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"This seems to be a common thread the last week or so. Been seeing a lot of status updates and posts regarding regular play pals. Is it that hard to find a regular playmate? I mean, I strike out consistently, but I’m a dude and there is stiff competition…. Still I keep a brave face and continue on in the hopes that ill find mine. However the ladies seem to be having the same issue? Is it simply overwhelming with the amount of messages y’all receive? Just curious. Thought I would try to spark more than a list of folk shouting ‘I’m in!’ For the record. I’m in. Lol" Yes it is hard to find as so many idiots on here. | |||
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"Yes it is hard to find as so many idiots on here." Fair dues. There’s always an idiot who spoils it for everyone it seems | |||
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"I'm in.......although finding The Lost City of Atlantis would be easier!!! " well I am sure you get many men wanting you. | |||
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"This seems to be a common thread the last week or so. Been seeing a lot of status updates and posts regarding regular play pals. Is it that hard to find a regular playmate? I mean, I strike out consistently, but I’m a dude and there is stiff competition…. Still I keep a brave face and continue on in the hopes that ill find mine. However the ladies seem to be having the same issue? Is it simply overwhelming with the amount of messages y’all receive? Just curious. Thought I would try to spark more than a list of folk shouting ‘I’m in!’ For the record. I’m in. Lol" Definitely the same issue for women, finding decent guys is more difficult than you seem to think. As well as the usual idiots, there are guys who seem decent, then suddenly ghost etc. Spoils it for us all. | |||
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"This seems to be a common thread the last week or so. Been seeing a lot of status updates and posts regarding regular play pals. Is it that hard to find a regular playmate? I mean, I strike out consistently, but I’m a dude and there is stiff competition…. Still I keep a brave face and continue on in the hopes that ill find mine. However the ladies seem to be having the same issue? Is it simply overwhelming with the amount of messages y’all receive? Just curious. Thought I would try to spark more than a list of folk shouting ‘I’m in!’ For the record. I’m in. Lol Definitely the same issue for women, finding decent guys is more difficult than you seem to think. As well as the usual idiots, there are guys who seem decent, then suddenly ghost etc. Spoils it for us all. " well the man that get you regular will be a very lucky man. | |||
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" Definitely the same issue for women, finding decent guys is more difficult than you seem to think. As well as the usual idiots, there are guys who seem decent, then suddenly ghost etc. Spoils it for us all. " On behalf of all the good guys, I’m sorry for the idiots out there wasting everyone’s time This really seems like a generational thing sometimes. I dunno. I know it’s different. But it’s also the same…… I’m a chef, it’s not just a clever name , the amount of people who book a table in a restaurant then no show leaving the restaurant short and scrambling is staggering. It’s only been in recent years though. It was a ‘trend’ about a year or so before covid. And now it’s just the worst. It just seems to happen over and over. People making a commitment and ghosting last minute. I hope it goes away soon. | |||
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"I'm in and agree it can seem a daunting task finding suitable for regular. So many hot women to choose from, I simply can't compete. And had some no shows which definitely dents my confidence and in turn has consequences regarding anxiety to arrange subsequent meets. I'm forever optimistic there is someone for me. " I 100% get ur anxiety point. I stopped meeting in summer holidays (single mum had my kid for 7week 24/7) then i had issue with my neighbour shouting abuse calling me a slut(had to get police to her) so at least 2/3month of not meeting.and now my anxiety of getting a meet is thru the roof .i really want to start meeting again&having fun | |||
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" Definitely the same issue for women, finding decent guys is more difficult than you seem to think. As well as the usual idiots, there are guys who seem decent, then suddenly ghost etc. Spoils it for us all. " Yep, seems like a constant uphill struggle trying to be that genuine guy who's not ghosting or being a fucktard. Especially when you're looking for the same sort of thing... | |||
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"In. Say hello ladies " Hello ladies. | |||
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"In. Say hello ladies Hello ladies. " Funny | |||
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"I'm in with the biscuit tin " Ooooo bribery tactic, I like | |||
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"I'm in and agree it can seem a daunting task finding suitable for regular. So many hot women to choose from, I simply can't compete. And had some no shows which definitely dents my confidence and in turn has consequences regarding anxiety to arrange subsequent meets. I'm forever optimistic there is someone for me. " well your profile says you are a very sensual woman | |||
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"Im in" and i bet a few guys wants too be in you | |||
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"I'd really like to find just one person for regular meets but it seems completely impossible to find someone who's relatively normal, not a drug user, doesn't talk to me like im an hooker or have been put here to meet all their sexual desires at the drop of a hat, is someone I find attractive, who can accommodate regularly and actually prefers to meet a person socially first to ensure chemistry is there! " Yeah its not easy to find. | |||
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"Anyone within 30 mins of Dunfermline area would be ideal for us but won’t hold my breath lol" I'd not hold my breath either. But I'd check my dm's?! | |||
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"Id love nothing more than to meet a male couple or female for reg meets.relax chill connection passion and naughty adult fun" If only I was in your age range | |||
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"I'm in" we’ll in Chris good to see ya bud | |||
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"Let’s make something happen here, why don’t you start messaging people that are saying “I’m in” and let’s try sort everyone or some peoples regular issues out? " If only it was as easy as that. | |||
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"Let’s make something happen here, why don’t you start messaging people that are saying “I’m in” and let’s try sort everyone or some peoples regular issues out? If only it was as easy as that. " Are you in like Flynn? | |||
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"Let’s make something happen here, why don’t you start messaging people that are saying “I’m in” and let’s try sort everyone or some peoples regular issues out? If only it was as easy as that. " Yea, filters, preferences etc. It's all a bit of fun however. | |||
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"I'm sorry, but I do have to laugh. Ladies saying it's impossible to find guys, but they have an age limit of....50. Now people can have an age limit of whatever they like, it's their own preference, but it would suggest that younger guys are not into that scenario. So I'm left with the assumption that Fab ladies are.....ageist!! Wasn't always the case, in fact in my experience it was completely the opposite, but then, I was 15 years younger!! Just my tuppence worth. " So you're suggesting that women meet men older than they want just to get regular meets? Their preferences are for a reason. | |||
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"I am in Jigs " i bet your inbox is exploding. | |||
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"I'm sorry, but I do have to laugh. Ladies saying it's impossible to find guys, but they have an age limit of....50. Now people can have an age limit of whatever they like, it's their own preference, but it would suggest that younger guys are not into that scenario. So I'm left with the assumption that Fab ladies are.....ageist!! Wasn't always the case, in fact in my experience it was completely the opposite, but then, I was 15 years younger!! Just my tuppence worth. " Yup agiest and beardist, though least im not asking for a 6ft, 6 pack with a 10 incher | |||
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"I'm sorry, but I do have to laugh. Ladies saying it's impossible to find guys, but they have an age limit of....50. Now people can have an age limit of whatever they like, it's their own preference, but it would suggest that younger guys are not into that scenario. So I'm left with the assumption that Fab ladies are.....ageist!! Wasn't always the case, in fact in my experience it was completely the opposite, but then, I was 15 years younger!! Just my tuppence worth. Yup agiest and beardist, though least im not asking for a 6ft, 6 pack with a 10 incher " Bugger, I'm under 60, nae beard, over 6ft, go to the gym but unfortunately I don't have a tiddler. | |||
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"Thought swinning was all about meeting various people and praticing safe sex or have i missed something " Just because you're meeting various people doesn't mean you can't see some regularly. Do you think it's all about one offs? | |||
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"Thought swinning was all about meeting various people and praticing safe sex or have i missed something Just because you're meeting various people doesn't mean you can't see some regularly. Do you think it's all about one offs? " but that laughs at the true meaning off swinging | |||
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"Thought swinning was all about meeting various people and praticing safe sex or have i missed something Just because you're meeting various people doesn't mean you can't see some regularly. Do you think it's all about one offs? but that laughs at the true meaning off swinging " Well according to one dictionary definition: "Swingers are people who are married or in a long-term relationship and who like to have sex with other people's partners" So guess me, you, and all the other singles should just delete our accounts now? People can use Fab and define swinging however they choose | |||
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"Thought swinning was all about meeting various people and praticing safe sex or have i missed something Just because you're meeting various people doesn't mean you can't see some regularly. Do you think it's all about one offs? but that laughs at the true meaning off swinging Well according to one dictionary definition: "Swingers are people who are married or in a long-term relationship and who like to have sex with other people's partners" So guess me, you, and all the other singles should just delete our accounts now? People can use Fab and define swinging however they choose " Maybe 2 singles could then become swinging partners hmmm where better to meet like minded here or FB?? | |||
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"Thought swinning was all about meeting various people and praticing safe sex or have i missed something Just because you're meeting various people doesn't mean you can't see some regularly. Do you think it's all about one offs? but that laughs at the true meaning off swinging Well according to one dictionary definition: "Swingers are people who are married or in a long-term relationship and who like to have sex with other people's partners" So guess me, you, and all the other singles should just delete our accounts now? People can use Fab and define swinging however they choose " well i guess thats why we will never meet as a regular meet as i have my own mind and look at things differently from you . But we are all allowed our own opinions without looking up a Dictionary or Google | |||
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"Thought swinning was all about meeting various people and praticing safe sex or have i missed something Just because you're meeting various people doesn't mean you can't see some regularly. Do you think it's all about one offs? but that laughs at the true meaning off swinging " I don't think you understand what the swinging lifestyle is. | |||
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"All of you who are in why not organise a big get together?Then you know you're all on the same page, or singing from the same hymn sheet, or on the same bus or...oh please yourselves. " Some of us are in a large group chat but don’t live close enough to meet up with regularly or can’t accommodate. | |||
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"Thought swinning was all about meeting various people and praticing safe sex or have i missed something Just because you're meeting various people doesn't mean you can't see some regularly. Do you think it's all about one offs? but that laughs at the true meaning off swinging I don't think you understand what the swinging lifestyle is." i av to say for around 10yrs on here i think i av a grasp off how it works , | |||
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"Thought swinning was all about meeting various people and praticing safe sex or have i missed something Just because you're meeting various people doesn't mean you can't see some regularly. Do you think it's all about one offs? but that laughs at the true meaning off swinging I don't think you understand what the swinging lifestyle is. i av to say for around 10yrs on here i think i av a grasp off how it works , " Of course you do | |||
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"I'm sorry, but I do have to laugh. Ladies saying it's impossible to find guys, but they have an age limit of....50. Now people can have an age limit of whatever they like, it's their own preference, but it would suggest that younger guys are not into that scenario. So I'm left with the assumption that Fab ladies are.....ageist!! Wasn't always the case, in fact in my experience it was completely the opposite, but then, I was 15 years younger!! Just my tuppence worth. So you're suggesting that women meet men older than they want just to get regular meets? Their preferences are for a reason." Did you atually read my post?? | |||
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"I'm sorry, but I do have to laugh. Ladies saying it's impossible to find guys, but they have an age limit of....50. Now people can have an age limit of whatever they like, it's their own preference, but it would suggest that younger guys are not into that scenario. So I'm left with the assumption that Fab ladies are.....ageist!! Wasn't always the case, in fact in my experience it was completely the opposite, but then, I was 15 years younger!! Just my tuppence worth. So you're suggesting that women meet men older than they want just to get regular meets? Their preferences are for a reason. Did you atually read my post??" Yes. Did you? | |||
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"I’m in, I need a regular so fed up sitting thinking should I meet them or not it’s nice to know what your getting and as I’m shy it means I can build up to more adventurous times with people. But it’s hard to find someone your attracted to with the same wants who is available when you are. " 100% agree a regular or couple of regular means ur not scrolling day in day out to find good sex banter and some1 to push boundaries with . | |||
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"I’m in, I need a regular so fed up sitting thinking should I meet them or not it’s nice to know what your getting and as I’m shy it means I can build up to more adventurous times with people. But it’s hard to find someone your attracted to with the same wants who is available when you are. 100% agree a regular or couple of regular means ur not scrolling day in day out to find good sex banter and some1 to push boundaries with ." Couldn't agree more with what you both have said and it seems to be harder to find that nowadays lol | |||
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