FabSwingers.com forum: Am I too young?

By *ee2000 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

Hi all I’m a 22 year old guy and I’m fairly new to all of this. Am I too young for the majority of users on here because hardly any profiles are shown when I search when I tick those that want to find my age. I know my profile is a bit barren but im not really confident to post many pictures up especially those that are identifiable. Just looking for advice and help I guess to find someone to get messaging.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I wouldn't say you are too young, it's just that many people on here perhaps don't want to play with people close to their kids ages.

You can put up some decent pics without showing anything identifiable, just needs a bit of imagination. And a decent written profile saying what you're looking for and what you have to offer will also go a long way

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Also write a decent message that is more than 'hi how are you?' A lot of people, myself included, will look at a profile before opening the message and if there's nothing there to attract us then the message will be deleted.

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"Hi all I’m a 22 year old guy and I’m fairly new to all of this. Am I too young for the majority of users on here because hardly any profiles are shown when I search when I tick those that want to find my age. I know my profile is a bit barren but im not really confident to post many pictures up especially those that are identifiable. Just looking for advice and help I guess to find someone to get messaging. "

Of course you are too young. Why would a young lad want to shag old people. Get a nice girlfriend.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You are not too young. But you'll need to accept that many people won't meet someone of your age. |don't fret about it, there is nothing you can do, just be realistic with your expectations.

It would help your chances to take some decent pics and to spend some time beefing up your profile.

It's noticeable that you have already had one meet in the three months you've been on here. Many people wait a lot longer so well done, you must be doing something right

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

There's plenty of people your age who are active on the scene at the moment and I started when I was the same age as you. You just need to improve your profile, and get yourself along to events.

Jigs x

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

Of course he is too young. He is barely out of his teens. If I was you mate I would wait until after I had met someone and spent time in a decent relationship before I started swinging. It may come back to bite you one day.

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

You're only looking for single females, there's a reason they're called unicorns... Single guys looking for single woman isn't swinging in the traditional sense..

Also, no photos is a sure fire way for an empty inbox.

Lots of people (couples) like younger guys but you need to decide if you'd be better getting a POF profile..

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"You're only looking for single females, there's a reason they're called unicorns... Single guys looking for single woman isn't swinging in the traditional sense..

Also, no photos is a sure fire way for an empty inbox.

Lots of people (couples) like younger guys but you need to decide if you'd be better getting a POF profile.. "

Quite right and good advice. Get on a dating site.

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By *ee2000 OP Man
over a year ago

ayrshire

All of the girls on dating sites want a relationship and that’s just not what I’m about at the moment.

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over a year ago

"There's plenty of people your age who are active on the scene at the moment and I started when I was the same age as you. You just need to improve your profile, and get yourself along to events.

Jigs x

Definitely this

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