

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By *attMonroMan
over a year ago

NE and Central Belt

Pencil skirt and tight blouse. Ooft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tattoo's will stop me in my tracks

A good chiselled jawline is a massive turn on for me as well as sexy eyes

Someone that's got some good patter and doesnae take the place too seriously

Oh and obliques !!!

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

Muscles

Tattoos

Abs

A good bio

Good pics

Blonde or dark hair

Stubble (on the face

)

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By *olfblondeWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

height that starts with 6

meat

humble..ness?? being unassuming?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Right, that’s it. I’m away to buy some platform shoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good pics

Descriptive non generic bio

First messages that are friendly and show a bit of character

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By *enni WhiteTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

6 pack and that V to the groin. Nothing sexier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man sharply dressed in a suit or a lady with short skirt n loosely buttoned blouse..revealing a little cleavage.

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Big bulge in tight boxers does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face pic can determine right away if I'm interested or not.

But.if no face pics..

Pictures that are tasteful or funny and a wee bit about you and what your looking for.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

A cheeky smile and a naughty glint in her eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great legs, figure, smile and eyes. The eyes have it. Humour and approachable. If too serious,nope.

And a decent bio but not too long. Some on here are like War and Peace.

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Good pics, thought out bio and a nice ass!

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

When a woman makes a comment of something the interests me. Not sexual.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"Pics are always important

So if the profile content interests me then il look at the pics .

A guy in a suit will always have my interest

Ooo yes to suit

I think most things have been covered for me

if they’ve been posting in the forums too and seem fun/nice from there that makes me look and be intrigued by their profile I think too

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By *uzzy-Logic OP Man
over a year ago

Fochabers

"Pics are always important

So if the profile content interests me then il look at the pics .

A guy in a suit will always have my interest

Ooo yes to suit

I think most things have been covered for me

if they’ve been posting in the forums too and seem fun/nice from there that makes me look and be intrigued by their profile I think too "

There you go gents another reason to get those suit shots up on your profile

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"There you go gents another reason to get those suit shots up on your profile "

In my experience taking the suit off can be even more popular. Unbuttoning the shirt, unbuckling the belt, and so on …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Currently seems to be a couple of posts about what would turn you off from a profile/pictures.

How about a positive spin, what grabs your attention about a profile and makes you look twice"

Effort made within the main body of the profile and well thought out photos that are unique.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"There you go gents another reason to get those suit shots up on your profile

In my experience taking the suit off can be even more popular. Unbuttoning the shirt, unbuckling the belt, and so on …"

Good idea.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Sheer blouse, white lace bra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it just has to be a genuune someone, who doesn't take Fab serious no matter what Age, Body type' Education, Colour etc.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"There you go gents another reason to get those suit shots up on your profile

In my experience taking the suit off can be even more popular. Unbuttoning the shirt, unbuckling the belt, and so on …"

Ooooo yes all those sexy things

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

No idea what you lot are on about. I do my best to make my profile as boring and generic as possible. Only friends get the slightly better stuff.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"There you go gents another reason to get those suit shots up on your profile

In my experience taking the suit off can be even more popular. Unbuttoning the shirt, unbuckling the belt, and so on …"
dragging them onto the bed by their tie

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"There you go gents another reason to get those suit shots up on your profile

In my experience taking the suit off can be even more popular. Unbuttoning the shirt, unbuckling the belt, and so on …dragging them onto the bed by their tie

What if he isn't wearing a tie!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"There you go gents another reason to get those suit shots up on your profile

In my experience taking the suit off can be even more popular. Unbuttoning the shirt, unbuckling the belt, and so on …dragging them onto the bed by their tie

What if he isn't wearing a tie!

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A suit with no tie ! … behave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indication of a relaxed personality and a good sense of humour makes me interested… plus some outrageously sexy pics of course.

Weddings/funerals aside, do people still wear suits!?

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By *ink GerberaWoman
over a year ago

West Lothian

Someone who can string a sentence or two together

A nice pair of thighs

A strong beard

Tattoos

Someone who can read and show me that they've taken a second to read my profile

Well groomed/dressed well

Puts a bit of thought into the background of their photos

When I can see a bit of personality

Leaves something to the imagination!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Indication of a relaxed personality and a good sense of humour makes me interested… plus some outrageously sexy pics of course.

Weddings/funerals aside, do people still wear suits!?

"
behave of course they do lol

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By *assNGuyCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Indication of a relaxed personality and a good sense of humour makes me interested… plus some outrageously sexy pics of course.

Weddings/funerals aside, do people still wear suits!?

All to often for me with tie included but sometimes it just nice to get the tie off ASAP

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By *ittlemissbella69Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"There you go gents another reason to get those suit shots up on your profile

In my experience taking the suit off can be even more popular. Unbuttoning the shirt, unbuckling the belt, and so on …"

Exactly! Especially a white shirt with sleeves rolled up, you'll definitely have my attention

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"There you go gents another reason to get those suit shots up on your profile

In my experience taking the suit off can be even more popular. Unbuttoning the shirt, unbuckling the belt, and so on …

Exactly! Especially a white shirt with sleeves rolled up, you'll definitely have my attention

I need sleeve rolling lessons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There you go gents another reason to get those suit shots up on your profile

In my experience taking the suit off can be even more popular. Unbuttoning the shirt, unbuckling the belt, and so on …

Exactly! Especially a white shirt with sleeves rolled up, you'll definitely have my attention

I need sleeve rolling lessons.

I thought you were circumcised?

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"There you go gents another reason to get those suit shots up on your profile

In my experience taking the suit off can be even more popular. Unbuttoning the shirt, unbuckling the belt, and so on …

Exactly! Especially a white shirt with sleeves rolled up, you'll definitely have my attention

I need sleeve rolling lessons.

I thought you were circumcised?"

Not that sleeve.

Oh and don't be coy, you never have been in the past, you know fine well I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Currently seems to be a couple of posts about what would turn you off from a profile/pictures.

How about a positive spin, what grabs your attention about a profile and makes you look twice"

When there’s a profile pic and some public pics, that’s a good start, and some effort made on the bio that give you an indication of what the person/people are like. We have a sense of humour so anyone who seems on our wavelength will catch our eye

Mrs

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By *onosyllabikMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Currently seems to be a couple of posts about what would turn you off from a profile/pictures.

How about a positive spin, what grabs your attention about a profile and makes you look twice"

A good grasp of the English language, tattoos, any mention of kink.

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By *onosyllabikMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Indication of a relaxed personality and a good sense of humour makes me interested… plus some outrageously sexy pics of course.

Weddings/funerals aside, do people still wear suits!?

Aye, I wear one most days for work. Tend not to wear a tie as often these days mind you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice something to read. I do read things. Hard to believe I know.

Picture wise, legs in stockings, cleverness, a figure shot, a curvy rear. Lingerie.

I'm not bothered about nudity. Something that teases and attracts me to want to message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I might have to get a suit

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"I think I might have to get a suit

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Exactly! Especially a white shirt with sleeves rolled up, you'll definitely have my attention

I can confirm this is 100% true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I look to see if a girl is interested in meeting MM couples. I love a greedy, open minded girl who likes MMF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tatoos

Muscles

Tall as only 4ft 11

Honest great personality

Striking bio and knows what he's after

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