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Can people be ageist on here?

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By *entlescottiah OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Bellshill

Do people look at the age and not the person on here? Many a good tune can be played they say on an old fiddle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the "-ist" for being prejudiced against ugly cunts? I'll raise my hand to that one.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Against and heightest here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too early lol..ageist and heightest here lol

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Do people look at the age and not the person on here? Many a good tune can be played they say on an old fiddle lol"

Are you contacting people who are much younger/older?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you're not the age there looking for, then that's there choice, not sure its ageist tho.I do sympathize,50 , seems quite a popular cut off point with folks ,and i find that frustrating At times, but its not ageist IMO .

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Nope, we all like what we like and if you are not for them, be it down to age, looks or even chat just accept it for what it is. It's just personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am only interested in meeting peeps of around the same age and have set the age limits accordingly. Maybe not strictly ageist although could be construed as such by some. Can't see anyone loosing any sleep over me not being interested in people between 18-99 years old! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m far more likely to be put off by how someone presents themselves on the forums than I am by their age, height etc.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I don't have any -ists but I spend enough time with younger people, teens to early 30's so I don't speak nor do I understand their language. I also have weans around that age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being as I am now north of 50… there is definitely a feeling of being ‘fab’ shelved on here which is mildly depressing at times…. I console myself with thinking ah well I’ve had a good run at this… maybe it’s time embrace those a slippers after-all lol

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

We have perimeters on the ages we want to meet so if that makes us ageist then so be it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't found my age to be an issue, but people are entitled to like what they like

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

I think everyone have their idea of age they want to meet and it should not be held against them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally have my mail setting as only the age I’m looking for, simply from experience and I don’t get as much abuse or stupid messages and we are all on here for exactly what we want after all. I found 18-34 and 45+ are the ones to send dick pics straight away but only my experience so I stopped it with the filters, life is nicer on here now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spare a thought for those over 99 on here, automatically being discriminated against soon as they hit a century….

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By *ipserviceCoolMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Am finding that the older you are does not help your case, you might be in good shape but if someone thinks that you are to old no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not looking for people just 4 years older than you so you'd be the best one to answer that

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By *IGDADDYBEAR69Man
over a year ago

SCOTLAND


"Do people look at the age and not the person on here? Many a good tune can be played they say on an old fiddle lol"

This goes along the same lines as a video i seen recently about an american women stating you where being discriminating toward obese women if you didnt find her attractive and that you HAD TO find her attractive….

Its all personal preference…

I like mum tums, big butts, big boobs and blondes that my choice you will he different as will everyone else….

This point of you must convey to my beliefs and self entitled point of view is whats wrong with society let alone fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m far more likely to be put off by how someone presents themselves on the forums than I am by their age, height etc. "
That's me f##ked then

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By *ikerBloke...Man
over a year ago

western hemisphere , planet earth

Don’t thinks folks are “ ageist” as such it’s just preferences . Some don’t wanna play with folks young enough to be their kids which i morally agree with , some don’t wanna shag their mums auntie . It’s their/your personal choice at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal preference

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Do people look at the age and not the person on here? Many a good tune can be played they say on an old fiddle lol"

It’s a random question for someone whose age preferences go from 47 years younger to just 3 years older than you…

Are you concerned your preferences make you look ageist?

Just because they say many a good tune etc doesn’t mean you should feel you have to up your age preferences…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the "-ist" for being prejudiced against ugly cunts? I'll raise my hand to that one.! "

Jeezzo, your full off yourself lol, take it you don't look in the mirror much haha.

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By *obbi_sutherlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Dornoch

Expressing a Preference in such matters is merely that.

Nothing "ist" about it.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I do think dismissing anyone on age or height is abit of a hammer approach and negates possible good meets etc.

Although that’s me and no one message’s anyway

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Agree with most. Not ageist, just a preference. It is a bit a annoying at times but so it life. Most people that meet me in real life soon forget the age range or other hang ups they may have/perceive as important. But this is a website and you need to control the flow I guess.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

15 or more years ago I had a comfortable number of meets, all over the country. Now? Nothing. Nil. Zero.

So.......I haven't changed, other than that I'm now 15 or more years older.

Draw your own conclusion!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old age used to be in my head .

But Now it's in my joints too

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

If having age preferences then yes I must be Ageist .

Do I care? no don’t!… my profile my rules

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Don’t thinks folks are “ ageist” as such it’s just preferences . Some don’t wanna play with folks young enough to be their kids which i morally agree with , some don’t wanna shag their mums auntie . It’s their/your personal choice at the end of the day "

Do you think there is 99 year old on here .??not looking just incase

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By *ekked JackMan
over a year ago

South Lanarkshire

They can if they want, no rules against it. A better question is Are people ageist? (Grammar nazi alert. )

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

So you're not ageist when you fancy meeting people 50 years younger, but won't meet people older than you? Oh wait, they can be 3 years older than you, that's ok then

I'm guilty btw, totally ageist and heightist as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say ageist different people are in to different age groups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t thinks folks are “ ageist” as such it’s just preferences . Some don’t wanna play with folks young enough to be their kids which i morally agree with , some don’t wanna shag their mums auntie . It’s their/your personal choice at the end of the day

Do you think there is 99 year old on here .??not looking just incase "

Check out DotCotton’s profile

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee


"Don’t thinks folks are “ ageist” as such it’s just preferences . Some don’t wanna play with folks young enough to be their kids which i morally agree with , some don’t wanna shag their mums auntie . It’s their/your personal choice at the end of the day

Ha ha no way .got to be a kidee on one . Help with the sheets .class

Do you think there is 99 year old on here .??not looking just incase

Check out DotCotton’s profile "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm blocked by many for being too old ..just their preference which is the point of here i suppose - choose to interact with who u fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ageism isn’t a thing on fab, we are all just as keen to meet old boring farts and young immature numpties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are termed “ist” quite easily I find these days, I prefer preference. Especially here, they don’t have to be set in stone but one does need some kind of parameters

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

Not ageism , just personal preference for whatever reason that person has set .

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