FabSwingers.com forum: Hotlists

By *lexanderSupertramp OP Man
over a year ago

Gourock

I was wondering how many people on your hotlists do you actually talk to regularly?

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

None. If I speak to them regularly, they'll be on the friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 1% probably

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By *lexanderSupertramp OP Man
over a year ago

Gourock

"None. If I speak to them regularly, they'll be on the friends list

Lucky them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None on my hotlist x if i wanted to chat or meet would be on friends list x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve messaged many on my hotlist. And that’s pretty much where the story ends lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What? We're meant to message them!??

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By *lexanderSupertramp OP Man
over a year ago

Gourock

"I’ve messaged many on my hotlist. And that’s pretty much where the story ends lmao

I think we've all felt that pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to them? Why do i want to get myself blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s just used for..perving from afar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talk to them? Why do i want to get myself blocked lol "

Lol seems forums have that effect too lol

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By *lexanderSupertramp OP Man
over a year ago

Gourock

"That’s just used for..perving from afar "

Or a wish list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s just used for..perving from afar

Or a wish list

Or a wishful thinking list

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By *hebirdsMan
over a year ago

Haddington

I talk to a few.

I suspect very few listen

Even fewer ever reply.

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By *lexanderSupertramp OP Man
over a year ago

Gourock

"That’s just used for..perving from afar

Or a wish list

Or a wishful thinking list

Probably closer to the truth

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I talk to se on my Hotlist but they are also on my friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty, my hotlist is a list that I intend on messaging that I never ever get around to messaging!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I don’t have one

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By *lexanderSupertramp OP Man
over a year ago

Gourock

"I don’t have one "

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By *lexanderSupertramp OP Man
over a year ago

Gourock

"I don’t have one "

I'm sure you're on a few though

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

Mine is extensive, to the point of embarrassment. Alot who I intend on messaging when the time is right and alot who are merely to perv on

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By *ungislanderMan
over a year ago

Stornoway

Some, the others are the ones who never replied, but there profile is to good not to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use mine nearly enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None.

Just perv from afar.

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By *larkandlois14Couple
over a year ago

Clydebank

None. We just use ours to keep an eye on events and club nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None on mine just now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None. We just use ours to keep an eye on events and club nights"

Yes this is really all I use it for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody on it just now,I'll start taking names though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have a hot list, so none. Do chat with some nice couple's though, most on friends list.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"That’s just used for..perving from afar "

This is the way.

Although … some people only end up on my hotlist after we’ve chatted. So I guess I’m disagreeing with myself already. D’oh.

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By *iddyinfirmMan
over a year ago

Great Glen

Yes, I totally agree. Hotlist is for ‘interesting’ friends are ‘interested’!

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By *iddyinfirmMan
over a year ago

Great Glen

"None. If I speak to them regularly, they'll be on the friends list

Sorry, this!

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

None. For me, 'hot list' is an abbreviation of 'too hot for me list'. I admire from afar.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"None. For me, 'hot list' is an abbreviation of 'too hot for me list'. I admire from afar.

I think it is the other way around. You are to hot for them...

Amelia

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I talk to some of the folk on my hotlist, but the list itelf is very few people that I find hot or fancy.

It's mostly made up of folk not local that I have had a laugh at their statuses in the past, Club accounts and folk that I've not met yet, so feel awkward adding them as a friend.

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotlist? Ahhhh you mean the want list

Messages exchanged intermittently, progress made 0%

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Now and again but in most cases if we’re consistently chatting they’re on my friends list

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’ve been having a lovely chat with one of the superstars on my hotlist this morning. I guess I’m just lucky.

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

My hot list is a wish list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is a way too hot for me/perv list. Wouldn't know what to do if one actually spoke to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep very few and have conversations with even less. Should make more an effort tbh

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

I have few on it.

I admire them from afar as they are hot, msssaged one or two before.

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By *lexanderSupertramp OP Man
over a year ago

Gourock

"I’ve been having a lovely chat with one of the superstars on my hotlist this morning. I guess I’m just lucky.

Funnily enough so have I today

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

"I’ve been having a lovely chat with one of the superstars on my hotlist this morning. I guess I’m just lucky.

Funnily enough so have I today

Must be a good day to message your hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame folk automatically think their hotlist are too hot to message.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"It's a shame folk automatically think their hotlist are too hot to message.

That's what I'm starting to think.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"It's a shame folk automatically think their hotlist are too hot to message.

A clear case of ‘out of my league’ syndrome. Which is nonsense. There’s no such thing.

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

"It's a shame folk automatically think their hotlist are too hot to message.

That's what I'm starting to think.

Some are and sometimes you can admire them.

Others I might not fit what they are looking for, not meet their range among other things.

However they can still be admired.

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"It's a shame folk automatically think their hotlist are too hot to message.

Probably comes from natural shyness or a lack of confidence.

It's shyness and most women not being into TV's that stops me messaging

Mandy

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Mine is a mix of who's hot and a few who's not.

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By *ANDA!Man
over a year ago

DUMFRIES

I don't speak to any on my hotlist. They're on there because I like their content

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I use my hotlist as a shortcut to find people so they may also be friends. Yes, I meet and chat to those on my hot list quite often.

At least one person on this post is on my hotlist

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By *agatoXXXMan
over a year ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

"My hot list is a wish list

Anyone on my hotlist would be from Wish.

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By *agatoXXXMan
over a year ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

I don't have a hotlist/hitlist, but there is someone on this thread who would be, if I did. The hotlist, that is.

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By *un-shineWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Iv got loads on my hotlist for various reasons and a few are on this thread

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"… a few are on this thread

Scotland’s a small place. Especially on Fab.

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By *ockboy77Man
over a year ago

Angus, Glasgow

Would love to be someone’s hotlist ??

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