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"So with the opening of After Dark on Sat. What club would you say is best and why? After Dark or Cjs? I’ve never been to cjs but once attended after 8 which I thought was like stepping in to something from the 80s… I didn’t like it at all. However, credit to the guys for making after dark look fantastic and listened to a lot of people on what they’ed want to have in a club. " Oh dear opening a can of worms here aren’t you. I haven’t been to CJs and likely never will. As yet I haven’t been to After Dark. But I have been to After 8 as it were. It was ok. Sometimes it was good, sometimes it was quiet. But on the whole I expect each club will have its pros and cons. And hopefully they will be as individual to each other as people are on here and in daily life. | |||
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"Not trying to open a can of worms as you put it. I’m Very curious as to what people think is best. That’s all " By saying “which one is best” OK ….. | |||
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"Not trying to open a can of worms as you put it. I’m Very curious as to what people think is best. That’s all By saying “which one is best” OK ….." Have you not hit something better to do that be annoying? Every post I see that you comment on, you’re trying to piss someone off. Why don’t you do one? | |||
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"Someone recently had their wallet go missing in cjs, something to consider." Someone recently got their face punched in suchiehall St you going to avoid that now | |||
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"Someone recently had their wallet go missing in cjs, something to consider." And the same person could go to another club and do the same... | |||
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"Not trying to open a can of worms as you put it. I’m Very curious as to what people think is best. That’s all By saying “which one is best” OK ….. Have you not hit something better to do that be annoying? Every post I see that you comment on, you’re trying to piss someone off. Why don’t you do one? " Haven’t been on all fucking weekend, what’s your problem? You asked what club is the best, I’m not the only one to say what I did, different clubs for different people, what’s the issue? Jeez | |||
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"Not trying to open a can of worms as you put it. I’m Very curious as to what people think is best. That’s all By saying “which one is best” OK ….. Have you not hit something better to do that be annoying? Every post I see that you comment on, you’re trying to piss someone off. Why don’t you do one? Haven’t been on all fucking weekend, what’s your problem? You asked what club is the best, I’m not the only one to say what I did, different clubs for different people, what’s the issue? Jeez" WOW!!! Calm down old yin … You were the one that said I was opening a can of worms and I never said anything about you being on over the weekend… Fantastic attitude btw… keep the good work up! | |||
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"Why not go to both clubs and make up your own mind OP? Everyone’s opinions are different and what one person likes in a club someone else won’t like. " I agree. I’m just looking for opinions. There’s no right or wrong here | |||
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"Why not go to both clubs and make up your own mind OP? Everyone’s opinions are different and what one person likes in a club someone else won’t like. I agree. I’m just looking for opinions. There’s no right or wrong here " Well it might be worth waiting a few months once more folk have been it’s probably a bit premature of you | |||
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"Why not go to both clubs and make up your own mind OP? Everyone’s opinions are different and what one person likes in a club someone else won’t like. I agree. I’m just looking for opinions. There’s no right or wrong here Well it might be worth waiting a few months once more folk have been it’s probably a bit premature of you " No really. I’m sure the people who have attended have an opinion of the place | |||
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" No really. I’m sure the people who have attended have an opinion of the place " People have given you their opinion, one club isn't better than the other, it's completely down to preference, your expectation (to some degree) and what YOU look for in a club... both are large, well equipped and well run, so try both and you'll know what you prefer. Most people have/will attend both depending on theme/night... | |||
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"The only club I go to is cjs , I like the relaxed atmosphere and how at ease cj makes you feel , the idea of being made to or put under pressure to stoat about in your underwear or with a towel wrapped around you , well I can think of nothing worse , no one should be made to do something they don't want to do , although I haven't been to after dark nor when it was after eight but I have heard of multiple reviews from people I know that have all stated this is the case on dress down nights , I have however been to cjs and never been under pressure to do anything I don't want to , cj and her staff go out their way to make you feel welcome that's why I'll always return again and again x" I don't particularly like the lingerie night either, as I prefer to stay clothed in public areas, however, it's one night a month and the club is open 3 days a week, so if it's not your bag, avoid that night | |||
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"The only club I go to is cjs , I like the relaxed atmosphere and how at ease cj makes you feel , the idea of being made to or put under pressure to stoat about in your underwear or with a towel wrapped around you , well I can think of nothing worse , no one should be made to do something they don't want to do , although I haven't been to after dark nor when it was after eight but I have heard of multiple reviews from people I know that have all stated this is the case on dress down nights , I have however been to cjs and never been under pressure to do anything I don't want to , cj and her staff go out their way to make you feel welcome that's why I'll always return again and again x I don't particularly like the lingerie night either, as I prefer to stay clothed in public areas, however, it's one night a month and the club is open 3 days a week, so if it's not your bag, avoid that night " I find this quite interesting. I've not been to a club yet, but have been reading up on a few of them within a few hours drive (so that includes some of the northern England clubs as well as CJs and AfterDark). I actually like the idea of the "dress down once you go upstairs" or "dress down after 10pm", sorta thing. I feel it'd take some of the pressure off / take some of the awkwardness away, cause everyone has their wobbly bits out? Some of the club's down south appear to have that rule every night. So if it's just one night a month at AfterDark that seems easy enough to avoid if it's not your thing. But also feel like that's maybe the night I'd opt for for my first trip. | |||
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"Why hasn't the New club in ( Dundee been mentioned) just i noticed in this forum that it was have meant to have opened same wkend as Afterdark but havent heard any people reveiwing it or is it just a Hoax that there is a new 1 in Dundee. Another thing why does the Scottish forum think they hold the right to post in said forum about pre social drinks, who's going to which Club when there is a club section for that. I mind bk in the day over 7yrs ago people on the Scottish forum wanted a section on the site so they could post about drinks and going to a club , either CJ's, After 8, The Club ( Aberdeen) etc but i still see every day , every week, every year same thing . Now i know this is going to piss people off and i Get it but thats what a fooking forum is about Expressing one's view " There's a simple fix to that scroll on past don't bother reading it no one is forcing you to .. its a public forum set up so any member can post whatever the choose . | |||
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"The only club I go to is cjs , I like the relaxed atmosphere and how at ease cj makes you feel , the idea of being made to or put under pressure to stoat about in your underwear or with a towel wrapped around you , well I can think of nothing worse , no one should be made to do something they don't want to do , although I haven't been to after dark nor when it was after eight but I have heard of multiple reviews from people I know that have all stated this is the case on dress down nights , I have however been to cjs and never been under pressure to do anything I don't want to , cj and her staff go out their way to make you feel welcome that's why I'll always return again and again x I don't particularly like the lingerie night either, as I prefer to stay clothed in public areas, however, it's one night a month and the club is open 3 days a week, so if it's not your bag, avoid that night " I get that not saying it wrong but it has put me off attending .. rightly or wrongly .. so I'll just stick to cjs where I know where I am and I know partial nudity isn't enforced . | |||
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"Why hasn't the New club in ( Dundee been mentioned) just i noticed in this forum that it was have meant to have opened same wkend as Afterdark but havent heard any people reveiwing it or is it just a Hoax that there is a new 1 in Dundee. Another thing why does the Scottish forum think they hold the right to post in said forum about pre social drinks, who's going to which Club when there is a club section for that. I mind bk in the day over 7yrs ago people on the Scottish forum wanted a section on the site so they could post about drinks and going to a club , either CJ's, After 8, The Club ( Aberdeen) etc but i still see every day , every week, every year same thing . Now i know this is going to piss people off and i Get it but thats what a fooking forum is about Expressing one's view " | |||
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"Why hasn't the New club in ( Dundee been mentioned) just i noticed in this forum that it was have meant to have opened same wkend as Afterdark but havent heard any people reveiwing it or is it just a Hoax that there is a new 1 in Dundee. Another thing why does the Scottish forum think they hold the right to post in said forum about pre social drinks, who's going to which Club when there is a club section for that. I mind bk in the day over 7yrs ago people on the Scottish forum wanted a section on the site so they could post about drinks and going to a club , either CJ's, After 8, The Club ( Aberdeen) etc but i still see every day , every week, every year same thing . Now i know this is going to piss people off and i Get it but thats what a fooking forum is about Expressing one's view There's a simple fix to that scroll on past don't bother reading it no one is forcing you to .. its a public forum set up so any member can post whatever the choose . " Right back at you . | |||
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"Why hasn't the New club in ( Dundee been mentioned) just i noticed in this forum that it was have meant to have opened same wkend as Afterdark but havent heard any people reveiwing it or is it just a Hoax that there is a new 1 in Dundee. Another thing why does the Scottish forum think they hold the right to post in said forum about pre social drinks, who's going to which Club when there is a club section for that. I mind bk in the day over 7yrs ago people on the Scottish forum wanted a section on the site so they could post about drinks and going to a club , either CJ's, After 8, The Club ( Aberdeen) etc but i still see every day , every week, every year same thing . Now i know this is going to piss people off and i Get it but thats what a fooking forum is about Expressing one's view There's a simple fix to that scroll on past don't bother reading it no one is forcing you to .. its a public forum set up so any member can post whatever the choose . Right back at you . " im no the one moaning about folk posting about clubs | |||
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"So been following this post today that has grown arms and legs. The forum no matter what is somewhere that am individual can express their own views and if anyone wishe can join discussion with their own views. My opinion in this post will no doubt not be liked by the majority on this forum page pr on this thread. But its my opinion. Any clubs outwith central belt dont exist in the eyes of many. Aberdeen Club years agp when on the go hardly mentioned. Club Becchus(Dundee) now opened and not mentioned. After Dark just opened and CJs seem to be the only 2 clubs to figure on the Scotland Forum Site. There is more out there. As for the continuous posts in Scotland forum about pre drinks etc i have no issue as such but think there should be sub heading for scottish Clubs to take the majority of these posts. Years ago members of fab in Scotland demanded Scotland have their own Sub Forum cause they felt they were getting lost in the general threads. So it was given. The same thing happening now all Scotland seems to be is about Clubs. In this forum i am sorry but there is a "Clique". If anyone outside this "Clique" starts a thread tbeir is very little or no interaction and if there is the "clique" soon shut it down by comments to the OP of the post. I have attended CJs and socials and the "Clique" is certainly in attendance. There is far too much bitchiness on this Scotland Forum and i know i will be told where to go by so many of u here but this is my opinion on a Forum on a site i am a member of. So i will leave this and lets hope its accepeted the way its written as my personal opinion. Now await the fireworks x Happy Fabbing one and all x " Very brave of you to say this but you're right. Still no fireworks though. I'm pleasantly surprised. Normally there would have been some comments. Thinking maybe the silence says it all | |||
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"Is the forum clique the same as the CJs clique? I've never attended the club but have been accused of being in the Forum clique even though I only chat regularly to a handful of folk. " Can't possibly say on the open forum | |||
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"Is the forum clique the same as the CJs clique? I've never attended the club but have been accused of being in the Forum clique even though I only chat regularly to a handful of folk. " Im the same as you and only chat to a select few yet I too have been tarred by the same clique brush,mostly by folks who know absolutely nothing about me yet they seem to think they know all | |||
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"No need to mention names. I wasnt writing post to name anyone in particular. Everyone has their own ideas of who is in clique and who is not. I have tried to pm a couple of u to respond to ur comments privately but unable to due to filters. My post in this forum was my opinion and if anyone agrees or disagrees then i respect that. I have been in firing line in person at socials, knowing stares in club and sarcastic comments on here if i start or comment on posts. But i am an adult and my big girl pants protect my ass. Keep smiling its the best way. X " I didn’t take your comment personally but just commenting how some of us have had the clique card thrown at us a few times by people who have never even met us lol | |||
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"No need to mention names. I wasnt writing post to name anyone in particular. Everyone has their own ideas of who is in clique and who is not. I have tried to pm a couple of u to respond to ur comments privately but unable to due to filters. My post in this forum was my opinion and if anyone agrees or disagrees then i respect that. I have been in firing line in person at socials, knowing stares in club and sarcastic comments on here if i start or comment on posts. But i am an adult and my big girl pants protect my ass. Keep smiling its the best way. X " Fair enough. Big cheesers fae me! | |||
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"No need to mention names. I wasnt writing post to name anyone in particular. Everyone has their own ideas of who is in clique and who is not. I have tried to pm a couple of u to respond to ur comments privately but unable to due to filters. My post in this forum was my opinion and if anyone agrees or disagrees then i respect that. I have been in firing line in person at socials, knowing stares in club and sarcastic comments on here if i start or comment on posts. But i am an adult and my big girl pants protect my ass. Keep smiling its the best way. X I didn’t take your comment personally but just commenting how some of us have had the clique card thrown at us a few times by people who have never even met us lol " I've never had the clique card thrown at me but have been "jumped" on by certain people on here for absolutely no reason whatsoever. Like you said yourself, they've never even met me. Go figure! | |||
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"Why hasn't the New club in ( Dundee been mentioned) just i noticed in this forum that it was have meant to have opened same wkend as Afterdark but havent heard any people reveiwing it or is it just a Hoax that there is a new 1 in Dundee. Another thing why does the Scottish forum think they hold the right to post in said forum about pre social drinks, who's going to which Club when there is a club section for that. I mind bk in the day over 7yrs ago people on the Scottish forum wanted a section on the site so they could post about drinks and going to a club , either CJ's, After 8, The Club ( Aberdeen) etc but i still see every day , every week, every year same thing . Now i know this is going to piss people off and i Get it but thats what a fooking forum is about Expressing one's view There's a simple fix to that scroll on past don't bother reading it no one is forcing you to .. its a public forum set up so any member can post whatever the choose . Right back at you . im no the one moaning about folk posting about clubs " its not a moan its an Observation & and an opinion. | |||
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