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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how open are you with friends and family about your swinging life, most of my friends know and a few of my family lol

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

I keep it pretty quiet....my professional body would take a dim view...but i think a few close friends suspect I get up to no good on occasion ......E x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

erm we hope to feck none of our friends or family know.....not exactly kind of thing i would share with my workmates on a monday morning lol.

jason

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"erm we hope to feck none of our friends or family know.....not exactly kind of thing i would share with my workmates on a monday morning lol.

jason"

Whyever not? You'll probably find it'd be the most exciting thing in many of their lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most my friends know..but only 1 of my

close family know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

gav,s work mates love to hear what he's been upto at the weekend lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"gav,s work mates love to hear what he's been upto at the weekend lol"
i bet they do.....i will just stick with telling my colleagues i watched the x factor lol jason

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By *notNinaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

we keep it as discrete as possible. We both have one 'vanilla' friend each who knows about it - i think we'd go mad not being able to talk about it to someone.... lol

can't spread it further than that for career reasons - some things are best just kept private

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By *rs kemeaCouple
over a year ago

angus

i keep it pretty low key as well. Dont think it would go down well if the work or even my other employer found out.

Kev

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my family and friends know(courtesy of ex when we split)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keeping it quiet from my mates as theyd want to jion and knowing them theyd fuck the whole thing up !! swinging sites are for swingers i believe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my immediate family know as do generally all of my friends. It's quite nice really cause they come to me with advice and stories of things gone wrong and I can always assure them of something that's happened to me that was worse!

I rather believe that if your ashamed of what you are doing then you shouldn't be doing it in the first place. I do however realise that no one everyone has that luxury though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

professionaly for me it would be hello job centre!! none of my close friends know and dont feel the need to tell them i dont think they would see me different but as far as im concerned i dont know what goes on in their bedroom they dont need to know what goes on in mine!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we keep it fairly quiet.......small world we have found out !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we keep it quiet too from friends and family, but if we told some off our customers our shop would be mobbed..........pmsl mwah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

close family and friends know, but my friends suspected me of being a swinger even before I was, so nothing really changed!

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By *inesawineWoman
over a year ago

fife

No family know, but a couple of very close friends do. I like to keep my business to myself, im no one to shout about it.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i keep it pretty low key as well. Dont think it would go down well if the work or even my other employer found out.

Kev"

I agree Kev - lmao we could be banged up in the cell next to each other

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By *lackbird186Man
over a year ago

west glasgow

ehhhhh what are friends lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont tell anyone, not because we are ashamed of what we do but because we have kids, I'm pretty sure the mothers at the kids foootie team would luv the gossip. Its a personal thing, if you tell folks thats cool but I do think if you are single then its a bit easier as u only have your self to answer too.

Have felt the urge a few times though to tell my brother but have always shat ma self

PS Malc here btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont tell anyone, not because we are ashamed of what we do but because we have kids, I'm pretty sure the mothers at the kids foootie team would luv the gossip. Its a personal thing, if you tell folks thats cool but I do think if you are single then its a bit easier as u only have your self to answer too.

Have felt the urge a few times though to tell my brother but have always shat ma self

PS Malc here btw"

been tempted to tell my brother aswell but knowing him it would make its way back to scotland from oz in no time !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the 64 million dollar question, To Tell or Not Too Tell, in our case if we wanted to totally shock,devastate, and rearange reality for every vanilla we know, not to mention head to the next job centre then we would blab We'r not ashamed of what we do, but our relatives, kids and the rest do still have to live in the blinkered world we call reality, so with that in mind we probably wouldn't go advertising in the local press.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought Discretion was a major part of Swinging

Buboo

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"I thought Discretion was a major part of Swinging

Buboo "

It is but discretion isn't about saying nothing at all. It's about using your judgement in what you say to who.

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By *_mac55Couple
over a year ago

Perth

we dont tell anyone what we get up to mainly to stay diecrete - the idea that we are doing something secretive and sooo horny is such a buzz.

Being illicit or furtive is the best bit of discretion - we sometimes talk in chat about experiences, but never ever ever say who we've met, or where...

Swing World is our own wee place where we go when we can - no one lives there except those we have been lucky enough to meet!

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