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By *appytourer OP   Man
over a year ago

Newmilns

why is it when you check who has looked at your profile and you go to check theirs you find it hidden - why ?

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By *achelwestlothianTV/TS
over a year ago

Bathgate

I’ve never understood this too

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Probably just to cut down on the amount of messages they get. Maybe they prefer to do their own searching

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Because they want to.

Perhaps they are not meeting at the moment, or have been inundated with messages and are taking time to clear them.

You'll never know the answer so why stress about it?

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Their profile, their choice stop being an absolute moan like percent of the men on hear.

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By *ocktailsdreamsMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Their profile, their choice stop being an absolute moan like percent of the men on hear. "

90 percent of the men on here

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"why is it when you check who has looked at your profile and you go to check theirs you find it hidden - why ?"

Why does it matter? They could have hidden their profile for any reason, and the could have looked at your for any reason.

Some people (usually men, sorry) seem to interpret a profile view as “they’re interested”. If they’ve viewed your profile and haven’t fabbed any photos, sent you a wink, message, or otherwise made their interest known to you, then it is a shaky (and probably very frustrating) assumption to make.

I find I get a spike in profile views when I post in forums. It didn’t mean anyone is interested in me in that sense. More likely they want know what kind of @rse is arguing with them in a thread!

As others (including Elsa) have said…. Let it go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of reasons why folk hide their profiles..but.

When you get friends invites or winks from hidden profiles..wtf??

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

Everyone have their own various reasons...

I agree when you get a wink from hidden profile...

Better one is get a message, profile hidden then blocked...

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Loads of reasons why folk hide their profiles..but.

When you get friends invites or winks from hidden profiles..wtf?? "

Yeah, that one is frustrating.

On a similar theme... My memory is gash, so I tend to block as a sort of aide memoir to “not go there”. This can be for a range of reasons - either an approach has been rebuffed, or we’ve had an unresolvable difference of opinion about something in the forum (e.g. someone who might be otherwise really attractive but has a hang up about bi guys). In the latter it saves either of us wasting our time, and in the former it saves me becoming an accidental nuisance.

If I’m going to block someone I’ll tend to un-fab any pics I’d previously fabbed (not sure if the site does this automatically).

But yeah, winking or inviting from hidden is a bit pointless unless supported by a message of some sort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes i do to stop more messages coming in and obvs if having a rest for fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only one problem with people hiding their profiles. When a hot woman winks at you and you go to reciprocate and you can't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only one problem with people hiding their profiles. When a hot woman winks at you and you go to reciprocate and you can't! "

You can still wink them, just click on the three wee lines at the top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same goes for blocking can block someone back too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only one problem with people hiding their profiles. When a hot woman winks at you and you go to reciprocate and you can't!

You can still wink them, just click on the three wee lines at the top. "

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i’ve just hid mines again, can’t keep up with the messages so gives me a break. like other people have said to work through them, and although my profile does state that i’m not looking to meet anyone new. i still get messages. so hiding is just easier than wasting anyone’s time, sending the same message repeatedly.

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